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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think the new twist maybe that Shiv's brother may get married to Urmidevi's daughter and she may prove to be a bad daughter in law.

and than their marriage gets over and another punar vivah...why don't they just get copyrights of punar vivah serial and change balika vadhu into aisa bhi punar vivah aur something like that
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Shinya


Its fine to disagree. But I dont get this. You respect Shiv for supporting wrong?? 😲

How Anandi had no part to play? According to me, more than Shiv it was her fault. And shiv was merely covering her up when she was trying to cover up dadisa lies.

When Urmi entered and started cursing ds and anandi, Anandi had no answer to give. She was like a thief caught red-handed. Had she been honest and truthful, she would not have to face the humiliation. Supporting wrong is as good as doing wrong. She should have at once apologised but she kept on mumbling useless things because she was guilty.

Whatever Ira said was out of shock and disbelief. Other members did not say it, but their expressions were like behind this innocent face lies a big fraud. No one is responsible for this other than Anandi herself.

She had told shiv and asked him to break the rishta if he wanted to and blah blah was not the answer. Whats the big deal if she told him?? She knew shiv would never break it...When she had taken the responsibility to find out who that dokhri was, it was her duty, not Shiv's, to tell Shekhars.

When she acted jagya's wife during his amnesia drama, she had not asked for Shiv's permission. So why this time? Because she had no courage to face the truth.

Shiv was also like a coward trying to support his wife's and her family's misdeeds. Secondly what was the logic in Shiv apologising to Urmi? Had he agreed to that rishta? No, if anyone had to apologise to her, it was dadisa.

Shiv rather had to apologise to his family for keeping them in the dark. But instead he tells his
family that his wife's izzat is his izzat...How stupid ! 🤪He doesnt realise that for his beloved wise wife, Singh family's izzat is even more than her husband's izzat.

Shiv forgot that his whole family was always supportive to anandi and treated her like a queen. They reprimanded their own daughter to support anandi... Just for an incident for which not his family but they themselves were responsible, he did not have to be harsh to his family.

In stead of apologising he was like warning them not to be bad to his wife... how idiotic.😡

I dont understand how people can feel proud of his stupidity.

anandi was not at fault...she was new in shekhars when truth came out and she discussed it with the member she was closest to...shiv told her not to say anything to his family as he will talk to them when right time comes...anandi thought since shiv knows his family best he will be able to handle the issue better...when we are not so close to someone we feel hesitate to tell them in fear of their reaction...yes shiv is harsh with his family but he is not being a joru ka ghullam here...shiv was angry with how ira was blaming anand and that too in front if some stranger...it is wrong and trust me urmi devi will take advantage of this in future...ira has a weak mind unlike chotima...she is not blaming singhs and is not angry with her son for hiding the truth but is blaming anandi for whole fiasco...she is angry that shiv supported anandi but there was nothing wrong in it because anandi was innocent
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks

and than their marriage gets over and another punar vivah...why don't they just get copyrights of punar vivah serial and change balika vadhu into aisa bhi punar vivah aur something like that
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For a change, let them make UD's daughter a really ideal bahu. Not another anandi gauri thing.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
i would say no one is to be blamed but Dadisa...she may have done it out of love but she did it in very wrong way...bad or good words travel very fast and a old dokri like Dadisa should know that...no one can blame Anandi because we know the mahaan soul who will try her best to protect anyone and will even go for impractical ways...why are people even irritated with her? Get used to her impractical mahaan ways...i am already...she tried to protect Dadisa and Shiv and thanks to that Ira got more irritated...Ira is a mother...it's easy to point fingers but when we stand in their shoes we realize how it really feels...if Dadisa can degrade Shiv out of love for Anandi than Ira can also say bad about Anandi out of love for Shiv...Shiv's reaction was out of love for his wife and waise bhi the son is losing his nuts in love...jagya ko gale laga raha hai...apni biwi ko ex-husband ke paas baat karne ke liye bhej deta hai or apni family se adjust karne ki umeed rakhta hai jabki Singhs family jo chaye wo karti hai...sab pyaar ki nadiya mein bhahkar hungama kar rahe hai aur ab toh Saanchi bhi include ho gaye hai...message of CVs is

''pyaar diwaanaa hotaa hai, mastaanaa hotaa hai
har khushee se, har gam se, begaanaa hotaa hai''
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Posted: 12 years ago
hahaha. Pagla gaya deewana.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Shiv was shouting at his mum and saying you don't have any right to talk to my wife like and he forgot how much respect and love his parents and family are giving to Anandi.

Anandi said to shiv so eveyone should not even talk or feel bad about the issue as he is saying sorry for that. one thing shiv is forgetting that is not Anandi or singh's family charecter they would let shekar know about everything and say sorry when they know the fact, but Anandi did not want DS to say sorry to anyone so contacted Shiv and once shiv said i will handle then she kept quite, but anandi know that this is not a small issue to forget so should have solved it before marriage and moreover that is anandi's character.
Edited by jhansijhansi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Shiv was too harsh towards his mother in front of everybody. Instead he could have taken her aside and explained and convinced. It takes patience and time and Shiv can spare that much time for his mother. [/QUOTEwhy do u think shiv was harsh to ira?
don't u think ira was rude to A?
what is the need of shiv taking ira to side and explain and convince?
It is a joint family and the situation happened in front of the whole family,everyone in the family wants to know the answers!
thanks for the topic!!!since u r saying bloggers r not giving straight answers,i thought why not ask u same questions?thank u!👏👏👏
anyone can answer!pl answer briefly!pl make it healthy debate!
thanks to TM!!

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