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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
if ganga is cry in front of manu then she share her happiness in front of manu too like when she pass exam she said to manu gladly manu i have passed and she did not cry in front of manu when she come to know sanchi come for proposal .she cry in private and in mothers day in temple scenes in holi scenes there r lots of scenes where manu and ganga share smile with each other and these manu ganga scenes r very pleasant .

she cried for jagya but she does not give up career .yesterday it proove that for her career is most important not her personal feeling that is why she is very happy when she come to know that she got admission otherwise she would have started crying in the name of leaving haveli

and when ganga enter in house sumi started saying anandi hoti to aisa kurti hai .why to compare .if u feel ganga make mistake then tell her that u have mistake by why to compare .and when sanchi doing aarti making kheer for jagya sumi has no problem with sanchi but when ganga cooking food for jagya birthday this sumi has great problem with ganga ?? and whatever harm is doing ratan not ganga so sumi should show her anger to ratan not to this ganga .
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62
the people of jaitsar are like brainless herd of cattle (sorry for the language)..these guys show wierd reactions at wierd situations, each and every time..sumi is being butchered the same way, earlier gauri and jagya were..diff is tht anandi was the damsel in distress tht time, and its ganga now..and are we talking of anandi being anti-superstitious?? thts a joke, the very next episode precap, our "modern" anandi is going paranoid over a diya going off miraculously and wondering what bad is going to happen..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

N ext step of Sachi will be to oust Anandi out of Sumitra's heart and this will be after Ganga



she is not fit to be a bahu of any house , traditional or modern period

she has bitchy traits and the power to corrupt even elders who have life experience for her benefit

she will create rifts in her marital home and do groupism

she will use Sumitra by buttering her till she gets married then cut Jagya from his family

She has not targeted the emotionally stable Bhairon , she targeted the emotionally weak Sumitra and played on her fears to achieve her purpose

She is even merciless to that child Mannu

horrible girl

that Australia guy had a narrow escape

i hold Shekhars responsible partly for this as they have condoned each act of hers as bachpana

they r trying to foist their spoilt uncontrollable daughter on some nice family when she does not have a single quality to become a wife or bahu

someone should blast Ira coz she spoils her the most and Daddu and Alok should slap her

Even Shiv sees her with blinders only Mahi is sometimes right

And of course Anandi sees her more clearly as she sees her objectively like Ganga observed Jagya

both know these individuals for some months but since they r outsiders r more objective while families r blind


i agree kools..sachi is a blight..of the worst kind..the category of people who can ONLY think bad for others..am yet to see her genuinely happy for another human, irrespective of who they are..and sumi is just becoming another idiot who is blinded by the fakeness of sachi.. i dislike THT..sumi was a sane person earlier..she saw things as they were..she dint have the courage to stand up for what she believed in front of DS, but atleast knew in her mind the diff btwn right and wrong..but look at her now..her behaviour with mannu is so bad, its as if she aint human..how can ANYBODY be so rude to a toddler??use the child's innocence to carry on a vendata against his mother?? the CVs have butchered sumi beyond my imagination..atleast in gauri's case, i was prepared tht she is going to be turned evil, to make anandi look great..but this is ridiculous.. the whole ganga Vs sachi track CUD have happened without sumi turning into a banshee..it was an unnecesary twist and defo not liked by me..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Sumitra is yelling because noone dares to yell at her. even dadisa.

@ red: tht is yet another blooper..the sumitra who cudnt even talk in raised voices is now lashing at others, in fron t of DS who she was pretty much petrified of..😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#65
To start with ,
I didnt say anything about ilicit relationship , blunt cheating or compared that with BV and movie.
Where did oragnes and apples come from???. I have no idea.

I explained how love is also something that should be processed through brains as well. I didnt say anything bad about Ganga yet. I maintain my stance that Love is uncontrollable feeling but one should process it and evaluate their stand in it. If you cant control Love for someone then the same is shown in the movie. So please only look at the love part of it and please read properly before jumping guns at me. I no way said Ganga is cheap or is cheating or having affair with jagat. She is a yet to be divorcee, who has legal tangles all over her to get rid off and she is not self sufficient at all and all she thinks is Jagya, which is a very bad message for viewers. i would never suggest anyone of her stand to go ahead with love. Get divorce, take your time, stand up on your legs and then go ahead with anything else. She can't even earn her food, can't provide for mannu, still legally bounded by law with monster ratan, and all she thinks is jagya. Arey get rid of your first before you can think of another.
Also she is the only person, whom i liked for reminding jagya that he wronged gawari too and looks like she also forgot that jagya didnt close that door and I am afarid some day or other the shock will wait and lurk around until its time to hit.

As of now, Ganga didn't know she loves jagya??? But anandi knows it. How???
Why does she have to cry if her saviour is getting to married? if sachi gets shagun she will cry why?. Is it her's in first place??. even jagya have not yet shown one frame of what ganga has towards him but Ganga is seriously building so much feeling that she is getting hurt and cries all the time these days.
For saachi it is evident Ganga has feelings for jagya. Yet ganga can't find what kind of feelings she has? I dont believe Ganga is just being friend with jagya. Not anymore. She is clearly in love, she clearly knows what she has in her heart and yet she wouldn't act on it or maintain her distance.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: parri814


Asru, I understand your misgivings about the scene, but view what I said in the full context. Ganga does not realize what or why exactly she feels the way she does for J. We have taken the IMPLiCATION of the scene and deduced what we wanted as per our frames of references. But in no way is J Ganga's lover YET. About her crying to Manu, that's her 'safe' place. That's where she does not feel judged and whom she is closest to. In her confused state of emotions she does not realise yet the affect of her weeping on her child. Does she need to be berated for it? Yeah it may irk some of us but that does not mean she is sinning.

J and Ganga have NOT yet realized what they mean to each other, forget verbalising it. So how does societal rules even factor in? And even once they do realise it, what WILL society think? The same society thinks nothing of Jagyas ex wife's NAND now marrying Jagya, so why would they have a problem with Ganga when Ganga is SEPARATED from her ABUSIVE husband and divorce proceedings are in the works.



Agree about your view on what society might think about J, G and what it is thinking now about J and Anandi's newly shaped relationship. I'm not worried about that. I seriously don't care two hoots about that even in real life let alone in a serial. I find it funny how the people of Haveli and Jester can be ultra modern and extremely superstitious at the same time, though.

I also agree that Ganga crying in front of Mannu SEVERAL TIMES is not a SIN in real sense. But that does irk me. And i dislike the way she conveniently forgets how she is dumping all negativity and sadness in her one and only one belonging-Mannu , in the process of making herself feel better👎🏼. If i see such a woman in real life and if i could really voice my opinion, i would advice her to cut the crap and start teaching some good stuff to her baby instead of using the baby as a dumping bag.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#67
Dunno about others but speaking only for myself

i would NOT tell an abused woman to 'cut the crap ' . Why ? Simple . I have not suffered what she has . she has seen a totally different life than me and her experiences r not mine . When i haven't gone through one fourth of what she has who am i to advise her or judge her ?

But i respect those who feel that way . The above views r strictly for me alone . It also does not matter to me that she cried in front of her child several times not just twice . She leads a life full of fear and emotional turmoil , thats her character .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm with Kools on this. I respectfully disagree too and just want to state my case, not change anyone's view. As I said before, everyone sees things through their own filters and it's their prerogative.

As for Anandi knowing how Ganga feels...isn't that the case most of the time? Someone on the outside can see things more objectively than the person actually involved in a situation.

Ganga's crying does not affect me because they have shown her playing with Manu as Surabhi mentioned too. In my humble opinion, crying does not weaken a person nor does is show lack of discipline nor will it bring forth life changing negativity to her child. Crying is good for the soul. It takes courage and strength to show emotions like tears. It doesn't make one weaker. The message Mannu would probably take away (in my optimistic mind) is that it's okay to cry and you are not less of a person if you do. It's better to vent pent up frustrations through tears than through other means that could cause harm. Isn't it enough that society encourages men to not weep or show emotion. Mannu could grow up to be more sensitive to his female counterparts.

I think the thing to remember is that Mannu the character seeing his 'mum' cry should not be confused with psychological concerns for the child artiste. Psychological concerns for the child artiste which was so brilliantly brought up by Hooked is a serious concern and has it's merits which I do agree with.

This is just my opinion.

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