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if gauri can fall in love with jagya while studying doctory (gauri first propose jagya) .if anandi while doing social work can be made fall in love with shiv so why cant ganga fall in love with jagya ??just celebrating birthday it does not mean that she is not caring about her career and also by celebrating jagya birthday for 1 day it does not going to spoil her career .and if ganga is not serious about career then why she is crying for just 1 mark loss in exam .she cried that means she is sincere for her career .btw ganga celebrate jagya birthday only after exam result declaration and before birthday she is studying taking nurse training and even ask jagya if i work who will take care of manu first jagya says staff will take care but ds sumi says v will take care of manu but sometime ganga is shown taking care of manu .

Originally posted by: saba113

saba ia gree wid u. id on't know why theres need of such closure 4 falling in luv or wanting 2 marrry sum1 .or if sum woman like ganga fall in luv then why shes cheap & despo.here most woman says we want woman empowerment & their rts same as men but wen its shown like falling in luv then they r bashed sumtime sin the name of closure of relationship or sum times 4 sum oder reason. wat i know is if ur intention is pure then its not such a big deal.

if jagya'dn't cheated anandi in gauri case & had said 2 he rthat we r not compatible i wud'dn't much prob wid him @ that time but we bashed hi bcoz he cheated. but here ganag is not cheating nor hurting any innocent.

@bold i agree. i think if we want 2 see reality then we shud ask CVs 2 show us documentery shows instead of fiction show wid sum msgs!!😆

Originally posted by: surabhi01

if gauri can fall in love with jagya while studying doctory (gauri first propose jagya) .if anandi while doing social work can be made fall in love with shiv so why cant ganga fall in love with jagya ??just celebrating birthday it does not mean that she is not caring about her career and also by celebrating jagya birthday for 1 day it does not going to spoil her career .and if ganga is not serious about career then why she is crying for just 1 mark loss in exam .she cried that means she is sincere for her career .btw ganga celebrate jagya birthday only after exam result declaration and before birthday she is studying taking nurse training and even ask jagya if i work who will take care of manu first jagya says staff will take care but ds sumi says v will take care of manu but sometime ganga is shown taking care of manu .

Surabhi,

I am not saying ganga shouldn't fall in love, I am saying now is not the right time. When ganga was introduced to the show , I expected a lot from her character as she is a abused woman with a child. I expected they would show how to gain custody of the kid legally and also child support.

Most of teh woman , who i see don't know anything about child support. The in lnlaws give a nominal property and get rid of them. It is one of the most happing injustice for woman. Apart from what i want to see, What good did they show with ganga until now??? except for the irritating love triangle?

And also when she realized her feelings for jagya. she did nothing to stop them. i didnt have issue with her falling love but it is she who felt its not good to fall for someone like jagya. Then after her realisation that she should keep away whats with the eye locks??

one good thing is they are showing her training as nurse which is that needs to be done for woman like her. Be self sufficient. All the love and something is not what a woman in her situation should do. She should be completely served her ties with ratan before she pursue her relationship. I never said she is cheap, because we see her perspective as well but villagers in the show wont be able to see her perspective and it will look odd. all these things are not good before getting rid of ratan singh. i know love can happen involuntarily. but what will one say if she is not yet divorced and falling in love and giving in to her feelings?? She did give in into her feelings that is why she cried in the bathroom yesterday.

Before getting sorted for her son, it is not to give in her feelings as that might cost her levaing mannu to ratan.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

if gauri can fall in love with jagya while studying doctory (gauri first propose jagya) .if anandi while doing social work can be made fall in love with shiv so why cant ganga fall in love with jagya ??just celebrating birthday it does not mean that she is not caring about her career and also by celebrating jagya birthday for 1 day it does not going to spoil her career .and if ganga is not serious about career then why she is crying for just 1 mark loss in exam .she cried that means she is sincere for her career .btw ganga celebrate jagya birthday only after exam result declaration and before birthday she is studying taking nurse training and even ask jagya if i work who will take care of manu first jagya says staff will take care but ds sumi says v will take care of manu but sometime ganga is shown taking care of manu .

aasha samvi love can be happen any time .why she is falling in love what society will think .it does not matter to me .infact she is deprive of care from past 18 years .she is badly torture by her in laws .so after so many years if some one help her then why should not she show gratidute towards him .

Originally posted by: surabhi01

if gauri can fall in love with jagya while studying doctory (gauri first propose jagya) .if anandi while doing social work can be made fall in love with shiv so why cant ganga fall in love with jagya ??just celebrating birthday it does not mean that she is not caring about her career and also by celebrating jagya birthday for 1 day it does not going to spoil her career .and if ganga is not serious about career then why she is crying for just 1 mark loss in exam .she cried that means she is sincere for her career .btw ganga celebrate jagya birthday only after exam result declaration and before birthday she is studying taking nurse training and even ask jagya if i work who will take care of manu first jagya says staff will take care but ds sumi says v will take care of manu but sometime ganga is shown taking care of manu .

so what if she cry alone in bathroom at least she is not doing cheap drama like sanchi.aur hur kyon ka jawab nahi hota especially when anyone fall in love and i dont know what is so big issue about it .if ur love is pure and selfless then nothing will harm u

How can someone stop herself from falling in love.If you are married you don't fall in love if you love your spouse that means the place of love is filled so no other person can take that place.If you are married but suddenly think low about your spouse just like jagya did then also that place gets empty and another person easily take that place.If you are forcibly married when you are merely a child and getting abused both physically and mentally and you don't love that person,wanted to ran away from that house,don't consider him as a husband as he is married to another person,don't have any physical relation as the douchbag has another woman to fulfil his needs does that kind of a person can be called a husband or does this kind of relation can be called marriage!Society says a lots of things.We all care about society but does society cares about us!When Ganga was not in love with jagya that time also Ratan singh said that she is living with jagya as his wife!He would have said the same thing if ganga wouldn't fall for jagya so whats the big deal.Society people are such who can ask a mother and a abused wife who had come to police station with his benefactor to go back to his abusive husband.So why should we think about that kind of a society.When that motor cycle scene happened in this forum most of the members without watching the episode started blaming ganga that she has forgot mannu and doing tamasha with jagya.Thats the society's brutal thought.Society is such that when a village woman decorates a persons birthday with yellow blue balloons they mock just the way sanchi mocked as if she had done a crime.They can't see the intention,can't appreciate.We would have also appreciate sanchi all the things she brought for jagya if she was a well behaved person.Most of the people can only question,they don't know to appreciate.If sanchi's case will be shown in the court then she will be blamed for wearing short dress also sunny will mention how she was expecting jagya to do something to her.That doesn't mean what happened with sanchi was because of her dress or because of her lust towards jagya.Society will always poke its nose in every matter it doesn't mean people should stop living their life.Ganga's place of love in her heart was not filled till now but Jagya has all the quality what a woman would expect to see in a man.Jagya is not perfect but he is not that bad also.Ganga is also not perfect.This two imperfect person will made a perfect relatuonship and will help to make each other perfect.Yes,ganga should have live in another place,she shouldn't have fall in love with jagya,her only goal should have been to be a nurse and make mannu a better person.Thats society people's wrong thinking.It should be understood till the time a girl and boy are not crossing their limits and staying within the norms questions shouldn't be asked if they spend a whole night in a same room.Asking question will be wrong but society will ask the question and assume they have done something.Ganga is leaving with singhs and she got a family,she fell in love with jagya which a tremendous feeling,she can't miss this because of thinking what will people say.She is loving jagya within her limits and thats enough.We are watching the show,we are watching that ganga is absolutely pure and innocent in her love unlike sanchi then if we start calling her cheap then we are the same people from that society who can only question can't do anything better for us.If ganga live outside the haveli this people will be the first person to try to take advantage of her.We live in a brutal society most of the people who lives here are rude.Si it sucks big time.

Also want to add that ganga was alone in the bathroom and crying she was not making a scene,she will not blurt the truth so easily.She will keep it to herself as much as possible for sure.But she can't lie to herself.It actually hurts to see the person you love is going to be someone else's.So why taking that wrongly.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

so what if she cry alone in bathroom at least she is not doing cheap drama like sanchi.aur hur kyon ka jawab nahi hota especially when anyone fall in love and i dont know what is so big issue about it .if ur love is pure and selfless then nothing will harm u