Forgive Gauri before you forgive Jagya

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Asha

@Chytra

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

As per the stats of the poll until now only 8 people forgave him and 66 said HELL NO. so looks like majority of the forum disgusts even the idea of forgining J who is begging and asking for maafi.
And that 🤬 didnt even had an ounce of remorse.🤢 so why forgive her, when she is not even asking for it

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

BV CVs have butchered Gauri's character long ago...Somehow they can not show a second woman in a man's life in a positive light..Common, she may be a second woman in J's life but J was the only man in her life and she never knew of A when she fell in love with him...

Anyways thats old story, btw where is Gauri madam now? And what is her current relationship status with Jags?

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

after long very post agaist gauri..thats what call her charmess

thread maker is not saying that forgive gauri she is stressing that if one want to forgive jagat tha gauri should be forgiven first...well anjum exit end the gauri drama otherwise negativiry and drama was more in the store and excitemet also now its sooo boring i dont watch...

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Forgiving one person is not interdependent on forgiving another person. We forgive someone either because they deserve it or because we love them so much that we don't want to distance with them. So it is not mandatory that to forgive J, one has to forgive G first, not especially when she has not even asked for it.

Some may forgive J and not G while others may forgive G and not J. It's an individual feeling.

Anyways, it is forum members personal opinion of whom they like, dislike, hate, love, forgive or reject. We all form our opinions based on how these characters behave. Since they are just fictitious characters, forgiving them on forum is immaterial.

Edited by Missesha - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: michelle281194
I'm not asking the creatives or the singhs to forgive Gauri, I'm saying that if some forum members speak in support of J (whom I can't forgive) they ought to forgive Gauri first. So its immaterial whether Gauri is asking for forgiveness or not

@ bold - forgiving a person w/o the doer asking for it sounds weird .

Actually, Gauri might not like ur idea of people forgiving her.We can only forgive people when they think they did something wrong while here G thinks she was never wrong. To her she had always been a poor victim.So how can we forgive her?

Edited by -Perseus- - 12 years ago

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

God you people are seriously out of it!!!! You just dont get my point!!! I've read sooo many posts that say that Jagya is justified in becoming a villain/ CVs have unnecessarily screwed with his character (especially on the frustration thread). The only point I'm trying to make is that the same happened to Gauri's character but not one person speaks of that! Which I feel just goes to show that we make allowances for men (however subconsciously) but not for women.

Let me make it clear (i'll write this in the initial post itself)... I dont believe either Gauri or Jagya deserves forgiveness- but if ppl seem to accept J n his flaws then they ought to give Gauri the same treatment on the basis of equality... Forgive both or hate both- Dont be a hypocrite. Or be a saint and dont judge either. But pls dont judge them on different scales that archaic society made for men n women. Some of you have gone completely out of context and begun to speak about stuff that is absolutely unrelated to what i said... So i barely understand it, was bored to read it n hence cant reply coz how do u reply to something u dont understand? Some ppl have gone on to do that- even called my view 'immaterial' 😕 wow. super mean. Whatever. Apparently healthy discussion is not valued, ppl just wanna yell.

So there, now i'm yelling.

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

I'am assuming that this title "Forgive G befor eu forgive J" is directed to the singh's and not to the members. Because it is the singh's who forgave J.

@ blue--- I don't understand this point.

Who lied to Gauri? --- Jagya

Does G know that?----YES

On whom did she seek revenge?---The Singh's and Anandi of all!!!! How mean of this mistress to seek revenge on a beaten soul(anandi)??

Okay coming to this forgiving thing, i would weigh J-G crimes as even. Both were so perfect to each other😭.

Still , i think G cannot be forgiven. Because she never ever felt sorry for her ugly deeds. J was once the most loved and pampered member of the Singh family. Still they did not forgive him. They forgave him ONLY after he begged and begged them after a series of incidents. Bhairon has not given him a clean chit yet! They have this blood relation plus a changed J in front of them. How would this be compared to G who had been an arrogant ungrateful stranger to them all this while? A stranger who always humiliated their Daughter Anandi...and to top that she almost killed Badi maasi!

I think G can be forgiven if and only if she changes...feels ashamed for her deeds..and says sorry to Anandi for hurting her, abusing her and using her.

you asked me about the blue part? I've made it clear: J lied to G for the first 5-6 yrs of their relationship. Coupled with her past full of rejection, she obviously became insecure.

I'm not asking you or anybody to forgive Gauri- I'm just saying that j should be judged on the same scale as G.

Its really gross that you go on to call G a 'mistress'- Wish you'd used a similar word for J, who was the real troublemaker.

@red: I hope you know that its not a crime to be mean. But infidelity is as good as. that is my point. hope you got it.

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: madhubala.fan
aur jagiya feeling sorry for any of his actions is a joke.
he cares for no1 .
he is sayign sorry to get his heaven back which he had himself kicked.

ab logon ko usse bhi sympathy hai to kya karen.

aisi selfish maafi se to koi maafi naa maage wo jada achha hai.

TOPIC MAKER
i back ur statements n post 200%. lekin i wont post any more , argueing with biased people will prove to be a waste of time.

just dont get upset with the views u may get to read.

thank you so much 😊 you seem to be one of the only mature ppl here. I've realized how right you are. i need to develop a thicker skin. thanks again 😊

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

all in all... thank you all for your views.. for those who agreed with me and also for those who didn't 😊

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BeautyBabe

@BeautyBabe

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

michelle281194 sorry i guess i was the one who called your post immatariel after you called people's this view immaterial that Gauri asks forgiveness or not and wow you called us mean and called our posts boring ...great 😕

i believe honey even you didnt understand the contexts of those posts even one point in them who were saying turning Jagaya into villain was not justified ...why because we were seeing demand of story as we are seeing it for four long years , the theme the unfortunate Bal vivah, how the story progressed , what progress they made in him ( for which we didn't go and beg to them please make him realize his errors and waste our precious time in fooling us )then turning him into villain forcing some new traits in him after eating our heads for such a long time he will redeem then when time came what is this new turn ? ..so i believe this move from cvs is not even justified in any case even in fiction writing .here there is no gender competition going on male female whatever we said was according to the story the character not he is male she is a female so female turned into villain so why we have objections for male ? we were just saying as character wise A character who was always shown he can redeem then why push him into irrevocable darkness ? where there is no way out and one day or the other they will redeem him its obvious so why this forced negative move that too when after making him realize his mistakes even he knew forgiveness is not easy for him so when forgiveness not given then turn him into negative and ruin the track in blink of eye and again they dropped this negative track in a blink of eye and back to same from where he started his realization saga .so what was this villain track for ?.They didn't do this with Gauri and if she was once upon a good person then Jagaya too was and did many good works in between which Gauri when did she do any good work last time ? and i believe in this show there are mostly men who did wrong leaving only Bhairo so do you call it injustice as well because no one objected this thing here why men are doing wrong Women i believe there were only four one was psycho Teepri , otherwise Dadisaa has been shown redeemed , the two negative ones are Gauri and her mom only who haven't shown redeemed yet and women are just not angels there are many worst women exists in this world

i believe many members objected here why Gauri had to be that girl who was married to Jagya in childhood that was stupid move over dramatic situation .Gauri's negative turn if truly analyze it was much more consistent than Jagaya's with less flaws and more understandable . ..thats why many members didnt object it and it was justifiable according to story .They have shown two sides of women one good one bad .Gauri was counter to Anandi not Jagaya. Her negative turn was to justify Anandi not Jagaya .Anandi was justified from it as a perfect example for women as wife , daughter , daughter in law friend ,even professionally because Anandi works selflessly for betterment of people not for her own self, over all Anandi as a complete woman while Gauri is complete opposite of Anandi .so Gauri's negative move was only to justify another woman not any man .Now Jagaya's negative move was to justify whom? Shiv? where i think we already know difference between them we are seeing Jagaya for such a long a tiime Shiv just entered the show and viewers after going through his character gave him the chance he should marry Anandi so what this Jagaya's negative track was for ?😕To close JaAn chapter that chapter was closed long ago and i think that bhabhoot track was the last straw though it was full of blunders from creatives many which cannot be ignored so easily and very stupid but still we understood this is too lock chapter of JaAn forever . so what was this negative track for ? so Anandi could make a choice 😆Does she need Jagaya to do more wrong then she will make a choice? and i think she already made a choice before without knowing about his recent negative plans and we also think she didnt need him to do more wrong to make a choice .To make AnSh relation strong,really did they need it ? No neither it affected them much in any way . For his own self then what cvs are telling through him to us when you do wrong realization hits hard you should do more wrong then probably you will redeem ?is this their moral ?does it even have common sense in it ?

so how Jagaya's negative track is justified and what is the end of poor Singhs with it? why they need to suffer? .They did mistakes many mistakes , done bal vivah of two children suffered because of it as punishment now when they are correcting their mistakes don't they deserve a happy life with their son who can redeem so why cvs pushed him at this place where he cannot come out ..why they ruined his redemption track by his negative move there is no justification from cvs for it except some little dragging and over drama

For us this show is just a show especially for me i see characters as characters analyze them and then give my views . i am the counting myself here because i too didnt give justification tag to Jagaya villain turn as well because for me story of the show is more important all characters are equally important whether they are male or females and i see story first from all sides and why this particular move was done ..does it make any sense then give my views and sorry for me Gauri's negative move was understandable but not Jagaya's which was full of blunders, many things going out of the character, no consistency and neither demand of the present story even future story as well .they have shown so many bloopers in it it looked like comedy track

Edited by kikyo - 12 years ago

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