yesterday's desponess-so not shiv - Page 2

It is not out of his character at all...

Originally posted by: nniks

shiv is not som sant mahatma he is normal human with normal desires...so his trying to get intimate behaviour was not wrong...anandi is also correct she needs time thts also perfectly fine...they both need to communicate and sort out the things.

i think that shiv has given her enough space n time to make her feel comfortable...i am not saying her to consummate their marriage but post-marriage isn't she being little dull n uncomfortable towards shiv...even anandi is also not like being quite her usual self (like was with shiv pre-marriage phase)

Originally posted by: saviani

It is not out of his character at all...

It was Anandi who provoked him during the pond scene where she throws all Jagya's belongings and tells him that she left her past memories also behind now and is ready to start a new life with Shiv. And Shiv assumed that Anandi has moved on...

His only aim is to keep Anandi happy and as an husband his duty is to keep his wife happy. And what's wrong if he want to be physically involved... this we can definitely not call it Despo...

As you mentioned Shiv being a gentleman will back off seeing Anandi's state... it is she who have to speak to him... And she should not expect that he will always understand her without she speaking...

Originally posted by: luv_shanak

i know yaar ki shiv is a normal human and i agree ki he was not wrong in trying to get intimate with his wife but ab tak jaise shiv ke character ko portray kiya gaya hai i wished ki he should have checked ananadi's comfortably level...abhi tak shiv ko aisa dikhaya gaya hai that he keeps anandi's comfortability as his priority and for this crucial stage of marriage, he should have been vocal and considerate...aur waise bhi rui ki rasam ke time to haath pakadne ke liye bhi "MAY I" kar raha tha aur itni important cheez ke liye puchna zaroori nahi samjha😆😆😆

thts coz he had to touch her in public in private if hubby starts asking every time may i phir to ho gya kalyaan ;-)
i think shiv got little carried away by anandi"s beauty n their privacy...hota hai yarr...i dont blame him for tht...once they talk things will be ok

Originally posted by: luv_shanak

i know yaar ki shiv is a normal human and i agree ki he was not wrong in trying to get intimate with his wife but ab tak jaise shiv ke character ko portray kiya gaya hai i wished ki he should have checked ananadi's comfortably level...abhi tak shiv ko aisa dikhaya gaya hai that he keeps anandi's comfortability as his priority and for this crucial stage of marriage, he should have been vocal and considerate...aur waise bhi rui ki rasam ke time to haath pakadne ke liye bhi "MAY I" kar raha tha aur itni important cheez ke liye puchna zaroori nahi samjha😆😆😆

imagine wo har act par " MAY I" kare i mean while SR.

Originally posted by: nniks

thts coz he had to touch her in public in private if hubby starts asking every time may i phir to ho gya kalyaan ;-)
i think shiv got little carried away by anandi"s beauty n their privacy...hota hai yarr...i dont blame him for tht...once they talk things will be ok

aapko nahi lagta hum log dadisa aur aanandi se bhi zaada samajdaar hain.

Originally posted by: luv_shanak

i know yaar ki shiv is a normal human and i agree ki he was not wrong in trying to get intimate with his wife but ab tak jaise shiv ke character ko portray kiya gaya hai i wished ki he should have checked ananadi's comfortably level...abhi tak shiv ko aisa dikhaya gaya hai that he keeps anandi's comfortability as his priority and for this crucial stage of marriage, he should have been vocal and considerate...aur waise bhi rui ki rasam ke time to haath pakadne ke liye bhi "MAY I" kar raha tha aur itni important cheez ke liye puchna zaroori nahi samjha😆😆😆

I agree... Shiv is not wrong in what he was doing bt i too was nt expecting this from Shiv(or i shud say cvs)... I was like Shiv will understand A and ask her whether she is comfortable with it or not...(Even i was expecting him to take his pillow n sleep on couch lol😆) But cvs surprised me by this act of his...😲

I dont think that just being married means that a woman has to have sex whenever her husband wants. Definitely not. But i just dont get anandi.
One minute she is hot one minute cold.

Shiv is under the impression that she loves him. She did a lot ofgol mol baatein when she gave a dressing dowwn to shiv. Shiv thinks that she is eager for a new relationship. I dont think she is.

What i found stupid was that shiv was not throwing her down on a bed and forcing her. He was just hugging and kissing. Even if she is not ready to go the entire way, should she not be comfortable with at least some sort of physical intimacy?

If she was ok with the hugs and kisses but did not want more, needed time, that i could understand. But she is acting as if shiv repulses her. She is very uncomfortable with anything. She pretty much pushed shiv away in disgust, and she has the "i am going to give you bhashans" look.