Shiv was too harsh towards his mother - Page 8

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Redapple, Libs,

Well said. I lost all respect for Ira today. She should have apologized on behalf of her Bahu to UD and discussed this matter behind closed doors. I for sure don't see any class in Ira Aloke Shekhar.

What Ira's samdhan sa Kalyani Devi did was even more shameless. And she did it in public place unlike Ira who spoke at her own house.

There is also no class in her samdhan sa, son and DIL who lied to her and kept her in dark, taking her for granted and expecting they'd lead her any way they wanted to.

If a mother feels angry at slandering of her son then she has no class. If she is angry and feels betrayed at being lied to then she has no class. Great logic.

Actually in today's episode, Ira's ire was seen to stem more from her perceived insecurity that her son is not supporting her the mum but his wife. She did not stress on the lie. She stressed on the fact that 'hamara Sikha Khota nikla because he is happy with his wife so what can we do'. And she still felt that Shiv lied and took the blame on himself to save his wife. She was more angry about that. Where was her trust on her son? She is like a pendulum because she is easily swayed by her wayward daughter, realizes her mistake, tries to make good and then makes the same mistake. Anandi has to constantly prove herself to Ira.

@Parri

I did not say those who do not agree with "me" are MIL haters. There are a couple of others who had same views.

And my response is directed more at bashing of Ira. The sheer scale of it.

Madam this is true that MILs want docile DILs. But this is also true no one likes MILs or SILs and other hassle of in laws like devrani, jethani etc.

They fear it even before their time to marry comes.

And they all hope for an MIL who says nothing, or one who can be controlled or one who is no more at all.

Neither of MILs or DILs are saints in Indian society (or any society). There's always a tussle between them.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Parri

I did not say those who do not agree with "me" are MIL haters. There are a couple of others who had same views.

And my response is directed more at bashing of Ira. The sheer scale of it.

Madam this is true that MILs want docile DILs. But this is also true no one likes MILs or SILs and other hassle of in laws like devrani, jethani etc.

They fear it even before their time to marry comes.

And they all hope for an MIL who says nothing, or one who can be controlled or one who is no more at all.

Neither of MILs or DILs are saints in Indian society (or any society). There's always a tussle between them.

Originally posted by: parri814

Actually in today's episode, Ira's ire was seen to stem more from her perceived insecurity that her son is not supporting her the mum but his wife. She did not stress on the lie. She stressed on the fact that 'hamara Sikha Khota nikla because he is happy with his wife so what can we do'. And she still felt that Shiv lied and took the blame on himself to save his wife. She was more angry about that. Where was her trust on her son? She is like a pendulum because she is easily swayed by her wayward daughter, realizes her mistake, tries to make good and then makes the same mistake. Anandi has to constantly prove herself to Ira.

Ira is making assumptions because Anandi and Shiv were and are still being foolish in not teling truth to her. Explain calmly what happened. Then she will shut up!

Why should she still trust her son now if she has found he's been lying to her to shield his wife and her family? Her trust was broken by him!

Anandi has to constantly prove herself to Ira because she is still more loyal to Singhs than Shekhars and she is not entirely open & honest with Shekhars.

And she's also inviting more trouble for herself in future by continuing to remain in touch with ex husband while she is stil new in Shekhar family and is to make her place there!

In trying to shield her DS, Anandi failed to be honest to her MIL.

Even now she's sitting and moping in her room with Shiv instead of taking immediate steps to talk to MIL. She did not even try to talk to Ira!

Her action should have been swift. Her silence again indicates how much priority she gives to Shekhars.

I love my. MIL and also hate at the same time.you really need lot of patience.She drains my energy.if she Is wrong I correct her and viceversa!

Poor Anandi is still learning how to navigate her way around her new family and she is already being accused of controlling her saas.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

What Ira's samdhan sa Kalyani Devi did was even more shameless. And she did it in public place unlike Ira who spoke at her own house.

There is also no class in her samdhan sa, son and DIL who lied to her and kept her in dark, taking her for granted and expecting they'd lead her any way they wanted to.

If a mother feels angry at slandering of her son then she has no class. If she is angry and feels betrayed at being lied to then she has no class. Great logic.

in precap anandi speak lie for good to sumitra that everything is ok she hide her pain which means no matter ira sanchi has harsh feeling towards anandi but anandi still has soft corner for sanchi and mil .she does not want her sil mil to be down infront of singhs .she cares about respect of her sil mil

I dont undertand this pendulum business. All of us are pendulums too. We praised Ira when she was nice and supportive to A but suddenly she becomes a typical bad saas the minute she is upset with