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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ganga was a strong woman when she was introduced. Somehow I do not like the current track, as it is too far away from reality. Ganga did not trust men (but she was so overwhelmed when DS talked to her lovingly- she sure missed some maternal love), but now she will tell all the things only to Jagya. She is now crying like a weak person. The story could have taken forward differently. Jagya rescued Ganga and she was given shelter in haveli. After recovering fully and after she was reunited with Mannu, Ganga decided that she has to be independent. She knows that she is not educated enough, she does not need skills required to earn a living:

Scenario 1: Haveli people insist that she is not a burden and can live with them, but she is hesitant. Bhairo understands that she is a genuine person, in need of help. He suggests Basant to adopt her, because Basant-Gahna wanted a girl. DS agreed and Ganga continue living in haveli as a daughter and started her studies to become self-sufficient in future. Her second marriage may or may not happen.

Scenario 2: Haveli people insist that she is not a burden and can live with them. Ganga agrees but says that she knows household work and she can work for them, she wants to become self-sufficient. Haveli people are hesitant and say that she will not be a burden, but Ganga insists that she will live with them only when she is allowed to work. DS relents and fixes sufficient amount to be paid to Ganga for her work. Or Bhairo could have given her loan to start her own co-operative (achar/papad making etc. - the work she already knows) with other women of Jaitsar. Side by side she continued her studies.

Scenario 3: Haveli people insist that she is not a burden and can live with them. Ganga informs DS that she was moved with the way she was taken care of by hospital staff. They pulled her from the jaws of death. She wanted to work in hospital as a token of gratitude. Since she was unqualified, she wanted to work even as aaya in hospital. Lal Singh/Jagya/Bhairo agreed to employ her in place of the ward boy, who tried to kill her, on the condition that she will study and get necessary qualification. Ganga started working in hospital. She continued her studies and with time, got qualification of nurse.

These are all hypothetical situations because the story has moved on and what they did show is Ganga living in haveli like a bahu/family member, confiding only in Jagya, now in love with Jagya, weeping and saying (to herself) how can she see him with other woman, passed 10th class in two months and applied to nursing college- that too in far away bangalore/mangalore, without even completing 12 th class. She has presumed that she can get all her expenses paid - hostel fees, court fees included by Jagya/Singhs.

Even now they can show her inner conflict - her inner-self asking her why she changed? Why she wants to marry Dactar saa instead of becoming self-sufficient? Singh family has done so much for her, why she is not happy in their happiness?She should not tell anybody about her love for dactarsaa and she should moved on and concentrate on her studies etc. The story can still be made realistic, but we know that Jagya will break his engagement for Ganga - exact situation will be known when the episode is aired.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with your most of points of post ...

i don't know what Cv's wanted to show the present Track...a women like Ganga can became a self empowered woman or Like a girls can fall in love and married to a Rich Guy ...

If at all she marries than we should get about her settling on her own legs ..

either way i am not happy with the track ..their some thing missing to connect with track
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasiraju

I agree with your most of points of post ...


i don't know what Cv's wanted to show the present Track...a women like Ganga can became a self empowered woman or Like a girls can fall in love and married to a Rich Guy ...

If at all she marries than we should get about her settling on her own legs ..

either way i am not happy with the track ..their some thing missing to connect with track

Perhaps CVs just want to show a fairy tale where the girl will eventually marry a rich guy, after a lot of tears due to some rude vamp, an angry (would be) mother-in-law, fighting against her criminal husband and love before divorce, may be some misunderstandings in-between like old Hindi films and lots of gyan in their Voice-Overs.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Perhaps CVs just want to show a fairy tale where the girl will eventually marry a rich guy, after a lot of tears due to some rude vamp, an angry (would be) mother-in-law, fighting against her criminal husband and love before divorce, may be some misunderstandings in-between like old Hindi films and lots of gyan in their Voice-Overs.


Its looking Like BV writers are lack of ideas these days 😆...For once if they wanted to show fairy tale than ok ..but let her live her life first ..she has gone through so much ..wanted to do some thing on her own..Don't she need a break after seeing such harassment ..why they are hell bent to show her making suguna,sumitra and ghehna ...

if they wanted to show her as wife of jagdish than why nautanki on her education ..let her be doing seva all the time and one day ..they think she is the best for jagiya ..who loves the life as it ..end of the story


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Posted: 12 years ago
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You have a point. I loved Ganga the way she was introduced, woman fighting for her rights wants to be independent and raise her son. But after getting into haveli CVs have slowly made her charecter debatable.

- She cries for her child and then forgets about him. Happy to do kitchen work smiling with DS on staircase. Shouting at villagers i have tolerated enough.
- Good sign she wanted to study become nurse. But started falling for DS. What are they trying to show? If you show some gestures to a struggling woman she will fall for you?
- Her too inquisitiveness Anandi Ji aur DS ka bachcha nehi hua. apne DS ko liye kuch nehi banaya is just next to irritating. Village Gossip mentality.
- Her behaviour when Sanchi and Jagya are together intruding shows she is actually put her in place of DS close ones without any logic. Look at her dialogue, mannu chal hum shne jayenge, mannu i do not want to come in between their happiness - ? Jagdish have never told her that he loves her and he is marrying only because of family wants.
- Putting her opinion to DS about rishta may create a doubt that she actually thinks that she is ideal for Jagya.
There are quite a few controversial behaviour shown by her, so may be she will be a grey shade. Whatever, Ganga is not second Anandi, Anandi is Anandi. You just cannot bring another Anandi in the form of Ganga. Anandi's falling in love for shiv is logical, sweet. Barring the darr drama she has been shown quite logical in her relationship with shiv.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't like her behaviour at present, but I don't think she will be a grey charecter. She is a good person, but her love story developed a bit too earlier and in a wrong way. CVs missed to show struggle - happiness and also disappointment of a girl who fled from torture and wanted to become independent. Instead they are showing a super fast education, loving someone before getting divorce, her priorities have changed.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM - I agree with you... this Ganga has turned out to be a total disappointment.

I remember having an argument over Ganga with another esteemed member of the forum. I feel ashamed that I supported such a character once ...

Nevertheless, her character is not butchered is what I feel now ... She was always acting like a coward... Running away from a situation is not at all a sign of bravery, if that is what some people think. You got to stay where you are and solve your problems with proper plan of actions.

But everytime ganga was shown acting on the spur of the moment without going into the depth of her problem.

She ran away from Ratan's house not only without making any plans but also not taking a penny along with her. She took the child along with her, but she did not think how she was going to feed that child. Maybe her plan was to beg on the streets along with the child.

To her luck, she found Singhs who were kind not only to give her shelter in their house but also to help her stand on her feet by studying nursing couse. They are not indebted to her in any way, but they are doing it out of humanity. But madam now wants to leave that house because her dream man is marrying someone else.

Her fugitive character is showing up again... she is pressurising Jagya while alone with him to get her admission asap... she wants to go away from that house, moreover, she wants to go not because she wants to start her career but bec she cant see Jagya with another woman. What a shame to womanhood ...

In my view, she is not at all a strong woman. She is an escapist who runs away when the circumstances are against her. It shows her fickle character.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

@TM - I agree with you... this Ganga has turned out to be a total disappointment.

I remember having an argument over Ganga with another esteemed member of the forum. I feel ashamed that I supported such a character once ...

Nevertheless, her character is not butchered is what I feel now ... She was always acting like a coward... Running away from a situation is not at all a sign of bravery, if that is what some people think. You got to stay where you are and solve your problems with proper plan of actions.

But everytime ganga was shown acting on the spur of the moment without going into the depth of her problem.

She ran away from Ratan's house not only without making any plans but also not taking a penny along with her. She took the child along with her, but she did not think how she was going to feed that child. Maybe her plan was to beg on the streets along with the child.

To her luck, she found Singhs who were kind not only to give her shelter in their house but also to help her stand on her feet by studying nursing couse. They are not indebted to her in any way, but they are doing it out of humanity. But madam now wants to leave that house because her dream man is marrying someone else.

Her fugitive character is showing up again... she is pressurising Jagya while alone with him to get her admission asap... she wants to go away from that house, moreover, she wants to go not because she wants to start her career but bec she cant see Jagya with another woman. What a shame to womanhood ...

In my view, she is not at all a strong woman. She is an escapist who runs away when the circumstances are against her. It shows her fickle character.





@ bold exactly i thought the same of her when she ran out of house with out any proper planning ..just to get out of the situation with out proper planning can be soo dangerous ..

A young beautiful lady with infant kid ran out of the place with out any proper planning ..is that good way of showing to other women in the society


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ganga when she was introduced, did not show strength but impulsive and total lack of logic.
If she was bold and tough she would have run away from home before she got pregnant.
As Shinya mentioned she ran with the child without taking anything for the child. When Jagia
Offered help she declined it very rudely with out even thinking. Even when she knew he was a decent guy. But even though she ran out on impulse it was the best thing she could have done.
In Singh's house she gained her strength . She is definitely very smart and perceptive. That is
Why Ds has respect for her thoughts. Only place where she has become weak is with love for J.
She should put it aside and be brave. I guess that is what love does to you. It is natural for any
Woman to fall in love like that. One can not compare her to A in an unfair way. A had a strong
Support system. She had loving parents and Mil and Fil. Who did not diminish her.
In Ganga's case every one diminished her. Though J diminished A in his worst period, she got
Lot of respect from others. In fact J's allowance depended on her. These are all very powerful
Situations. So in my opinion Ganga will be equally great like A if not better. DS is spot on.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

@TM - I agree with you... this Ganga has turned out to be a total disappointment.

I remember having an argument over Ganga with another esteemed member of the forum. I feel ashamed that I supported such a character once ...

Nevertheless, her character is not butchered is what I feel now ... She was always acting like a coward... Running away from a situation is not at all a sign of bravery, if that is what some people think. You got to stay where you are and solve your problems with proper plan of actions.

But everytime ganga was shown acting on the spur of the moment without going into the depth of her problem.

She ran away from Ratan's house not only without making any plans but also not taking a penny along with her. She took the child along with her, but she did not think how she was going to feed that child. Maybe her plan was to beg on the streets along with the child.

To her luck, she found Singhs who were kind not only to give her shelter in their house but also to help her stand on her feet by studying nursing couse. They are not indebted to her in any way, but they are doing it out of humanity. But madam now wants to leave that house because her dream man is marrying someone else.

Her fugitive character is showing up again... she is pressurising Jagya while alone with him to get her admission asap... she wants to go away from that house, moreover, she wants to go not because she wants to start her career but bec she cant see Jagya with another woman. What a shame to womanhood ...

In my view, she is not at all a strong woman. She is an escapist who runs away when the circumstances are against her. It shows her fickle character.





@bold above, I missed this point. In fact I liked her courage so much that I never thought it this way. Your point is valid and she should have thought what she will do once she is free from that hell. If not for Jagya and Singhs, how would have she survived?
@blue above, thats is what is wrong in her charecter at present.

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