Is Ganga an object?

Today's episode was disturbing in one way because throughout the entire Jag-Sumi convo Ganga was standing behind Jagya and Sumitra and listening to them
My question?
Is Ganga an object? Something without feelings?Someone without any self respect?

When Sumitra was mouthing off dialogues like" Why should we care about a stranger" and "Do we have to tolerate Ganga all our lives" nobody seemed to notice or care that Ganga was listening to this. Why is that? Doesn't anybody care if the words hurt or humiliate her?

Sumitra does not want Ganga in her life or house. I may not approve but it's her opinion and I have to respect that. But that doesn't mean she can get away with taunting or hurting Ganga in public

Let me ask Sumitra a question? If Ganga had been a rich, educated woman with a host of brothers to protect her would you have dared to insult her in such a thorough manner and treat her in a way you treat a dog? Would you?

I have sometimes felt that the Badi Haveli family are a little prompt to treat Ganga as someone who has no opinions of her own and someone who can be taken for granted. Yes, I agree they have done a great deal for Ganga but that does not give them the right to consider her as a pet which can be disposed of or treated in whichever way they wish. First Dadisa emotionally blackmails her into staying, then Sumi decides she doesn't want her, then Jagya drags her into hospital quarters, then Sumi publicly humiliates her while Dadisa looks on quietly...I mean, she is not a toy, but a real live human being with human emotions and you can't play with her like this!!!

Ganga might take all the insults and stay quiet, but that's only because of the loyalty and gratitude she feels for the Singhs. Does that mean they can walk all over her, whenever and wherever they please and turn her into their personal servant?

Either tell the girl to clear off in the beginning or commit yourself to helping her and STICK to IT. Don't toy with her life


HELPING SOMEONE DOES NOT MEAN YOU OWN THEM

ranitha do u notice sumi look towards manu ..she looking at manu as if manu is going to kill her family .instead of smiling at small kid she is giving fearful and hateful look to kid .sumi feeling scare and hatred towards kid too this has destroy sumi character .

But dear - isn't that the very reason that Jagya chose to stand there and defend her and explain why and how far he intends to support her for ?

I don't see where Ganga was treated as an object by the Singh family members.

well, don't think ganga was treated as an object as jagan, basant, gehnna were always with her.

but why was sumitra shouting at the top of her voice in the hospital...her first reaction as per her character on seeing ganga & mannu should have been of relief that they are safe...which was not so...she was shocked and angry...what does that mean...that she just doesnt care whatever happened to ganga & the kid 😡...i think she is simply scared that ganga may become jagan's beendi soon 😆..that she may take place of dear anandi in singh family...and the biggest reason...sumitra has realized that ganga is very much like anandi 😊 and sanchi is not! and that her son is sub-consciously attracted to ganga and hasn't yet realized it 😉...and guess sumitra doesn't want anyone to take anandi's place 😕

also she wants an uncomplicated wife for her son 😆 but she has no idea what she will be getting into with sanchi.

This is in continuation of my previous post in this thread.

I think what is needed is - clarity about Sumitra's feelings, fears, thoughts, ambitions.

excellent post...and i agree with u...

Interesting post. I feel ganga not speaking is better because the family is having a heated argument. Except sumitra, Everyone in the family is kind to her. Ganga does not hate sumitra. She is just numb at the turn of events.