Why so suddenly? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shinya

No I dont find Ira wrong today .. Ira had initially asked Anandi for her opinion about this rishta. At that time, she kept mum. She rather said jagya is now a reformed man.

And now suddenly she announces loudly in front of all that this rishta is not good, that too after shagun is given ?... any woman would get angry at that silly behaviour of her bahu..

If she thought that rishta wasnt good enough, she should have put her foot down right in the beginning.

Anandi thought that Jagya will refuse and that will end the matter. Jagya's decision took her by surprise.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi thought that Jagya will refuse and that will end the matter. Jagya's decision took her by surprise.

why assume? Why not double check? And in the end if J does not have problem marrying Sa, then what is A's problem?

I don't mind Ira getting furious with A, because A is wrong.

Initially when Sanchi threw this bomb on their faces they all got mad because they felt that of all people she has chosen to fall in love with Jagya and started abusing his character and started to say that he trapped her.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Initially when Sanchi threw this bomb on their faces they all got mad because they felt that of all people she has chosen to fall in love with Jagya and started abusing his character and started to say that he trapped her.

In defense of Jagya's character both Anandi and Shiv spoke up saying he is not like that and he is not the type to trap her.Sanchi also confirmed that it was not Jagya but it is she who is in love with him and he is unaware of her feelings.

At that time itself Ira had asked Anandi if she would like to see Sanchi get married to Jagya and she said NO SHE DID NOT WANT TO SEE THIS MARRIAGE HAPPENING.She has not changed her mind since then.

She kept protesting since then but it was Shiv who told her to let go of it and let it take it's own course.

Shekhars went to BH botched it up and presented themselves to Singhs like they are desperate to see SaJa get married when it was exactly the opposite thing they wanted to convey.

Singhs despite not being keen they didn't want to hurt the feelings so they ended up saying yes.

In all this .

In all this how could she open her mouth and tell them anything?

How can she warn Jagya when Sanchi herself has not confessed her feelings for him?

They all went there expecting J to refuse but he was not given a full picture so he said yes.

A doesn't know that J said yes because of her.

They all have seen for themsleves how Sanchi was behaving How J was reacting to Sanchi and they all have noticed how unsuitable they are for each other.

Nobody is willing to accept the truth.

If she says that they should call off the wedding I don't think there is anything wrong in it.It is better to call off a wedding than see a marriage break later on.

Any ways we don't really know under what circumstances she told Ira that they should break off the wedding.

Why is Ira angry with Anandi????She should be angry with herself for doing such a pathetic job of bringing up her daughter.It is very obvious that she only indulged her daughter's wishes and never actually sat and talked with her or listened to her.

Anandi is not wrong in rejecting sanchi as a bride for Jagya because she knows, assumes, thinks that Jagya's decision is wrong. No one in their right mind will go for sanchi as she is now, a manipulating, hysterical go getter.

yes...i was also very happy with ashima's entry..but now not sure why she is leaving again 😕...but i think CVs will show mahi & ashima again..may be they will be doing same project 😆

I think AShima's entry and exit is to lay a foundation to Mahi -Ashima relationship.

Aparna, when did Anandi say that she does not want Saja. She just defended saying that J is of good character and wouldn't go cheap to impress Saanchi. Which later got clarified by both Shiv and Saanchi.

Basically Anandi never expressed clearly to anyone (except Shiv) that she does not want to SaJa to happen. She was just a mute spectator, neither here nor there, even though when she had a clear mind-set that SaJa should not happen.

I honestly don't blame A for not opening up her mouth earlier. She was in a tough situation. But what's the point in opening up her mouth now?

The bigger fault here lies with Shekhars, for passing their ball onto J's shoulders for saying yes or no, then of course Singhs for getting hasty and then Jagya for blurting a yes. It is after all his life so he should have thought through. So all are at fault.

Anandi is at least fault. But her going and telling Ira now, is not appropriate either. Jab itna jaanti thi to pehle hi bol deti. It would have been more impactful then, but when she chose to keep quiet then, then why does she need to speak now. It is not a mess she created so why is taking the burden? And for J, if he is ok with Sa (since he has agreed for the marriage), then what is A's problem? Let him sort out his life his way.

Anyways as you said we need to watch the epis regarding Ira- An convo before coming to conclusion.

But from what I gauged, A wants SaJa break up because she has figured out that G loves him. That's not the appropriate reason. So what if there was no G, would she have agreed to SaJa?

Esha - when Anandi started to defend Jagya's character Ira jumped on her and asked her if she thinks it is ok to see Sanchi marrying Jagya.then Anandi told Ira that she also holds the same views as them wrt Jagya Sanchi marriage and said they are not suitable for each other.She stuck to that line.Shiv said this kind of decisions should not be made in haste he was the one who sat on the fence from the begining.

Aprana, I am not blaming Anandi for anything. It was not her fault that Shekhars took rishta to Singhs and Singhs accepted it.