yesterday's desponess-so not shiv

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

marriage means mutual understanding ...its great hope where one family hope for their next vansh too...

but when it comes to mataji like anadi shaadi means compromise or we can say maa ki antim iccha

anandi was not satisfied with her first marriage due to her bal vivah and now she is not satiusfied bcoz its maa ki iccha only...she doesnt want to be intimate with shiv and needs time.//////

and still creatives call character of anandi to be mahaan for whom marriage is always compromise...

Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago

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sectoreight

@sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: bips
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What i found stupid was that shiv was not throwing her down on a bed and forcing her. He was just hugging and kissing. Even if she is not ready to go the entire way, should she not be comfortable with at least some sort of physical intimacy?

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yes, thank you!!

Infact, in her place, I would be happy -- whatever self confidence had been shattered by jagya rejecting me and making me feel unattractive-- here is a person who affirms me and finds me desirable. All he has done is caress her elbows 😆 . And for those who feel she needs time -- I think she has had a substantial courtship period, she has also been lifted up in his arms etc. in the rain scene on their way back from jaipur...she should feel comfortable enough to be touched.

all the time bolting like a wild horse from him is not nice.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

She will finally surrender to him not for love but as a part of her duty towards her husband. It will again look like a big sacrifice from her side.. And OMG how mahan she is, blah blah !!

We would hate to see this kind of a relationship.

Shiv is a nice man. it is wrong to call him a 'despo'. The real despo is anandi who doesn't know what she wants in her own life.

She once called herself 'gira hua zaad ka patta' which she actually is.

Hope the CVs dont kill us anymore with that boring SR ...

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Stop bashing Anandi and this victim bashing attitude!!

Anandi does not want to have sex...

PERIOD...

For Anandi Love = Sex.

Once Jagya got what he wanted... he treated Anandi like dirt. And left her.

So she in her mind fears that Shiv might do that too. Its Natural. Its not about trust.. its about fears.

Shiv needs to get her out of there. He took on the responsibility now.. he has to fight for that.

So please.. Ido not think what SHiv did was wrong cause, he is a guy, and the love of his life is in front of him.

ALso did you notice Anandi did not PUSH him away. She is trying real hard to move on.

She is smiling having convsersations as much as she can have. Its only when the topic of Sex comes she gets very very uncomfortable.

She just needs time .. so stop bashing her!!!!

THe people who bash Anandi ..honestly I am disgusted by them. They can think of only bashing...every min they can get...

Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 12 years ago

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian
Stop bashing Anandi and this dammed victim bashing attitude!!

Even after that rape crisis in INdia.. people still carry the same disgusting PUKING victim bashing attitude.

Look into yourselves you bashers... before you raise your finger at a woman who has been abused alll Their lives and taunt them.. with every opportunity.

Anandi does not want to have sex...
PERIOD...

For Anandi Love = Sex.

Once Jagya got what he wanted... he treated Anandi like dirt. And left her.

So she in her mind fears that Shiv might do that too. Its Natural. Its not about trust.. its about fears.

Shiv needs to get her out of there. He took on the responsibility now.. he has to fight for that.

So please.. Ido not think what SHiv did was wrong cause, he is a guy, and the love of his life is in front of him.

ALso did you notice Anandi did not PUSH him away. She is trying real hard to move on.
She is smiling having convsersations as much as she can have. Its only when the topic of Sex comes she gets very very uncomfortable.

She just needs time .. so stop bashing her!!!!

THe people who bash Anandi ..honestly I am disgusted by them. If they can think of only bashing...every min they can get...

Honestly just shut up and show some respect. Show some sympathy...

You have a right to say what you want but no right to offend other members. Neither do you have any right to enforce your opinion on others.

Your comments were rude. so REPORTED.

THANKS

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

SO you agree you were bashing Anandi. So you were reported too. Thats the FIRST thing I did. REPOrt you.

Because all you ever do is bash Anandi's character.

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Anandhi give baashans only to others reg. arranged marriage, widows remarriage but when it comes to her line she won't even tell to shiv that she needs time. shiv shld read her mind and shld ask her permission before doing anything.Bechaara shiv 😆 he is expecting too much from our anandhi devi.😕

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Suchi-Virmanian...its our opinion dear if you feel its bashing its upto you,,,,,,,if u like to report...report it we dont care bcoz truth is always bitter...

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Its just sad... Mocking, bashing... Even if its a fictional character.. its a story of some girl some where.

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Honestly .. its the mindset that I am disgusted with.

So say what ever you want. But I will speak out as well.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian
SO you agree you were bashing Anandi. So you were reported too. Thats the FIRST thing I did. REPOrt you.

Because all you ever do is bash Anandi's character.

What I do is my wish. I take no orders from other members. I hope that is clear

If I have broken rules, the mods will take action against me.. Guess you are not privileged to do it.

thanks