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Posted: 12 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Ardent fans of Anandi hate Jagya for what he had done to Anandi.
This same ardent fans of Anandi loved Jagya also at one time.

If they haven't liked Jagya so much they would not hate him this much.

For what he had done to Annadi he deserved to be hated.

But so far he has not done enough to earn back the love of ardent Anandi fans.

People do make mistakes and they do deserve chance to correct the mistakes.Yes in this case he is too late to correct the wrongs he had done to Anandi and helping Ganga is not enough because Ganga has her head and the heart in the right place and Ganga is a very loving person and kind person.Earning her love is very easy.
Earning the love of a stubborn person whose insides are screwed is much more difficult and it requires a lot more patience perseverance,compassion kindness,understanding and grit and determination.Let him accomplish that if he indeed has changed.

sorry but if you are ardent Anandi fan then follow her approach the point of hating a good person who has accepted his mistakes even your great favorite has forgiven so please it will be kind of wrong to say ardent Anandi fans hate him , thats you are demeaning your own favorite because the fan whose you are she knows whom to be angry with a wrong person and whom to forgive and appreciate a right person A right person hating him thats your personal view that cannot be an ardent Anandi fans approach

Love of Anandi fans what makes you say that only those who are slandering him even now , mock his good works too , call him names only they are ardent Anandi fans rest who has forgiven him and love him now they are not , we are also her true fans who supported her in ups and down so kindly don't over generalize and call only those people ardent Anandi fans whose hatred for Jagaya is eternal and this is you are somehow finding an excuse and using term ardent Anandi fans to justify you guys hatred for Jagaya

how helping Ganga is not enough ? why his mistakes to Anandi are still above that what he couldn't do for Anandi doing all that for Ganga thats equal .Ganga is even more brutalized than Anandi someone whose character is yet slandered by people and needs a long support to heal her up so your words are pretty confusing

How winning Ganga's love is easy , the woman is brutally tortured , shattered the one who hated men all her life winning her trust and love is easy for you? only Anandi needed to cry for months even after marriage when she has been healed by Singhs many times . still for Shiv it was tough battle to win her love Ganga is in complete among new family she is a woman who is molested , tortured , the one who developed hatred for mankind winning her love is not easy .How much patience , determination , love , care is required to heal her up , thats no easy work and it will go on forever Earning love of tortured person whose insides are shattered is much more difficult and it requires a lot more patience perseverance,compassion kindness,understanding and grit and determination much more than the stubborn person you are making

Gauri has no interest to live with Jagaya you want him to earn her love to prove he is changed and why he should do that ?when she doesn't want to stay with him . He knows it pretty well Redemption does not mean he should make her to live with him at any cost , beg , force , manipulate or give tests of his love i will die without you mata jee .redemption means respect her choice , give her time , if she will want she will contact him rest nothing in his hands .When Anandi came to know Jagaya doesnt want to be with her , she lived in pain but she always respected his choice same goes with Jagaya here Gauri has removed him out her life this is what she made him feel with her rejections so he sincerely moved aside if she will want she will come to him but that depends on how she will .If she will make too late , drop his child off she deserve one more slap from him and be kicked out forever

I don't want to offend you please don't take it like that but your post is something i find only an excuse to keep your hatred for Jagaya on , and nothing valid in it

again sorry i didn't mean to offend you , keep hating him forever your wish but pretty prejudiced post
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidra08

[sorry but if you are ardent Anandi fan then follow her approach the point of hating a good person who has accepted his mistakes even your great favorite has forgiven so please it will be kind of wrong to say ardent Anandi fans hate him , thats you are demeaning your own favorite because the fan whose you are she knows whom to be angry with a wrong person and whom to forgive and appreciate a right person A right person hating him thats your personal view that cannot be an ardent Anandi fans approach


Love of Anandi fans what makes you say that only those who are slandering him even now , mock his good works too , call him names only they are ardent Anandi fans rest who has forgiven him and love him now they are not , we are also her true fans who supported her in ups and down so kindly don't over generalize and call only those people ardent Anandi fans whose hatred for Jagaya is eternal and this is you are somehow finding an excuse and using term ardent Anandi fans to justify you guys hatred for Jagaya

how helping Ganga is not enough ? why his mistakes to Anandi are still above that what he couldn't do for Anandi doing all that for Ganga thats equal .Ganga is even more brutalized than Anandi someone whose character is yet slandered by people and needs a long support to heal her up so your words are pretty confusing

How winning Ganga's love is easy , the woman is brutally tortured , shattered the one who hated men all her life winning her trust and love is easy for you? only Anandi needed to cry for months even after marriage when she has been healed by Singhs many times . still for Shiv it was tough battle to win her love Ganga is in complete among new family she is a woman who is molested , tortured , the one who developed hatred for mankind winning her love is not easy .How much patience , determination , love , care is required to heal her up , thats no easy work and it will go on forever Earning love of tortured person whose insides are shattered is much more difficult and it requires a lot more patience perseverance,compassion kindness,understanding and grit and determination much more than the stubborn person you are making

Gauri has no interest to live with Jagaya you want him to earn her love to prove he is changed and why he should do that ?when she doesn't want to stay with him . He knows it pretty well Redemption does not mean he should make her to live with him at any cost , beg , force , manipulate or give tests of his love i will die without you mata jee .redemption means respect her choice , give her time , if she will want she will contact him rest nothing in his hands .When Anandi came to know Jagaya doesnt want to be with her , she lived in pain but she always respected his choice same goes with Jagaya here Gauri has removed him out her life this is what she made him feel with her rejections so he sincerely moved aside if she will want she will come to him but that depends on how she will .If she will make too late , drop his child off she deserve one more slap from him and be kicked out forever

I don't want to offend you please don't take it like that but your post is something i find only an excuse to keep your hatred for Jagaya on , and nothing valid in it

again sorry i didn't mean to offend you , keep hating him forever your wish but pretty prejudiced post

Just because I like Anandi that doesn't mean i have to be inspired by her.
I do not take inspiration from fictional characters.
As for hating Jagya - I hated him for what he has done to Anandi
I only pity him for screwing up his marriage with Gauri where both were equally at fault.
Now I neither like him or dislike him.
I have not mocked his good works.I am only saying that what he has done is not enough.
I cannot support characters like Jagya.What he has done with himself since his return may have convinced some people but some of us are not convinced about it.Let the CVs convince the skeptics like me and a few others.

Jagya has been this way when he has support of his family and his comfort zone around him.
I would like to see how long he can keep up with the good works he is doing?
Will he be able to keep up with all this good work positive attitudes in the face of adversities?
By adversities I do not mean Rat and co who are pure evil.Battling Rat and helping Ganga even the Jagya of old would have done it if he was put in a situation like that.
Jagya has been good an when the going was good in the face of adversities he loses spine.
Let him behave in the same manner even in the face of adversities may be then the likes of me will be convinced.

I am saying all this not because I happen to like Anandi but I liked Jagya too at one time way back.May be if you people are convinced that he has really changed by what they have shown so far that is your opinion.
A few of us sceptics need a lot more to be convinced and would believe it if CVs come with more convincing tracks to make us believe in his changed nature and goodness.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm kind of torn between the options of Ganga and Gauri...depends on how both their tracks are further developed before I can make up my mind...😕

I'm enjoying the J-G2 friendship and despite what they're showing about G2 being more conscious of J, I can't seem to buy in to a romantic relationship between the two. However I think that if the story continues by focusing on their friendship deepening and then slowly turning into love then I will be ok with it.

At the moment, J has too many girls on the mind (forced and unavoidable) and Ganga has many personal traumas to overcome to be seriously considering any relationship other than friendship. I really don't want any forced to get married because of society/family/circumstances between the two. Already had that with AnSh and mother's dying wish...let's not repeat that again.

I wish CVs focus a bit more on building Ganga's character and storyline rather than harping on about her being A 2.0. Is that meant to make the audience accept her as J's future partner due to him still missing the pehla pyaar? And look ta da...here is pehla pyaar 2.0...👎🏼 Hopefully Ratan track will add the necessary tadka.

In terms of Gauri, if she repents for her mistakes and makes serious attempts to redeem herself then I think J should definitely give their relationship a chance. They were together for so long and did have their happy moments. If they give it another shot and it still doesn't work out, then they should move on past it. At the moment, Gauri's track is maddeningly unfinished so can't make a call about who J belongs with.

All up to the CVs...as always 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84
Voted ganga pavitra!
They will build each other better,
view their history. And ganga seems to be
more mature & intelligent than the
sachi or gauri! I know gauri is mst but
thats some other intelligence!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@aparnauma,problem is, jo sudhar raha hai infact who has changed already,uska sudharna apko kaafi nehi lagraha.But jisne ek bar bhi sorry word ka use hi nehin kiya,repent,shame,ka jisme koi atapata hi nehin usko sudhar ne ka aplogo ko bara intejar hai,even you sympathize her.The difference between Jagya and Gauri is Gauri was not a bad person once upon a time and Jagya was a bad person once upon a time.Jagya sudhar gaya hai aur gauri sudhar ne ka naam hi nehin le rahin hai.Phir be you sympathize gauri and hell bent to mock jagya and demean his redemption.What kind of thinking is that!You want Jagya to suffer exactly like anandi.The way she used to crave for jagya,his love.On the contrary when he misses anandi and thinks of his good old days then you people accuse him saying that jagya is fantasizing others wife.Anandi bravely used to confront gauri.Anandi was always brave.She used to feel like dying phir bhi she used to endure.But jagya was not as good as anandi ever that was the reason he couldn't face shiv and anandi together.That means he was feeling bad just like anandi did.Usse bhi you people had problem ke dekho ye nehin sudhra kyunki he is not liking shiv and anandi together.

Jagya is living a good life so he is behaving good,if he finds himself in a bad situation taab he lacks spine.To ab jagya ki spine hai ya nehin wo janne ke liye use gauri ke saath jakar rehna chahiye.What are you actually saying,I don't understand!!!

You never liked jagya for sure because if you ever liked jagya you would have hoped that he will someday change and he will understand how precious anandi was.I was so much in love with JAAN.Never supported jagya when he was wrong,who will!But wholeheartedly expected that jagya must have to understand anandi's importance.Was happy for anandi because she is happy.Am happy for jagya because he have understood that anandi is anandi and he lost her.Agar anandi ke liye wo ufsos hi nehi karega to kaise chalega.Gauri ko yaad karna to banta hi nehin hai.Yehi kafi hai ke usne ye admit kiya hai ke wo bhi galat hai,aur maafi bhi mangli.Gauri se to utna bhi nehi hua,till now.Normal human beings like me regrets when they loose important persons of their life.Jagya abhi abhi to apni galati samaj paya hai so wo anandi ko jyada hi miss karraha hai.Slowly slowly when time passes they move on.Jagya is exactly doing the same.
Do you think that we supported jagya when he was doing all wrong things with anandi?Why?Just because we are supporting a reformed jagya!Why you are saying that ardent fans are hating him because once they used to like him!Reading your comments I am sure that you always were a fan of anandi not jagya.Anandi was always above jagya in your favourite list.So your hatred is immense towards this character and I have clearly said that in my previous post.We who are supporting jagya,almost all of us were fan of anandi and jagya both,so we always wished good for both of them.If jagya would have remain that evil jagat no one would have come here to support him for sure.I cannot change your opinion about jagya but can expect that when someone is trying hard to change then don't demean him by saying that ye to kuch bhi nehin hai.He should do this,he should do that.He haven't done much.Isko to gauri ke samne sorry kehte kehte aur gauri ki kyun kyun kyun sunte sunte mar hi jana chahiye taab jakar I will be able to forgive him.

When jagya went to gauri what do you think, gauri ne kya socha hoga?If I would have been in gauri's place I would surely think ke he came back to me.Gauri thodi na janti thi ke jagya sirf usse sorry kehne aya hai aur he doesn't want to be with her.Agar gauri loved jagya then she should have come thinking that inspite of doing evil things with him and his family,he came back to me.To main to jhat se uske paas jati and I would have said sorry to him.But look at this lady she is still cursing him,anandi and singh's family.Future mein they can show something else but as of now gauri is still in her character.No sorry,no shame,no repentance,no regrets.Even then jagya ko uske pas lautna chahiye.!I can't digest this thought,sorry.

You have time and energy to defend a evil person but you can't appreciate a person who was once evil and now trying to be a better person.Thats strange!
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#86
Whoever Jagya ends up with, I want CVs to respectfully CLOSE the chapter with Gauri.

They have to tell us whether Gauri got Jagya's letter or not, what she did with Jagya's baby in her womb, whether she is even alive or not or if she's planning a revenge or if she wants to live alone or if she is in two minds about being with Jagya or not.

They CANNOT leave that dangling and proceed with a new marriage for Jagya. Only to create drama later!!

I do not want to see the serial further being mauled in Ekta Kapoor K soap style!!

Ideally I would want to see Jagya with Gauri and their kid and both of them reforming, overcoming the demons of their past and rebuilding their lives together. Gauri was not bad at heart and they did love each other madly at some point. They were about to have a child together as well (it's another matter Gauri lost it in an accident).

BUT that said, I am not interested in Gauri if she is also replaced and there's no Anjum!! Anjum looked fabulous with Shashank and was a good actress too. I hope they can bring her back.

If at all Gauri is also to be replaced then CVs have to choose an equally powerful actress as Anjum and not come up with a botched up replacement as they did in case of the main female lead recently.

I am liking Jagya and Ganga also. More importantly I love the bond that is developing between Jagya and Mannu! It's so sweet, unselfish and pure! 👏

Shashank and Sriti look good together. Jagya and Ganga are also helping each other overcome their past trauma.

Maybe Gauri's dead and her parents can hand over her and Jagya's child to Jagya-Ganga? I dunno.

I want Ganga to retain her originality and fierceness and not just become a clone of Anandi - a pleaser of Singhs!

Maybe Jagya-Ganga is also great. But I wish CVs do not jump into it before fully closing Gauri chapter. I do not want Gauri to be brought in later as a vamp or "other woman". They have either left out Gauri as if she did not exist (right from her Gudiya days) or butchered her character (making it good or psycho at will!).
It was a powerful character whose sucess or ruin could have given a good message in the serial (how child marriage, buying little girls as brides, deserting them and how their ostracism ruins their lives and how education helps them overcome it).
Too bad they ruined it and also stereotyped career oriented women as bitches!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wow - this thread is still going and going.,... with some interesting discussions by the looks of it. Will catch up when I can.
I reserve my right to mock J btw... cuz I am sarcastic about all. N J sheds his personality every 2 episodes like a snake! Unlike him I am not about to change my sarcastic nature. That said all J bakhts can rest easy as am not updating this weekend since I am busy.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank god,today I realized miracle happens.As a snake jagya vakht ye to mere liye vardan hai, that you are not updating this weekend😃 and I don't have to read your sarcastic update.Am saved for a week.😲Thats awesome.Feeling sorry for jagya haters,😭they will miss the opportunity of reading bashing comments and enjoy and very happy for jagya bhakts as they will be able to enjoy.👏

Fingers crossed.Agar aapne update karliya to,agar aap free ho gayi to,hoping for the best.

No offence😊.Just being Sarcastic.😉😆
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Wow - this thread is still going and going.,... with some interesting discussions by the looks of it. Will catch up when I can.

I reserve my right to mock J btw... cuz I am sarcastic about all. N J sheds his personality every 2 episodes like a snake! Unlike him I am not about to change my sarcastic nature. That said all J bakhts can rest easy as am not updating this weekend since I am busy.😆

show me when he is shedding his personality like a snake now every two episodes later he is firm on his redemption thats snake changing for you, 🤢 worst illogical sarcasm👎🏼and why are you referring as the one who support J as his bhakts 👎🏼 again worst sarcasm No one is bhakt here if someone asked you to keep your sarcasm out of your updates at least where other's can too read nothing wrong is there Definitely you are not sarcastic about all no one is that blind here You i guess are updating only for you and your friends not for all right therefore who likes read your updates who don't find it right so don't because you are boss you won't change and never accept you are mistaking anyways never mind be happy by your this kind of post thats enough for us to never read your updates fine we won't keep doing whatever

Edited by saba113 - 12 years ago
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Saba,I think she is reffering to jagya's shirts.Now a days he is wearing different and colourful shirts,yellow,green,blue,pale,😳ummm purple,no no that's shiv's t-shirt,never mind,grey,white etc you know.Otherwise I can't understand what colour jagya is changing in every two episodes.😕

Thinking,thinking,thinking...still thinking🤔.Got it 😃and am sure almost👍🏼.It is definitely the shirts jagya wearing.He is sooo ☺️
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago

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