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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM,
If your question is to forum members then I dont see many members who forgave jagya. I will put down a poll for this if members forgave jagya and lets see what members of the forum feel for him.

I will never ever forgive that mistress until she feels remorse for what she has done. gawari has negative shades??? Who on earth goes for ashirwad of first wife on their first night??? If she has insecurities , she has to deal with her so called husband not with his ex-wife.
Grey???? That line was crossed by gawari when she asked jaGAYa to blacken Anandi's character for her security. The list will never end for her harkat and no one is in mood to forgive her. Atleast that was the last thing on my agenda. I hate such characters who degrade others characters to solve their insecurities or problems or whatever.

As for Jagat no one is going to forgive him as well. He is called all hell names in this forum swine, idiot, censored, pighead. What is all that if not hate for his character. Just bcoz some like him doesn't mean he is forgiven.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gauri s evil, selfish and immoral. She knew that Jagat was married and she eventually accepted it. 🤢🤢🤢She was mean to Anandi and she blamed her for everything.She is just as guilty as Jagat. Basically, I think that neither of them deserve to be happy.
Edited by tijara - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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why to force forum members whether they should forgive gauri or not .it is forum members personal choice whether they should forgive gauri or not .ok if any forum member want to forgive gauri it is fine but u cant force any forum members that they have to forgive gauri
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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first of all i am not able to understad those anandi fans who want gauri back so that she just take jagat away from shiv anandi life and intially they were the one who were blaming gauri to snatch jagat from anandi...

now if the gauri will come..."kya wo jagat ko dubara anandi se vapis nahi le jayegi"...gauri was better person than jagat it was jagat who was after gauri,,,,,lekin is forum m gauri k favor m kuch bolo to sahi some ppl love to report...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Perseus-


I'am assuming that this title "Forgive G befor eu forgive J" is directed to the singh's and not to the members. Because it is the singh's who forgave J.

@ blue--- I don't understand this point.

Who lied to Gauri? --- Jagya

Does G know that?----YES

On whom did she seek revenge?---The Singh's and Anandi of all!!!! How mean of this mistress to seek revenge on a beaten soul(anandi)??

Okay coming to this forgiving thing, i would weigh J-G crimes as even. Both were so perfect to each other😭.

Still , i think G cannot be forgiven. Because she never ever felt sorry for her ugly deeds. J was once the most loved and pampered member of the Singh family. Still they did not forgive him. They forgave him ONLY after he begged and begged them after a series of incidents. Bhairon has not given him a clean chit yet! They have this blood relation plus a changed J in front of them. How would this be compared to G who had been an arrogant ungrateful stranger to them all this while? A stranger who always humiliated their Daughter Anandi...and to top that she almost killed Badi maasi!

I think G can be forgiven if and only if she changes...feels ashamed for her deeds..and says sorry to Anandi for hurting her, abusing her and using her.



bilkul sahi kaha aapne aur jo gouri ne kiya hai wahi ab jag kar raha hai. jeise gouri ko sorry bolne mein sharm aati hai weise jagya ka bhi hai kal woh kahe raha tha ki usne shiv se sab kuchh such kahe diya lekin kya shiv ko such kahena tha? aur uske gharwalo ka kya? aur abhi bhi usne jo project mein gadbad ki hai shiv ke trust ko chot pahunchaayi hai hai uska kya?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Topic maker why we should favor for forgiveness for Gauri in free ? Has Gauri asked for forgiveness yet?realized any of wrong doings ?even brought this sorry word on her tongue or felt true remorse for her any of her wrong action yet? No She doesn't care, so why will anyone? i guess mostly members here are not in favor for forgiveness for Jagaya untill he proves himself worth it which he hasn't proven yet therefore no one has forgiven him gave him clear chit for anything neither singhs have So what is point of your post ?You are saying forgive Gauri before forgiving Jagaya and my question to you .Why ?One person is continuously trying to ask forgiveness still his way is not right so no one is forgiving him but other person is even not doing so she is sitting still playing blame game not accepting any of her sins yet and you are saying no Gauri should be forgiven before Jagaya 😕you are comparing two people who did so many mistakes no one forced other to do so so both are to be blamed for whatever they did .. Gauri is not a two year old kid that she should be left scott free she did no mistake what mistakes she committed sins out of her own choices . Her mother spoiled her brain really ?i think her mother stopped her not to marry Jagaya she didn't listen to her at that time later she became very much loyal daughter who listen to her mother as per her convenience if parents are spoiling her plans she kicks them out ,,There is no defence for her any of wrong action she is old enough , mature enough , educated enough .and i am kind of tired by repeating her wrong works again and again because this topic has been made many times..

With her marriage with Jagaya tell me one good work she did ? Nothing ..she has been at peak of being worst so Why she should be forgiven before Jagaya ?is your approach Jagaya cannot be forgiven no matter if truly repents for his wrong works which he hasn't done yet even if he does so in future still he should not be forgiven because Gauri deserves to be forgiven first in free no matter she realizes her wrong works or not ,repent for her wrong works or not , rectify them or not ask forgiveness or not ?😕 , is there any competition going on between these two ? No .Both have done numerous wrong works i believe every person is responsible for his sins and here we have no uneducated persons but two educated people so ? ..We will favor for the forgiveness for that person who will truly repent for his / her wrong doings , selflessly try to repent for them, do good works and earn the forgiveness for them selflessly Whoever will do this we will support that person he should be forgiven now whats wrong in this approach .?and i think Gauri must ask forgiveness from Jagaya too for lying , cheating , breaking his trust whatever she did was no noble work but extremely wrong work and only a worst possible wife can do and this no defence for her once upon a time he lied to her where i believe i have seen the serial she didn't forgive him in free he earned forgiveness from her while she?..she is this much inhumane he is sick she comes to know about it and she cannot show even slight worry still have i don't care attitude 🤢so why this lady should be forgiven before him .if she wants forgiveness ask forgiveness , repent for her sins selflessly , try to rectify her wrong doings somehow and get forgiveness .if she doesn't do so Then Go To Hell

Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow what Gauri did were no crimes so were they noble works? i believe whatever she did cannot be termed as minor mistakes but in correct language they are called SINS .don't believe me then see what is definition of a sin in your respective religious books .go through Gauri's works then give judgement and she did all her wrong works KNOWINGLY not that she was in any sort of misunderstanding if she produced any sort of misunderstanding in her mind its her fault why because she couldn' t see 10000000000000 things going in her favor. Coming to forgiveness why we should forgive her when she doesn't even show remorse for any of her sin and why she should be forgiven before Jagaya even if she won't use her tongue to utter the word Sorry .Leave bringing the sorry word on her tongue she hasn't even thought about it i did so wrong i should ask forgiveness from anyone .?she didn't realise any of her wrong doings yet and i believe your in laws are also like your parents , the man she claims in front of whole world as her husband they are his family so they are no strangers to her so doing bad of them your in laws is equal sin as doing bad of your parents

and we don't think Gauri is a baby that Jagaya made her do all wrong holding her finger she is a selfish , mean ,vengeful ,immoral , egoistic woman , even at many places she became inhumane in her selfishness , She is a shame for all women whatever she did 🤢And this is no point who should be forgiven before the other one here .We will favor and support for forgiveness for that person who will realize his/her wrong doings ,selflessly repent for his/ her wrong doings , change himself /herself for good , do good of the people he /she hurted without expecting anything in return and earn forgiveness for himself / herself then we will say yes now forgiveness should be given ..and Gauri i believe haven't even made one attempt yet to even think she did any any wrong so why we should even think of she deserve forgiveness ?Jagaya made a selfish attempt so he didn't get anything in future if he will make a selfless attempt then we will support him he can get forgiveness if Gauri makes a selfless attempt to repent for her sins , earn forgiveness from the people she hurted then she too deserves forgiveness ..whats wrong in this approach ?
Edited by kikyo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: michelle281194

I'm not asking the creatives or the singhs to forgive Gauri, I'm saying that if some forum members speak in support of J (whom I can't forgive) they ought to forgive Gauri first. So its immaterial whether Gauri is asking for forgiveness or not


TS,
Would it be pertinent of me, if I were to retort to other members to deplore Gauri? Not for her unfortunate choice, but for a solely malicious vengeful streak that she displayed abundantly towards the Singhs, when once it was made clear to her that they won't be a party to an injustice to another woman? That she manipulated, ill used and lied to her foolish partner too -towards that mission? Or her insensitivity, insults to previous wife. Her ingrate insults to her benefactor? Or when members still forgive her, would I be within my brief to coarse or shaming them into a deplore and NOT forgive her?
I guess, I would have been way out of my line, brief or pertinence.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: michelle281194

I'm not asking the creatives or the singhs to forgive Gauri, I'm saying that if some forum members speak in support of J (whom I can't forgive) they ought to forgive Gauri first. So its immaterial whether Gauri is asking for forgiveness or not


i think immaterial is your post because your views are contradicting and are confusing me to the core .At one point you are saying you are not asking creatives or singhs to forgive Gauri so somewhere you too think she doesn't deserve forgiveness from Singhs and Anandi so easily for her inhumane behavior towards them so why you expect us viewers to even think of forgiving this inhumane selfish creature so easily ?about forgiving Jagaya i guess that one character has been trashed the most here yes few members like me has indeed criticized creatives for totally destroying his character when they always previously had this approach for him drowning man catches on a straw ..they were always throwing straws for this drowning person to save him even you too know some of his good works one you mentioned in your post so we believed one day he will realize his wrong doings and repent for them so drowning him into an irrevocable deep sea is best example of Bad characterization and thematically wrong according to this serial's original story and unfair with Singhs who in their hearts are still grieving for his loss, their eyes watering for him and are deeply wounded for his loss so their wounds need to be healed . but mostly members here are not in favor of him getting forgiveness so easily Work hard for it so we expect same for Gauri if she wants forgiveness work hard for it how much she made us hate her after her so many sins .that made us say she doesn't deserve forgiveness .she should Work hard to prove herself worth of that forgiveness and we are not having competition of Jagaya Gauri here ...for us these both are separate souls who did wrong .we don't mix them .For Gauri's sins Jagaya or her mother won't go to hell she herself will so for us she is solely responsible for her so many sins and this is no way for us we do need to Forgive Gauri before forgiving Jagaya or we need to forgive Jagaya before Gauri ..we have equal and fair approach whoever wants forgiveness earn that forgiveness work hard for it
Edited by kikyo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think the CVs made it a point to give G and J qualities that confuse us into hating and liking them. At one point both characters were loveable. They were sweet, they were kind, they were normal. But isn't everybody? The true test comes when life throws curve balls at you and you come out swining with your principle intact. They did not. Both are good people who went bad and that's their true face... their sachai. Anandi was dealt the same hard blows but she came out a winner. I cannot forgive G or J... and I will never forgive them.

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