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love sunshine gauri parents does not poison gauri mind in adult hood .they clearly says if u marry jagat u will call second beendni of jagat in front of society .but gauri says if i do not marry jagat jagat will not go to anandi and three lives that is me jagat and anandi lives will be destroy (i am still unable to undersatand this gauri logic to agree to marry with jagya) so no option left in front of gauri parents they have agree with their daughter

surabhi i do ot say that gauri married jagya because of her moms advice...she married on her own..thats her mistake no doubt..

but the other poisoning of her mom agianst anandi and that bhabhooti advice was totally her mom's..

yes in that case mom giving advice about bhabhoot is wrong and gauri taking that advice is wrong .infact gauri problem is not childhood rejection but anandi and she says one day that i am fed up of this anandi name everytime anandi after all who is anandi and when she come to know her marriage is illegal she decided to leave jagya but afterwards she agree to live with him and then misbehaving with anandi out of insecurity .if she think if her life is insecure because of illegal marriage then she should have leave jagya permanetly instead of achieving legal marriage and securting her life by immoral way

Why does she become evil if she chooses to abort the child?? She has a right over her body. Whether abortion is a form of murder or not is a matter of personal opinion - there is no absolute moral truth with regards to this.

when god has decided to send child in world that who is anyone stop child coming into world out of no reason .

We dont know for sure that gauri aborted that kid. it is still a dangling open end where cv's eat our brains with spoon.


Abortion is both ethical and unethical. Its not that rare these days. I have seen women abort because of their social economical and stature conditions. I cannot put my finger on them. they are nice people and abortion is a personal choice. The mother alone has the right to choose to grow or terminate the fetus. rather than harming themselves and getting branded. people these days choose that option.

Everyone has a right over their body. Though i would hate gauri if she choose so coz i feel her reasons are not good enough. her husband left her in anger that she insulted his parents. Abortion was not a solution for her problems. How do we know that she has not redeemed. No one will question jagya but who is father of this leftover womans son will be a razor blade question for gauri. Is it so easy to bring a child singlehandedly.? What will she answer her status as? If she is not moved on and left alone? Single mothers path is full of thorns and they endure no less hell. All these questions need to be answered by Cv's . Her character was used to garner TRPs and when they have another character handy they left her character dangling in mid air.

.how can be it personal choice until u have no harm on ur body because of pregnancy complication .it is totally condemn activity that u want to abort ur baby out of hatred u r angry with some one and that anger u r showing angry to baby .this is utter bad decision by gauri

Haven't read the whole thread...but my few cents on Gauri's topic. Of course my fav topic☺️

Originally posted by: samvi.

Haven't read the whole thread...but my few cents on Gauri's topic. Of course my fav topic☺️

Deciding to abort a baby is still ok, if the mother really doesn't want it as her physical body will be involved in it for a year! But killing the baby all by herself and putting the blame on others is plain disgusting. If u can't blame urself for what you did , atleast stop blaming others and stop playing the victim card.

Anyways Gauri's character turned really bad and she did annoying things which can't be forgiven until and unless she feels sorry about those actions, acknowledges it..and takes some punishment for it just like all the other characters in BV underwent some pain before they changed for good. If rapists(Basant and his dad) can be turned into good men in this serial, so can an insecure and a mentally imbalanced person(Gauri) .

If the Cv's can turn J's character topsy turvy from an MCP to a most desirable guy for whom two women would drool ...then am sure they can bring back G and either put a proper end to their relationship or build it up from the roots after bringing the required change in her.

If G repents and get punished just as J did once, it would show how J-G suffered and had to go through so much to get back together. So it won't even give a bad message.

@Samvi

red highlighted sentence...its bang on..and wonderfully said👏kudos to you..

i think again cV's redeemed the MCP's and people like rapists basant and his father...then why not gauri...

if i look at this in the bigger picture overall the cv's have portrayed that men can redeem, and can be accepted even if they have done two/ three marriages (jagya) and raped women...but if a women commits grave mistakes like in case of gauri ...there is no way out for her ...

why cant gauri be shown as redeemed? i dont think gauri is as bad as basant or his father who were rapists..😡

also this is the very reason i think women should support and understand each other rather than pointing out each others mistake and getting insecure jealous of other women...

see even here on the forum jagya is getting all the attention and consideration because he is shown as redeemed on the show...

but gauri is not because the cv's have not redeemed her..

in fact i will never really like jagya completely because all these situations arised because JAGYA STRAYED from anandi and lied to both the women and got both the women involved with him, physically, mentally and emotionally...

the redemption of jagya is good but still i will never call im doodh ka dhula..

Hmm you have point sunshine but we are talking about Indian community here.
Changes and equality and rights are good in books and new papers and debates but when it comes to reality the picture is entirely different. Recently i saw a picture from newspaper where the contestants are women because of the reservation they have in that area. But the contestants was standing near the door watching away where their husbands are filing their respective nominations. That is the situation with women.

Our's is patriarchal(men) based community. Even if you look in vedas , there were several qualities listed for what a wife should have there is no such yard stick again for the guys. Restrictions apply only for woman. Even in west , when wars wage, wealth and woman are carrified off by the winners as if wealth(commodity) == women.

Where is the equality of women we want to talk about?. If i say this people will say let the society talk why do she/he has to care?? They have to care because they choose to live in a society not in a forest. if you choose to live in society then even if the system is not quite right you will have to obey it and try to change it with time. I believe given time, the loneliness and emptiness will teach enough lesson to gauri. If that's not enough the upbringing of child or question posed by the baby/society will open her eyes for realization of her mistake. being a single mother is far more easier in talk but reality sucks.

Bottomline even society give chances to men compared to woman. If a man stray woman has to adjust and weave her nest tight. if a woman does the same she will be ill treated by everyone she knows and her life will be miserable. I have seen divorced guys with kids get married faster than woman with kids. If she has baggage it's a no. If he has a baggage, he is giving you life accept that baggage with grin. such is our society. Which is evolving and will keep on evolving to times unknown.