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Posted: 12 years ago
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As much as I want to understand or even empathize with Sumitra or even justify her recent behavior, I just can't. Yes we applauded her for some of the SIMILAR behaviors with Gauri, but there was a huge difference. Gauri was doing wrong. Here Ganga is mre like at the wrong place at the wrong time, or even if shes not, she is still blamed. Sumitra has become unreasonable, plain and simple. How is it Ganga's fault if others compare her to Anandi or praise her to be like Anandi. It's like saying to an African American boy to watch how he walks or he will be attacked like Trayvon Martin.

Sumitra, is a grown woman who has up until now always been in the shadows, murmuring niceties or not but we never focused much on her because she was never so unjustly decisive. Whenever she very rarely showed her decisiveness it was in a just context. She has lost all reason. I was once told a looong time ago by a female teacher that every woman has a 'bi*#h' inside of her. She just needs to bring it out. I guess Sumitra is exploiting that potential now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can understand the mother's heart defence , i really can

that any mother would be afraid for her son exactly the same way Sumitra is

but there is a small hitch here

Ganga saved Gehna

Gehna has her life due to Ganga

Ganga proritized Gehna

and all know that

even Sumitra

so while being slightly irritated is ok , her mean lashing out is way out of line
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I saw the precap and it is clearly is only a dream.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: parri814

As much as I want to understand or even empathize with Sumitra or even justify her recent behavior, I just can't. Yes we applauded her for some of the SIMILAR behaviors with Gauri, but there was a huge difference. Gauri was doing wrong. Here Ganga is mre like at the wrong place at the wrong time, or even if shes not, she is still blamed. Sumitra has become unreasonable, plain and simple. How is it Ganga's fault if others compare her to Anandi or praise her to be like Anandi. It's like saying to an African American boy to watch how he walks or he will be attacked like Trayvon Martin.


Sumitra, is a grown woman who has up until now always been in the shadows, murmuring niceties or not but we never focused much on her because she was never so unjustly decisive. Whenever she very rarely showed her decisiveness it was in a just context. She has lost all reason. I was once told a looong time ago by a female teacher that every woman has a 'bi*#h' inside of her. She just needs to bring it out. I guess Sumitra is exploiting that potential now.




But whatever Sumitra did with Jagya and even with Gauri - it was for her love for Anandi and her wish to keep her family united. There was no question of righteousness or morality. Plain and simple. 😊

For Sumitra, Gauri was the reason for which Jagya went far from them. Although, it was completely Jagya's decision, but Sumitra hated Gauri for that and even could not forgive Jagya despite his repeated attempts to help Anandi or Bade haveli people. She only accepted him back after he returned to them leaving Gauri.

Same thing with Ganga - Sumitra is scared to lose her son for Ganga and she is worried for her family too. To her GAnga would be the reason which might snatch JAgya from her again.

Edited by doyelpakhi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now is the right time for ganga to leave the house.

And she should not go back to that house again.

And anandi should not convince her to go on swallowing insults.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: doyelpakhi




But whatever Sumitra did with Jagya and even with Gauri - it was for her love for Anandi and her wish to keep her family united. There was no question of righteousness or morality. Plain and simple. 😊

For Sumitra, Gauri was the reason for which Jagya went far from them. Although, it was completely Jagya's decision, but Sumitra hated Gauri for that and even could not forgive Jagya despite his repeated attempts to help Anandi or Bade haveli people. She only accepted him back after he returned to them leaving Gauri.

Same thing with Ganga - Sumitra is scared to lose her son for Ganga and she is worried for her family too. To her GAnga would be the reason which might snatch JAgya from her again.


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It's not entirely so simple or absolute. She did not behave simply out of only love but also out of a sense of morality. She saw the situation for what it was. A married man having an affair, betraying his wife and the encouraging his family to kick his wife out because HE no longer had ties with her. This outraged Sumitra. The ethical and moral aspect also very strongly played a factor.

Ganga may be challenging the so called 'unity' and safety of her family by her very presence in the home but the biggest motivating factor here is not that Ganga is going to 'take away' her son from her, but that Ganga is NOT a virginal bride. That's the elephant in the room. Everything else (safety, unity) is merely excuses to justify her mindset. I have a feeling eventually Jagya will say he want to marry Ganga, Sumitra will say no, she has a child, and then either Gauri or her parents will turn up and say , hey here's your child and Jagya will taunt Sumitra about who will marry him now, even he has a child.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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sumi has turned great hypocrite .now for sumi right and wrong thing .depends upon persons doing that thing .she has turn partial too that is why when everything is clear infront of sumi still she behave rudely with ganga and moreover as mother of two children she is unable to understand behaviour of small kid

lastly sumi started feeling insecure because of ratan due to sanchi instigation now another reason for her insecurity that is manu ???

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Now is the right time for ganga to leave the house.

And she should not go back to that house again.

And anandi should not convince her to go on swallowing insults.

But I bet, she will not leave the house. Jagya will shortly enter the house and he will see her in tears. Then he will ask her why she is crying and she will cry little more. Finally he will give her some of his gyan and convince her to stay.

She is in the house bec she is his friend. And helping her is his idea of going through penance. So what if jaan-leva hamla was made on him?

I wonder when sanchi will realise this and wake up from her nightmarish dream? Why is she insulting Ganga ? It is she who will be a bakra in the end.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sumitra is a crap...in my last post elated to Sumitra i did support her for being a mother and erupting due to her fears but here when i saw the whole situation i think it was wrong of Sumitra to scold her like this and tell her that her interfered in rasams because she herself saw Saanchi was the one to take care of Mannu and now i think Sumitra has whole right to scold Saanchi because she is her bahu...she is forgetting all logical reasoning and it's so stupid...Shekhars and Sumitra will fall very hard on ground for believing in Saanchi...wish it happens like that in end instead of every just giving 'past is past' look to Saanchi and accepting her like she was just a child who got wild 😡

I want Ganga to leave house because then something will happen to her or Mannu and when whole family will come to know of the reason they will blame Sumitra for it...or maybe Sumitra will finally realize her mistake
Edited by libsrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#30
i don't understand one thing

if they r that progressive enough to not think that a widow doing god bharaai is apshakun

where does the thinking or belief come in that a small child spilling something is a bad omen or apshakun😕

how can the same family members and villagers be that lop sided and why was not this asked

Sumitra was smiling like a progressive broad minded lady when Dadisa did the god bharaai

yet she was yelling like an illiterate at Ganga and Mannu😕

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