Shiv was too harsh towards his mother - Page 5

I won't say that Shiv was harsh with Ira, but he made her understand that Anandi is not at fault

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Were you serious with that question?

Originally posted by: ananthesh

I won't say that Shiv was harsh with Ira, but he made her understand that Anandi is not at fault

He also made her realize that Anandi didn't do anything in UD's matter. It was all DS.

But he didn't accuse DS also, but covered her by saying that she didn't do to defame Shiv but for A's good future. I didn't see any thing harsh in his words yesterday, but the way a husband should protect his wife. He even apologized to Ira, that shows he respects Ira's feelings too.

i agree with u sudha,shiv was already in love with A and when DS asked her he jumped at it and said yes,if not things should have been diff.it is just the mil ego!!!! IRA😡 and Saachi both are😲😲

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

good point, just to add to that..if a man puts his wife first after marriage..any sensible wife will automatically put her husband's family first...that's a woman's nature.

👏👏👏well said swetha!

Originally posted by: dixie123

Well... Shiv has been doing this right from the start. He has put his wife first always before his family. We have previous incidents as examples on this.

Understanding a mom doesn't mean the son has to be tied to her pallu or understanding and supporting a wife doesn't mean a husband is a joru ka ghulam. A man has to learn balance and Shiv hasn't learnt that yet.

in this specific case, i would say it is always better to have a clear communication like what shiv did, rather than trying to keep all parties happy which never works out. i am not saying that ira is completely wrong, yes she is hurt too but then anandi needed shiv's support the most.

today now prove that ira is not angry because ds said something bad about shiv .she is angry because shiv is not taking her side .ira is thinking of herself only currently

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Shiv was too harsh towards his mother in front of everybody. Instead he could have taken her aside and explained and convinced. It takes patience and time and Shiv can spare that much time for his mother.

i totally disagree with u! why should he take her to a side and tell.it is her own family and no outsiders,just her ego got hurt thats why?Shiv supported her becz he already knows the truth and i think he did handle the situation very sensibly,Ira is the one not knowing the truth she taunted A by saying divorcee and BV.she always listens to saanchi.she needs to trust her son😡 and i think choti ma knows shiv better then Ira!if A wants she could have defended her self.Ira being educated also behaved like unpad,as my grandma says it doesn't matter u r educcated or not.it requires to see things with openmind bfore coming to conclusions,

Mothers take a lot of abuse first from husbands and at later stage from sons. This is the way of the

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

in this specific case, i would say it is always better to have a clear communication like what shiv did, rather than trying to keep all parties happy which never works out. i am not saying that ira is completely wrong, yes she is hurt too but then anandi needed shiv's support the most.

To be fair to shiv, he also shouted at Anandi in front of all during the bridge collapse.It is ok. We need to forgive everybody in this except DS. However irritating A is , she is not at fault. She is just trying to