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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
@BeyondTheSky

we should to watch the gauri-jagya track
Gauri is not bad girl at all She always showing her loved for jagya but his family never axxpt her as jayya wife she felt insecured wife
thats the reason she had doing something wrong

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Posted: 12 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ beyond the sky

J walked out from a relationship. After the 2 separated, J's entire family has supported him with love and care and hence this mature J that we see.
So if J expected his family to accept him with his faults and give him that love, then why can't J realise that G1 has no one to love her. Why can't he go to her and support her and bring her back to track.
She is not all that bad, but she was a rejected, insecured wife and bahu. hence went insane and eventually dominating.


@bold Yes you right


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Posted: 12 years ago
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looks like i am the minority here.😆... gauri sealed her fate the day she decided to walk the path with jagya knowing that he was already married..so i am sorry but cant sympathize with her.
and gauri n jagya were never legally married so there''s no question of reaching an agreement for separation...as per me in gauri-jagya relationship there's a deep-seated resentment for each other... which cant heal even with time.
Edited by BeyondTheSky - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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When we don't support gauri why some people think that we didn't watch the show!!!If our number of posts are not above thousand that doesn't mean we are new and doesn't know anything!!

@aparnauma,when I interacted with you for the first time that time you on your post mentioned that you watched balika vadhu from day 1.Fine,thats good.After that I got to read so many of your posts where somehow you mentioned that you watched this show from day 1.Couple of days earlier you said in your post that you don't need to know anything from a newbie because you are watching this show from day 1.I know you were irritated because that person was quoting you and trying to convince you with which you don't agree.Now you are suggesting @beyondthesky to watch gauri jagya's episode because you think she doesn't know much about it.If she is your friend then you can say and suggest her whatever you want.I was a newbie the time I interacted with you.I think here all the members are already aware that you are the one and only person who is watching this show from day 1.Plz,try to not mention it each and everytime.Specially the people who have less number of posts.Because less number of posts doesn't ensure that we are not watching the show and only assuming.
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ shankythebest I was replying to the person in this thread who quoted me and what I said to the person was not based on the no of posts.


If Jagya expects his family to accept him back and give him another chance just because they love him why can't he accept Gauri back and help her see the error of her ways?Getting angry with Gauri was fine if he loved her as he claimed why did he not forgive her in the first place.

He expected Anandi to welcome him back with open arms then why can't he do the same with Gauri.?
Afterall she was his true love.Now he claims to be still in love with Anandi.If he loved Anandi why did he leave her?And that too for what reason - she was not educated?If he loved Anandi when she tried to educate herself why did he make fun of her?Where was all his love then?

That clearly shows he never loved Anandi or Gauri or he always loved Anandi and he played around with Gauri until he realised she was not good enough for him and left her.And he decides to come back to Anandi because he thought Gauri is not fit enough to be his wife.

After coming back what great thing he has done to deserve a wife like Ganga especially now that he claims that he is still in love with Anandi?

If Jagya can be forgiven and loved afterall these things that he has done Gauri can be forgiven and be accepted too esp by the person who claimed to be her sacha pyar.

Saying that Jagya can be forgiven for all those things that he has done and that Gauri doesn't deserve forgiveness or acceptance means only one thing.









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Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

@ Hina,

I think your view is in response to my post. So jumping in to reply.
If Gauri was someone I loved and parted with becaue both of us were at fault. And then later one day I realise that it was just not her fault but also mine, then I would make efforts to accept her not once but many times, simply because somewhere I am also at fault for getting her into this state. And honestly I am no devta but just a simple human being who is trying to correct some of my mistakes upon realising. So J does not have to be a devtaa
It is very easy to marry someone like Ganga who is sane and mature. So whats the big deal there? Big deal is in nurturing your relationships and not walking out or close it by writing a letter. Yes I appreciate J for his efforts in visiting mumbai. But is it sufficient to just write a letter and leave it? J did a lot to get maafi from Singhs. He even went to jail to stand up in their eyes. But he hasn't done much to win back Gauri. Infact he doesn't even think of her. Why? Doesn't she mean anything to him?
As for Ganga, it is a wrong interpretation that divorced mother should not re-marry just because they have a child. That's shallow to think.

sorry Esha my point was in general not targetted to you but now since you replied so replying i disagree with you completely .When he accepted its not just her fault but mine too didn't he go to her ? yes he did she refused to see him Nurse was all the way embarrassed so i guess even after that a brainless person can too see what way she rejected to see him so how he cannot so what he should do more if writing letter was not enough ? please enlighten that too here Go to her again because the poor woman no one to love her after 7 to 8 months has not yet realized that when i do wrong i should say 5 letter word sorry .

bold part is simply amazing? what he did wrong to Gauri that he should win her mata jee dont you think it should be reverse she should win him but according to your view he should win the heart of mahaan woman if you are comparing between Singhs and Gauri then i will call its highly wrong comparison because how much Singhs have done for Jagaya he did wrong to them unlike Gauri there He confessed his mistake not to stand in front of Singhs but just to correct it but what he should do to Gauri? the woman who has no interest in him now ? take a room outside her office throw love letters to her , beg to her , sing romantic songs to her , give his life away to your highness since you are not at all bad girl just an angel that became devil for sometime and too small to realize your mistake so let me teach you ?This is what you want I think Gauri is pretty mature if she is worthy life partner then prove it No one can change your thinking until you won't try Gauri has tried anywhere ? did she for once tried to talk to him instead of her rutheless rejections still if you think so he should go and teach her like we teach kindergarden babies then you indeed are too great not mocking you just appreciating you with a sincere heart i wish i could think like it as well since i cannot

Yeah there is nothing great in marrying a sane and wise person Jagaya should not marry Ganga fine I never wanted him to marry anyone without marriage life never ends only supported if Ganga will wish so then ok fine and i guess we all should find some rascals around to marry because marrying a sane and wise person is no great work right?but nurturing your idiot partner you doesn't care you live or die , keep trying all your life perhaps in two or three next births partner will get on right path thats real great work

as for Gauri the great lets wait and watch what mahaan works she does more Right now Jagaya is marrying none perhaps if she has done abortion too that will too be minor work not big Jagaya should win her heart because she is as great as his parents done so much for him he should keep trying all his life to win her

Edited by hina13 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma


@ shankythebest I was replying to the person in this thread who quoted me and what I said to the person was not based on the no of posts.


If Jagya expects his family to accept him back and give him another chance just because they love him why can't he accept Gauri back and help her see the error of her ways?Getting angry with Gauri was fine if he loved her as he claimed why did he not forgive her in the first place.

He expected Anandi to welcome him back with open arms then why can't he do the same with Gauri.?
Afterall she was his true love.Now he claims to be still in love with Anandi.If he loved Anandi why did he leave her?And that too for what reason - she was not educated?If he loved Anandi when she tried to educate herself why did he make fun of her?Where was all his love then?

That clearly shows he never loved Anandi or Gauri or he always loved Anandi and he played around with Gauri until he realised she was not good enough for him and left her.And he decides to come back to Anandi because he thought Gauri is not fit enough to be his wife.

After coming back what great thing he has done to deserve a wife like Ganga especially now that he claims that he is still in love with Anandi?

If Jagya can be forgiven and loved afterall these things that he has done Gauri can be forgiven and be accepted too esp by the person who claimed to be her sacha pyar.

Saying that Jagya can be forgiven for all those things that he has done and that Gauri doesn't deserve forgiveness or acceptance means only one thing.









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bold lol aparna he asked forgiveness from his family won their trust back did Gauri did anything ?when she will do then bring these points and he has forgiven her isn;t he You i guess are seeing this serial from day 1 so how you missed he didn't forgive her yet .He in clear words said he did now what more you want him to do if she don't want to see him? . probably beg to her? Gauri can be forgiven but will she try ? really great are you all people such support for a woman who didn't even brought a word sorry on her tongue 😆and should we wait and watch what cvs show devi maa to do? If she never tries and we receive a great news she aborted his child then what you will say ?still can be forgiven and accepted back ? for now she doesn't want to be accepted you want him to force her ?The person is showing no interest to see his face even after close to year of their separation and you are asking him to accept her why he cannot accept her ? Where she came and said accept me she is not interested
Edited by hina13 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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[QUOTE=Missesha]

@ beyond the sky

J walked out from a relationship. After the 2 separated, J's entire family has supported him with love and care and hence this mature J that we see.
So if J expected his family to accept him with his faults and give him that love, then why can't J realise that G1 has no one to love her.

Why can't he go to her and support her and bring her back to track.
She is not all that bad, but she was a rejected, insecured wife and bahu. hence went insane and eventually dominating.
[/QUOTE]bold 1 please Esha state facts correctly I always love your posts but why are you stating half facts here Family didn't go to him he came to them , faced numerous rejections of them but tried , tried , tried and finally won them but Gauri why she cannot do that ,? compare situations where there is comparison here no comparison

Gauri doesn't want to be accepted or have him in her life so what he should do ? force her its not his assumption she proved she haven't even replied to letter yet If she want to be accepted give at least one clue ,one small gesture

bold 2 Her family has died ? even she has them 😕so how no one to love her

bold 3 is confusing 😕he went to her after her brutal rejection she refused to see him what more ? she is perfectly fine , leading her life , working in a top class hospital yet another rutheless rejection she gave to him she don't care so he should go to her again?perhaps keep waiting outside her office may be she will have mercy in one or two years to see him but he should keep his wait on outside her office😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Hina,

Thank you for replying to my post.

Honestly I never supported Ja-Ga relationship because it ruined Anandi's life and secondly I don't find G faultless or less culprit. With that in mind, I would like to explain why J should take more efforts in building his relationship with G1 again, rather than marrying for 3rd time (be in Ganga or any other girl)

In the current situation J is in a very good position mentally and emotionally. He went through a lot after the separation but eventually he stabilised. And lot of credit goes to Ganga for being a positive influence around him. J is lot more mature now than he was when he just separated from G1.

Unfortunately G1 does not have anyone to care for her with this compassion. The only person she ever found compassion in, left her. G1 is in the same state of mind (immaturity) that she was at the time the 2 separated. And the ONLY person who can re-instill compassion and softness in her is J, through love, respect and appreciation. It takes a lot for one to do that. But if J could do that, he will not only reform his relationship with G1 but also show that he has the capacity to live a relationship and nurture it.

You may question why should he bend to G1 when she too was at fault. Yes that's correct. But then sometimes in a relationship one has to bend even when they are not completely at fault. And this time J is in a better position to do that than G1

Shiv also let go a lot for A when he was at no fault. He did that for his relationship and eventually A is with him.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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This poll is offensive... I understand why 5th bride - to make fun of Jagyas love life 👎🏼
But on brighter note...Jagya is damn to good looking, attractive, gr8 person, and above all is played by THE BEST actor of the show, so yea...no wonder people try to match him with every single girl in the show 😎

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