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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: dixie123

I don't think she is jealous of Anandi and her being not taking a second chance. She just feels that Shiv cannot get Anandi's love completelty bcos she feels Anandi is still attached to her ex. She has no idea of Anandi's pain.

Like Anjie said. she needs to be shown the oher divorcees/widows (like Suguna, Asha) of Jeitsar who have moved on in life and are happy with their present life.

Dixie, I somehow,differ with you on this. Remember her jibe to Anandi when she was invited for lunch? That was uncalled for and totally out of context. Yet she went ahead with it deliberately and knowingly inflicted pain on Anandi. CM is plainly jealous of Anandi. CM being overtly possessive about Shiv,she cannot accept that her Shiv has fallen for a village girl who is a divorcee. This girl has gone ahead with some one like Shiv and getting ready to marry him,is not getting digested by her. what she herself could not do is being done by some one like Anandi is unthinkable for her.

Now looking at Shiv,who is her prized possession,it is not possible that Shiv has gone ahead and decided to get married to Anandi without even consulting her is hurting her like any thing and she wants this divorced village girl out of his life.

Edited by mocking_bird - 13 years ago

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806047

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

I hope the repercussion of using the official vehicle for Mission Inappropriate-Boundary-Display is that the official driver gossips to Bheem Singh about CM's antics and BS reports all to Shiv.

Shiv should then really take CM to task and tell her in no uncertain terms to butt out of his and Anandi's life. I think Shiv should create a major scene so she thinks a million times before hassling Anandi again.

CM's love for Shiv borders on neurotic obsession.

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lifelessons

@lifelessons

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Mike21
😲😲😡CM ko sirf ek maa ki nazar se dekhe to she is right because. Koi bhi maa pahle apne bete khushi hi dekhati he. CM ko bhi yahi dar he ki anandi voh sari khushiya shiv ko na de paye . just logical .CM apni jagah bilkul sahi he. Jo bhi hoga ab achcha hi hoga anandi ab sahi faisala kar payegi. CM ko anandi ke dukh se jayada shiv ko voh Sacha payar de payegi ? Is liye use anandi ka divorce stuats pasnad Nahi.😡😲

if CM really just wants Shiv's happiness then she should be able to see that Shiv is happy with Anandi and Also she should be able to see what Anandi has acheived after jagiya left and How Anandi has behaved with their Family...plus she asked Anandi two pointed questions. One that will she continue her work after marriage and other was more of a taunt that anandi has experince about keeping saural happy and both times Anandi's answer was that she really respects them adn will put them first and would love to learn from the Family. CM should have been able to see Anandi's honesty in that but she didn't whereas Iravati is behaving exactly like how a mom should behave or atleast how a sane mom 😆 should behave. she kept her opinion on reserve before meeting Anandi because she trusted her son completely and when she saw Anandi she saw the goodness and honesty in her. CM does not trust Shiv at all she is just obssesed that shiv is not marrying a nayi naveli dulhan.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

CM has decided even before she met Anandi that she is not girl for Shiv.

She does not like the idea of Shiv marrying this girl.She does not want the marriage to happen at any cost.

So her thought process runs only along that direction.

She voiced her doubts about A not being nayee naveli dulhan to Irawathi and she brushed her off.

She made a big issue of Shiv's sister's reaction to A.She made it seem like it was absolutely essential to get consent from that ill mannered rude girl.The family brushed her off.

Then she told Shiv her concerns about with regards to him marrying a divorcee. He also brushed her off and told her how confident he is of his love and how confident he was about his Anandi

Then she tried to put off A by taunting her in front of the entire family but A put her in her place so beautifully.

She heard the news about the return of Anadi's ex husband.Now she thinks she she found a chink in A's armour so she is going all out.Telling her to return to her first husband since she still has feelings for him.

Is it her over protectiveness towards Shiv that is making her behave that way?

Is her resentment towards A because Shiv has handed over the controls of his life to this girl?

May be both over protectiveness and resentment that are making her disregard all the boundaries.

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dixie123

@dixie123

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Dixie, I somehow,differ with you on this. Remember her jibe to Anandi when she was invited for lunch? That was uncalled for and totally out of context. Yet she went ahead with it deliberately and knowingly inflicted pain on Anandi. CM is plainly jealous of Anandi. CM being overtly possessive about Shiv,she cannot accept that her Shiv has fallen for a village girl who is a divorcee. This girl has gone ahead with some one like Shiv and getting ready to marry him,is not getting digested by her. what she herself could not do is being done by some one like Anandi is unthinkable for her.

Now looking at Shiv,who is her prized possession,it is not possible that Shiv has gone ahead and decided to get married to Anandi without even consulting her is hurting her like any thing and she wants this divorced village girl out of his life.

Sukanya: I think that taunt she wanted to do to show her dislike. She just found something to do.

Remember when they showed CM the first time, she was happy to hear that Shiv was in love. Even when Shiv told that the girls' name is Anandi, she instantly recognised her to be the sarpanch of the village and she did not have a problem. She did not react like Saanchi about Anandi being a village girl. Only when he said that she was a divorcee her problem started. She just is equating her pain with Anandi's pain, the way she can't forget her husband she thinks Anandi is still attached to all her ex's memories. She has no clue of Anandi's past.

She feels that her son is blind in love and cannot differentiate between right and wrong at the moment bcos he is in love. According to her, he is not able to see the implications this marriage could have on him in the long run.

Edited by dixie123 - 13 years ago

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gomatidj

@gomatidj

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

this is heights...who is she to tell Anandi what she should do...She could have told shiv to not marry Anandi...such a hopeless character

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KwitKatts

@KwitKatts

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: tinoo
and this woman is misusing the collector's official car and going all around Jayetsar in it for her personal use.

stop insulting anandi at the taxpayer's expense.

walk to the temple if you have guts choti maa and insult her on foot. 😆😆

🤣🤣🤣

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srijay

@srijay

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

@Aparna - good analysis..

I feel the CVs have gone overboard with CMs character. It's none of her business what A does with her life. If she has any concerns, she needs to voice it with S (who is a part of her family). A is still not married into Shekhars. Either ways, CM has no right to talk to her that way. Period.

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Surely she has crossed all her limits big time.. I was hoping Shiv hears this and sets her straight right there.. Why is she so bothered about others' lives ? She is from a city right ? Look at Jaitser village people.. Even they are accepting re-marriage so gracefully.. Why is CM acting so low even though she's supposed to be much more liberal than these people ?

Cant even think of Anandi's turmoil atm.. Poor girl got another two big shock.. 1. Her pathetic painful past is back to face her.. 2. Her new in-laws dont want her to marry Shiv.. Ughhh.. How much more pain for Anandi 🤬

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Good one😆 @redqueen. Hope the driver of the vehicle gossips this to Bhim and once Bhim knows , it becomes public domain.

Cm does not realize that she lived a full life with her husband before being widowed. But Anandi barely started her life before being dumped. Cm even had a son with her husband. A has no such fortune.

How can she be so cruel to her? When every one in the house likes her and she knows what a wonderful person A is. I think it is just mean spirited. She made such a mean spirited jibe at A during lunch which was totally uncalled for.

Excellent post Tinoo.

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