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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: .Shona93

get over gauri you guys...she aint coming back!

short post but a fact😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: sushiani


what's wrong in that, he genuinely learned lessons n morals from his life.. may be some took the message in other way

Sush how he can talk about women rights He should shut up Here the rule applies a person cannot apply the lessons he learnt and moreover Gauri is such a big victim until he don't give her rights to her which includes Gauri can do wrong and become victim He has no right to be angry she has every right to be inhuman to him but that 's ok he should be stick to her 🥱


Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

f Jagaya was expecting Anandi to mourn for him all her life he was wrong If Jagaya was expecting Anandi to forgive him he was wrong if Jagaya was forcing Anandi to forgive him he was wrong we all call him wrong there but why we expect him to mourn for Gauri when she is not interested to see even his face after doing wrong to him ? He has forgiven her but why we expect him to keep making rounds and rounds of her when she has proved to him very well she don't care for him so what he should do ? why he is suppose to do all while she keeps rejecting him if she doesn't want to be with him he sincerely backed away its up to her now why he is suppose to make rounds of her when she don't care?😳

Jagaya is justified in his anger Anyone would have found it difficult to condone what Gauri did after they found out the extent of her lies and abuse of his own family by her and lying about it. Jagaya had stood up for Gauri and was with Gauri on so many issues. He kept saying - I chose her and I will stick by her and he was true to his word. He was good to her and her parents but she was never good to his parents. She was never true to Jagaya. She went out of her way to be nasty to his family and hid it again and again. Even when she found out Bhairo was her biggest and only benefactor - she went and chose to spew the vilest insults about it despite knowing very well Jagaya will not like it .and is it that we are forgetting it or we deliberately drop it down the BIGGEST BETRAYAL she gave to him about HIS CHILD'S DEATH ? That was the biggest betrayal she gave to him She hid truth from him and deliberately twisted the truth. to turn his grief into an anger on Anandi and she hid the truth from him to achieve her revenge This is the thing which hurt him the most and he asked her you lied to me about this too . What made her lie in this ? A woman who cheats her partner her seven years of love on his child's death Is this woman worthy of even forgiveness from him ? Its the goodness that can withstand with negativity thats why he has forgiven her otherwise who can here ? It is easy to say but a lot difficult to do in same place

I have said it before - I don't understand why he went to ask for forgiveness from her . I still don't. but he did thats great Her making him wait all day long is proof of her caring. Her refusing to be interested in Jagaya's welfare when Lal Singh had called up also showed that. Gauri rejected him there i don't care Her being petty like this is proof that Jagaya owes her nothing and its all over.

and she didn't only fail in handling his depression after ruining his career she failed very badly on every account to be good partner The woman who lies to her partner about their child's death is not a great partner Jagaya has been far more sincere to her then she ever has been to him

On which basis we are saying the closure is not mutual ?Gauri is still in relationship? She was the first one to reject him on that day go where ever do whatever i don't care for you now She rejected him when lal singh called her , she rejected him when he went to meet her , she is not responding to his letter so this is one sided closure for us 😳which theory calls it one sided closure please enlighten me ? These rejections of Gauri are her true love 😳Jagaya didn't end the chapter until she didn't prove to him he holds no place in her life Thats when he wrote the letter to her otherwise they could continue but this woman is again and again rejecting him so what he can understand from it Come on any person can understand from it she is not willing to continue so why he should be expecting to continue with her ?

What Jagaya could do he has done Its all up to her to earn his forgiveness now That will be her first step to realization and redemption to realize her failures as a wife , failures as a lover , realize her misdeeds to her seven years of love ask forgiveness from him despite he has forgiven still she should without expecting he should accept her Its up to him he accepts her not If he doesn't he is justified Every person has a capacity in him You cannot go on and on to hurt a person then keep rejecting him cruelly then expect he should accept you back and lets have a relationship back Its not some joke Jagaya has given closure from his side a respectful one on a good note no hard feelings no curses for her now its her responsibility to give a respectful closure to him earn his forgiveness

Jagaya has every right to move on in his life Why he should to be forced in a relationship with Gauri?He can never trust her ever because she lost it Broken trusts cannot be rebuild again and again its not like this is Gauri mata 's first misdeed so where this relationship will lead to it will be broken again so its better to move on and Cvs are giving a great message and why is that a person cannot marry again if his previous relationship cannot be continued? Get over from this old thinking a person should die in one marriage no matter it is not working out🥱


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Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: .Shona93

get over gauri you guys...she aint coming back!



Lol, probably true 😆 The CVs couldn't sustain the complexity they started with the characters and story of Jagya and Gauri... so they opted to take the easy way out and completely scrap Gauri's character with Anjum's exit, and then justify that by making the entire 7-year debacle all her fault A real social message would have been the two of them reconciling and attempting to make their marriage work and growing and learning together. At the very least, they should have continued to show Gauri's side of the story and show us what happened to her afterwards... she deserved to have her realisation/redemption/quest for happiness shown as much as Jagya did. I remember there being a fanfic which portrayed this beautifully and was way fairer to all the characters than the CVs have been...


As for Jagya being upset that his family were insulted... he had seen Gauri insult his family in a similar manner numerous times before and done nothing. So why was that particular time any different? 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if i am not wrong Jagaya has yelled at Gauri one million times don't you dare to insult my family She knew it he won't like it thats why she was so scared otherwise why she would be if truth revealed to him i am gone 😕 Jagaya has even made her mom shut up when she was making fun of Sumi and what about her sweet little secret about the child's death 😕and what about her great rejections That was her sweetest innocent love


and cvs have been pretty clear from day one this relationship will not stay otherwise they didn't break them to prove how sacha is their pyar They broke them because relationship was wrong and Gauri was an antagonist of show her conscience has been almost dead unlike Jagaya She will take much time to redeem but just don't understand one thing why she is suppose to redeem because Jagaya did? Many people in the world never realize their misdeeds ever Gauri 's character has been sketched like this it's 0.1 percent chance only she can redeem
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: sidra08

Sush how he can talk about women rights He should shut up Here the rule applies a person cannot apply the lessons he learnt and moreover Gauri is such a big victim until he don't give her rights to her which includes Gauri can do wrong and become victim He has no right to be angry she has every right to be inhuman to him but that 's ok he should be stick to her 🥱



right sid😆

rule is rule
rule not for all😆😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

i want jagya to say to gauri ok u dont want child better u give me that child i and family will take care of that child .why to harm this child because of our quarrel u can marry with anyone else i will take care of child

Surabhi i think gauri must have kept that child and not aborted it ...maybe because of gauri's angry, OTT , extreme nature at that moment she thought o0f aborting the baby...maybe because she was upset and angry abt what happened with her relationship with jagya and all her lies came out. ...

but later when she must have been sober and cooled down she must have kept the baby..i am sure..
Edited by lovesunshine - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Most woman adore kids. They dream of having kids and getting settled in life and work towards betterment of their kids. I am very much sure that gawari must have kept that baby intact.
Coming to the topic what ever relation they had jagya and gawari needs to talk and get a closure before they move on in their life.

Though I have a very strong resentment for gawari's actions, i refuse to believe it is all her mistake. Claps cant be achieved with one hand. Both jagya and gauri are manipulators and they brought out the worst in each other. jagya with his Anandi jaap made gawari more insecure and jealous while gawari took out those insecurities on wrong people at wrong times.

If someone like jagya can redeem I believe gauri can too. After all her hurt is long lived since childhood. Jagya had bad time only for few years but since childhood running away in exile made gauri very bitter. She is a tough nut to crack for sure but after all its a nut and can be cracked.

I dont want jagat to rush into any relationship now. I guess all that he needs now is a cool mind and peace. I wonder why every answer is related with marriage. Marriage is part of life not life. BV is glorifying marriage to end to end terms. Jagya has took his time off now he can think everything and if things are beyond repair, get rid of them and move on. He is no saint with gauri. He ruined her life like she ruined his.

basically i fear their jodi coz they bring out the worst out of each other. Neither ganga nor saachi are fit for him right now. I would say leave that guy alone for a while.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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v will know real condition of baby when gauri again come however gaur thinkingi to abort own child is absoluely shallow thinking of gauri
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Posted: 12 years ago
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People talk a lot when they are angry but when they cool down they wont act impulsively. A child is a very important part of woman. Attachment is boundless between a kid and mother even in case of unborn. I kind of have that hope on gauri. If she chooses to abort that kid for no mistake of it then i will never be able to forgive gauri as a woman.

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