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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Esha - I am irritated with the elders.


They are not willing to accept that their child is a spoilt brat and is going to make a mess of her life

Same way Singhs are bulldozing J into accepting Sanchi by making him feel guilty.They are making themselves blind to see this ridiculous act is going to make J and A's relationship which is tangled is a mess because of bal vivah and they are messing it up further.I think they were all hit with the truth when J bent down to take blessings from A and S.But they are not accepting it.


She waited for them to see if they will do anything to prevent it and they are not doing anything.So she took it on herself to do something about it.

It is not like the wedding date is fixed they only favored the match for all wrong reasons.So I do not think it is too late in the day.


I agree with you apranauma ..that elder's have gone mad 😆 😆...

But for Anandi their is more strong base in her family than In laws ..i say she has that power yet to turn down the match ..

she can speack to jagiya and should have express her concerns ..and could ask him to speck to saachi ..instead of going against in laws straightly ..

even people in her ln laws giving more important place to jagiya approval than family ..

even she should have take Shiv to jagiya would have discussed openly why he said yes to proposal did he love saachi or accepted any family pressure ..

marraige talks or not 2 hours process 🥱..Cvs are showing disgusting track on the whole
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
Anandi was counting upon shekhars and singhs to reject the proposal like she said in yesterday's episode...was she wrong in assuming that they all will reject the relation...who in their right mind will ever accept such relation?
It's very easy to say she should do this and or talk to this and that person...why are we failing to see that Shiv is least bothered in this issue...even if Mahi would have conveyed his feelings to Shiv he would have told him to just sit and watch...Anandi can clearly see that Shiv is not going to do anything...hasn't see discussed this issue with him many times...poor girl is yellings at top of her voice form starting that something is not right about the situation but Shiv is not even listening...i am a Shiv fan but today even i cannot deny that somewhere Shiv is thinking like Ira that his doll is so good that she can adjust with Singhs if everyone helps her...as a daughter of Singhs and eldest DIL of Shekhars it's her duty to speak and try as much as she can to get the situation right...remember what Ira said that as a DIL it's her responsibility to see the right and wrong for the house and she is doing that...do you think if Saanchi-Jagya's alliance break after marriage things will be forgotten b/w Singhs and Shekhars...looking at Saanchi she will damage their relation so much that their will be sense of guilt in both the families...they won't get separated with this alliance for ever...they still have AnSh to keep them together and just imagine how difficult it will be to behave happily after so much insulting situation form Saanchi...Ira blaming Anandi and Saanchi insulting Singhs...Saanchi may learn her lesson but everyone specially Jagya will have to pay a heavy cost for that...after Anandi conveys her feeling to Shekhars she need not try that again...but at least she will have a mental satisfaction that she tried her best but these elders were mad for not listening
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
We cannot blame Anandi for this situation. Both Jagya and Sanchi are adult and there are family elders from both side. Anandi is the least to blame because of her peculiar situation where she is between her sasra turn maika and the current sasra and the marriage talk for her current sister-in-law and her ex-husband. In my opinion, even if Mahi asked her, Anandi should not take up this issue with family elders - they themselves are to blame for this situation.

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