JAAN impact on ANSH- My take on it

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andv

@andv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

@Hooked: totally agree with you and that was also one of the reasons I was against A pleading S to marry her in order to fulfill her mother's wish. He asked her to take her time and gave her ample amount of space, but she did not wisely consider her decision.

At the same time I am glad she was not able to speak to Sumitra when she tried to call her to address her fears. Its better she start confiding in S and expressing her fears to him, since they are going to lead their lives together. Sply in this matter no one can help her more than he. With time they will learn to communicate with each other and also understand each other better.

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

i think anandi has two fears first fear will she be a succesful lover ? second fear was that how to share her feeling to shiv because it may hurt shiv .

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Agree with you on all points...Aparna...😊

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hooked

@hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Aparna - I hear you but I guess I am feeling really bad for Shiv currently. He is getting shot as a bystander and that is very painful. That's all 😊!

Let's hope once she comes clean with Shiv, they can take it slow and she can agree to go on a honeymoon so they get that precious time together which is required. They have so far been in public places with positions to keep. They need to go away someplace where they can just be 2 people and throw snowballs at each other and have fun. Stepping into a flower decked, candle-lit room with in-laws in the next room hardly makes for a very romantic mood.

Hope she agrees to go away on a holoday with him. Really really do hope so.

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Sree

@Katyayani_devi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

eventhough anandi knew all ,knew shiv before n knew mrg n all, she used to shiv before n took decisions to move on n all ,she used to touch of shiv but not tat physical touch of shiv now ,inspite knewing all n taken decisions n want to live life with shiv n all, almost all her scars n fears are addressed n solved but when comes to physcial intimacy when tat moment comes just she can't take it ,it's as simple as tat , her intentions are nice n good , but she is suffering to overcome it ,the last scar of anandi being addressed now by cvs. it's not tat she is selfish n all, soon she will embrace life.

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Aparna, as usual, a very nice post, a well done post mortem.

Time is a great healer.When divorce papers were signed, the all other bonds between j and a became a history. Again, vibhoot incident was the next step when anandi has her anger on jagya, finally the day she dumped all her old stuff in the water, it was expected that she is out of Jagya zone ,and she , herself declared at that time where she stands shiv vs jagya. No body even in the world have thought that the ghost of jagya still looms on her mind. The fears of CM were erasd with her some good actions. She has her heart full for shiv. She was no where near jagya and not any fear was even in her mind.

For me, she got somewhat disturbed with the fact that Jagya becoming a good man, the way jagya has intenracted her just before marriage and during marriage and even after marriage, has somewhat weakened her. Had her heart still filled with anger, she should have never any fear. I still consider that intimacy is not at all issue, fear of her rejection from shiv is dead issue. Remember she told sumi that love can be only once and that was for jagya.

Anandi is emotionally broken down. I think, Jagya needs to see her. It s only Jagya at this stage who can motivate her and bring her to the right track, a track that goes to shiv s heart.

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

@tootyfruity I think you like jagya a lot. That's why u support jagya most if the time. Anandi does not need jagya at this point in her life. She has to let her fears to shiv and only he can solve her intimacy issues not jagya. Do u think shiv will like anandi confronting her issues with jagya. Plz no man can take it.

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itsRitzi

@itsRitzi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

👍🏼well written since i wasnt a follower of BV earlier it made some of my confusions clear as to wat damage J has done to ajee and her fears coz of that

But i too hope ajee soon realise tat running form present for the past deeds is not good idea it will endanger the future too

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: hooked
Aparna - I hear you but I guess I am feeling really bad for Shiv currently. He is getting shot as a bystander and that is very painful. That's all 😊!

Let's hope once she comes clean with Shiv, they can take it slow and she can agree to go on a honeymoon so they get that precious time together which is required. They have so far been in public places with positions to keep. They need to go away someplace where they can just be 2 people and throw snowballs at each other and have fun. Stepping into a flower decked, candle-lit room with in-laws in the next room hardly makes for a very romantic mood.

Hope she agrees to go away on a holoday with him. Really really do hope so.

Even I feel bad for him in fact I felt so bad when I saw him in that scene where he was making arrangements for their night together.Actually in that scene he reminded me so much of Anandi before life happened to her.He was full of dreams for them,eagerness to full his dreams for them and so optimistic with belief that nothing bad can happen to him.My heart went out for him too.

But he should have picked the signals that said she is not there.Which was uncharacterstic of him too.She may not be able to tell him that she is not ready she may not the nerve to tell him but her body language said it all.

Both seemed to be behaving in a manner that we were not used to seeing them.But I am glad we are getting to see them both in less than mahaan mode.😊

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
@tootyfruity I think you like jagya a lot. That's why u support jagya most if the time. Anandi does not need jagya at this point in her life. She has to let her fears to shiv and only he can solve her intimacy issues not jagya. Do u think shiv will like anandi confronting her issues with jagya. Plz no man can take it.

I totally agree with you, he is not at all required, but in these types of situations, for trps, cv will introduce him.

Regarding I being the fan of Jagay , yes, he is my favourite but least among all others characters of bv.