Originally posted by: saba113
i don't think Ganga is going this far how many blames are put on her This is extremely wrong to say she is doing exactly what Ratan is accused her of Before putting this blame on her kindly go through the episode what Ratan has blamed her actually He said You are living here as this doctor 's wife and sleeps with him in night This is exactly what Ganga is doing ?No so what kind of blame is this 😳 You guys are going too far Check your comments for once and secondly where she is impressing him? If he can do a lot for her happiness can't she do even one thing for his happiness or thank him ?Where she despo i should impress him he should love me ? They both are like friends only
Hi please see that i put all my sentences in future tense. I never said a wrong word for Ganga. I only told that she will have to face the consequences. For court all you need to show is proofs. Trust me when it comes to law it is all hide and seek. I am just adamant that before she moves on she needs to maintain her distance get closure with ratan and get custody of mannu. After that she can get into a relationship.
There is heights of difference between Anandi and Ganga's situations Anandi loved Jagaya it was hard for her to forget her Jagaya Jagaya was not always bad to her thats why it was so difficult for her to forget him Not bad. He put a price of his share of property for her freedom. He knows Anandi is very much alive and he paraded into bade haveli with gawari . He hurled all kinds of insults on her. He took away her haq of being a mother and gav eit to his mistress. Shamelessly celebrated suhag raat in the same house where he slept with Anandi. Defiled her in n number of ways. ignored her insulted her even dadisa tortured Anandi in her childhood, locked her in dark room without food Agreed that she was not physically harassed like ganga but she suffered no less.on contrary Ratan has always mistreated Ganga she hated him to the core so why she should mourn him and where she is marrying jagaya? Her divorce is in process and definitely their marriage will happen after divorce for now why she has no right to fall in love ?She has only fallen in love not accepted it i should be in love In temple she was fighting with herself no i should not even think like this for him She rejected the idea to be in love but love is something which is natural to happen for her here . Falling in love can be involuntary at times but I clearly said that I didnt like Cv's idea of chasing her into it. She just saw jagya for 2 months. and she is not even free from cluthes of evil ratan . that is the breathing period she craved for , for many years.She is a wounded soul never got treated properly ever One person who came in her life put bandaged on her wounds , gave her respect and honor , made her dreams come true , is healing her soul so she has grown feelings for him which is from no angle weird but understandable
Anandi and Ganga's fears are total different Anandi loved someone rejected by him so she has grown fear i will be rejected again thats why it took her so much time to be in love again or trust love For Anandi it was second love for Ganga there is no such situation this is first love for her her fears are society based I am a mother of child what people will say if i think like this ( she herself said ) and also this i am poor Jagaya belongs to rich family , well educated I am no match for him and i am indebted to this family etc so these both fears are different but for falling in love it can't hurdle her only in accepting and confessing it to Jagaya it will hurdle her
who said she has healed up fully she is still healing but her wounds are different from Anandi if society's thinking is cheap they cannot see a man and woman as friends, a woman doing something for her benefactor for his happiness , cannot see a wounded woman like Ganga fall in love with someone they will call her ill mannered for it then cvs will change this narrow thinking of this society Its society's thinking needed to be changed here not Ganga's
Where Ganga is doing Jagaya's mistake Jagaya thought his child marriage is illegal which had become legal when he and Anandi grew up so he married gauri without divorcing Anandi but Ganga? has she married Jagaya No so why we should object her she is doing same mistake ?I said the mistake is Cv's where they are not giving proper closures before rushing their leads into love. If i was ever caught in a cave with monster all i would think is how to get rid of him. If ganga was that concerned for her benefactor then why is she still in bade haveli even after knowing that her stay will bring jagya in harms way?
Falling in love is natural for her and to an extent uncontrollable Its is human being 's nature a wounded soul when is healed by someone feelings affection grew for that person He becomes above others but for now Ganga is not confessing her love neither she is hugging Jagaya ike Sanchi so objection is on her falling in love ?which is definitely not right in my view
Yes she is not hugging jagya like sachi but her disappointed looks tell it all. She relaised her feelings and ran to devi maa and said i should do this people will spit on me and then what is she doing exactly? Instead of maintaing the distance she is moving closer exact opposite of what she told she will do.
P. S: I have nothing against srithi or ganga. Its just I didnt like the way the CV's are rushing things too far too fast.
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