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sanchi also cry when jagya does not cut her cake but here ganga cry but after few minutes she control herself .i am thinking how will sanchi react when jagya will refuse to marry her .ganga ne to apne man ko thoda thoda samjha liya hai pur kya sanchi apne aap ko control payegi sanchi .kaafi overconfident hai ki jagya mujhi se shaadi karega

Originally posted by: shankythebest

How can someone stop herself from falling in love.If you are married you don't fall in love if you love your spouse that means the place of love is filled so no other person can take that place.If you are married but suddenly think low about your spouse just like jagya did then also that place gets empty and another person easily take that place.If you are forcibly married when you are merely a child and getting abused both physically and mentally and you don't love that person,wanted to ran away from that house,don't consider him as a husband as he is married to another person,don't have any physical relation as the douchbag has another woman to fulfil his needs does that kind of a person can be called a husband or does this kind of relation can be called marriage!Society says a lots of things.We all care about society but does society cares about us!When Ganga was not in love with jagya that time also Ratan singh said that she is living with jagya as his wife!He would have said the same thing if ganga wouldn't fall for jagya so whats the big deal.Society people are such who can ask a mother and a abused wife who had come to police station with his benefactor to go back to his abusive husband.So why should we think about that kind of a society.When that motor cycle scene happened in this forum most of the members without watching the episode started blaming ganga that she has forgot mannu and doing tamasha with jagya.Thats the society's brutal thought.Society is such that when a village woman decorates a persons birthday with yellow blue balloons they mock just the way sanchi mocked as if she had done a crime.They can't see the intention,can't appreciate.We would have also appreciate sanchi all the things she brought for jagya if she was a well behaved person.Most of the people can only question,they don't know to appreciate.If sanchi's case will be shown in the court then she will be blamed for wearing short dress also sunny will mention how she was expecting jagya to do something to her.That doesn't mean what happened with sanchi was because of her dress or because of her lust towards jagya.Society will always poke its nose in every matter it doesn't mean people should stop living their life.Ganga's place of love in her heart was not filled till now but Jagya has all the quality what a woman would expect to see in a man.Jagya is not perfect but he is not that bad also.Ganga is also not perfect.This two imperfect person will made a perfect relatuonship and will help to make each other perfect.Yes,ganga should have live in another place,she shouldn't have fall in love with jagya,her only goal should have been to be a nurse and make mannu a better person.Thats society people's wrong thinking.It should be understood till the time a girl and boy are not crossing their limits and staying within the norms questions shouldn't be asked if they spend a whole night in a same room.Asking question will be wrong but society will ask the question and assume they have done something.Ganga is leaving with singhs and she got a family,she fell in love with jagya which a tremendous feeling,she can't miss this because of thinking what will people say.She is loving jagya within her limits and thats enough.We are watching the show,we are watching that ganga is absolutely pure and innocent in her love unlike sanchi then if we start calling her cheap then we are the same people from that society who can only question can't do anything better for us.If ganga live outside the haveli this people will be the first person to try to take advantage of her.We live in a brutal society most of the people who lives here are rude.Si it sucks big time.

Also want to add that ganga was alone in the bathroom and crying she was not making a scene,she will not blurt the truth so easily.She will keep it to herself as much as possible for sure.But she can't lie to herself.It actually hurts to see the person you love is going to be someone else's.So why taking that wrongly.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

sanchi also cry when jagya does not cut her cake but here ganga cry but after few minutes she control herself .i am thinking how will sanchi react when jagya will refuse to marry her .ganga ne to apne man ko thoda thoda samjha liya hai pur kya sanchi apne aap ko control payegi sanchi .kaafi overconfident hai ki jagya mujhi se shaadi karega

@vasiraju,Are you thinking I am lecturing!I thought we were discussing and saying what we think.So if I say something in your thread and you take it as a lecture just because you don't agree with me then should I think I shouldn't post here as it is your thread!

rohi to rahi hai akele ro rahi hai kisi ka nuksaan to nahi pahuncha rahi sanchi ki tarah kisi ki bejaitti to nahi kar rahi

Originally posted by: shankythebest

@vasiraju,Are you thinking I am lecturing!I thought we were discussing and saying what we think.So if I say something in your thread and you take it as a lecture just because you don't agree with me then should I think I shouldn't post here as it is your thread!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

rohi to rahi hai akele ro rahi hai kisi ka nuksaan to nahi pahuncha rahi sanchi ki tarah kisi ki bejaitti to nahi kar rahi

and it will be best if ganga declare her love for jagya infront of everyone

Originally posted by: surabhi01

aasha samvi love can be happen any time .why she is falling in love what society will think .it does not matter to me .infact she is deprive of care from past 18 years .she is badly torture by her in laws .so after so many years if some one help her then why should not she show gratidute towards him .

Surabhi ,I am in no way saying ganga has no right to love. But this timing is bad. She yet has to get divorce. I am in no giving weight-age for that disastrous relationship with monster ratan. But admist all this is mannu. If at all she takes that step forward she can loose mannu in front of law. If she is single iits ok but when a married woman who is not yet divorced says i love someone, then that action would garner the warth of the society.

Our society has a set of rules. Even if my husband is a drunk and monster. I have to serve my ties legally with him so that i can live my life in whatever way i want. if i step out of the marriage without serving my ties and get into a relationship then i am physically with one person and legally bounded to other.

And coming to the custody if proven she is a wrong person then court will only look into the proofs. The humanitarian grounds we look are not visible to court. They will see that before hand she was in illicit relationship and upbringing of the ward might not be awarded to her.

IF GANGA'S WHOLE FIGHT IS FOR HER SON THEN SHE WILL BE AT THE FAILURES EDGE EVEN BEFORE SHE STARTS. WITH GIVING IN INTO HER FEELINGS WITHOUT A CLOSURE.

Originally posted by: vasiraju

That will be great to watch ...we can see how people react and specially jagiya 😃

That will be worst thing she can do to herself and her kid. They have shelter now and food to eat. Yelling I love you jagya will only cut shelter food and everything she has no. She will be on roads. And the everyone we are talking about will brand ganga as a cheap woman. everyone will think very lowly of her including singh family. How would anyone react when you bring a person with sympathy to our home and suddenly she claims her desire to be DIL o f that house.

The best thing to do now is shut her feelings and work towards her divorce and get freedom. Once it is done, She can confess her feelings to jagya personally. If he likes well and good else she can still be in good shape without garning the warth of his family members

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

That will be worst thing she can do to herself and her kid. They have shelter now and food to eat. Yelling I love you jagya will only cut shelter food and everything she has no. She will be on roads. And the everyone we are talking about will brand ganga as a cheap woman. everyone will think very lowly of her including singh family. How would anyone react when you bring a person with sympathy to our home and suddenly she claims her desire to be DIL o f that house.

The best thing to do now is shut her feelings and work towards her divorce and get freedom. Once it is done, She can confess her feelings to jagya personally. If he likes well and good else she can still be in good shape without garning the warth of his family members