Forgive Gauri before you forgive Jagya - Page 4

Originally posted by: michelle281194

you asked me about the blue part? I've made it clear: J lied to G for the first 5-6 yrs of their relationship. Coupled with her past full of rejection, she obviously became insecure.

I'm not asking you or anybody to forgive Gauri- I'm just saying that j should be judged on the same scale as G.

Its really gross that you go on to call G a 'mistress'- Wish you'd used a similar word for J, who was the real troublemaker.

@red: I hope you know that its not a crime to be mean. But infidelity is as good as. that is my point. hope you got it.

Originally posted by: michelle281194

God you people are seriously out of it!!!! You just dont get my point!!! I've read sooo many posts that say that Jagya is justified in becoming a villain/ CVs have unnecessarily screwed with his character (especially on the frustration thread). The only point I'm trying to make is that the same happened to Gauri's character but not one person speaks of that! Which I feel just goes to show that we make allowances for men (however subconsciously) but not for women.

Let me make it clear (i'll write this in the initial post itself)... I dont believe either Gauri or Jagya deserves forgiveness- but if ppl seem to accept J n his flaws then they ought to give Gauri the same treatment on the basis of equality... Forgive both or hate both- Dont be a hypocrite. Or be a saint and dont judge either. But pls dont judge them on different scales that archaic society made for men n women. Some of you have gone completely out of context and begun to speak about stuff that is absolutely unrelated to what i said... So i barely understand it, was bored to read it n hence cant reply coz how do u reply to something u dont understand? Some ppl have gone on to do that- even called my view 'immaterial' 😕 wow. super mean. Whatever. Apparently healthy discussion is not valued, ppl just wanna yell.

So there, now i'm yelling.

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

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Calling members super mean, hypocrites because they dont share your feelings is not acceptable. Healthy discussions dont have such words dear.

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

Gawari , if called mistress gross????🤣
Then calling a spade , a spade is also gross???
Since when did people stop hating Jagay?. We started hating him even before his illicit illegal courtship with a woman. A woman who is an insult to womanhood.

There is no gender discrimination in this forum, The mods are pretty much active and when someone does anything cheeky, They nip it before it buds.

We don't hate gawari because she is a woman. We hate her because of her lack of morals, ethics, manners, decency, conduct...

And we dont hate jagay bcoz he is a man. We hate him because he is classic MCP, pighead, selfish useless brat, arrogant gadha, pervert...

Originally posted by: kikyo

michelle281194 sorry i guess i was the one who called your post immatariel after you called people's this view immaterial that Gauri asks forgiveness or not and wow you called us mean and called our posts boring ...great 😕

Originally posted by: michelle281194

God you people are seriously out of it!!!! You just dont get my point!!! I've read sooo many posts that say that Jagya is justified in becoming a villain/ CVs have unnecessarily screwed with his character (especially on the frustration thread). The only point I'm trying to make is that the same happened to Gauri's character but not one person speaks of that! Which I feel just goes to show that we make allowances for men (however subconsciously) but not for women.

Let me make it clear (i'll write this in the initial post itself)... I dont believe either Gauri or Jagya deserves forgiveness- but if ppl seem to accept J n his flaws then they ought to give Gauri the same treatment on the basis of equality... Forgive both or hate both- Dont be a hypocrite. Or be a saint and dont judge either. But pls dont judge them on different scales that archaic society made for men n women. Some of you have gone completely out of context and begun to speak about stuff that is absolutely unrelated to what i said... So i barely understand it, was bored to read it n hence cant reply coz how do u reply to something u dont understand? Some ppl have gone on to do that- even called my view 'immaterial' 😕 wow. super mean. Whatever. Apparently healthy discussion is not valued, ppl just wanna yell.

So there, now i'm yelling.

Originally posted by: michelle281194

you should really read the frustration thread if u feel there is no gender bias. Again i say that this topic was not for any specific person: it was the general feeling that i was getting among some forum members. If you are not part of them, there is no need to get offended n speak in plural as if you know every forum member's views. I'm just posting mine, you just post yours and move on. Just like you, even i'm going to ask the mods to shut down this topic. you ppl are going somewhere else only n calling it my view then. i'll say it for the last time, I'm not in support of each n every post in this discussion or where this discussion has gone. My views are clear n pertain to the first post i made wen this topic began..

As for the mistress thing: I don't believe in term mistress, just as i don't believe in the term bas***d or illegitimate. So yes i find these words gross. I feel that ppl cant control who they fall in love with and calling thm names makes the situation worse.