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Posted: 13 years ago

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Sorry Mahi ! Am butting in but am unable to resist.

Anjana D - I don't know who Mahi supports, but You support Gauri all the way is pretty evident.

i do not support gauri. im not sure what gave you the idea i do. if i am to rate on a scale of hundred i would give anandi 100, gauri 5 ( for her hard work and her dedication to her work ) and zero to jagiya. i do nto support gauri going in fOR living IN with jagiya. no matter how pressing the cirsumstances i dont like the set up of live in. but then some modern members would disagree with me on this. id ont support gauri marrying an already married man when she came to kno about it.. I ABSOLUTELY HATE THE TREATMENT SHE GAVE TO ANANDI WHO WAS INNOCENT IN EVERYTHING.

but i disagree gauri alone is responsible. again to make my views clear on a scale of 100 , i woudl rate gauri's contribution as 10 and jagiya's 90. why you may ask, becuase at teh inception jagiya alone was in full knowledge of entire circumstances which he chose to ignore to satiate his wishes. at that time both gauri and anandi were kept in dark.

Why do you expect Jagya to be perfect in his speech and thoughts when you know he is a much flawed character ? I think in these 15 pages and the past 4 years we all know that J is not all white like Anandi. J is like this and has always been like this ever since childhood. Even earlier he wud use any excuse to get out of being blamed and he is just doing the same now. Why are you expecting model behaviour from him ?

right i think we have a confusion here. i think in my first post i said about dadisa ki gauri ne kya halat bana dee teri. i onyl partly agree to this.oen of the main reasons why jagiya is in SUCH BAD STATE IS he could nto complete his MS. now that is not gauri's fault. gauri went to warn him , btu he chose to totally disregard his future. i knwo badi maasi was very sick but come on how much does a phone call take. and then his brawl with hsi superior. IMHO jagiya is majorly responsible for his state right now much mroe thna gauri , at least in the light of his professional fiaso.

Why is it so difficult to let J blame whoever he thinks he wants to blame for his own conduct ? DS and Bhairon know him and his lies all too well to know that J is just bluffing. J was always like this and by the looks of it - will always try to find a scapegoat for all his own shortcomings.

yes you are right. infact so right i am findign it hard to find any reply here. i think what i wanted to convey was ... may be we should start holdign men accountable for their actions and not give them undue allowances . boys will be boys is not my favorite line.

Do you think Gauri is an absolute angel ? Has she never said a lie, never hurt a soul, never deliberately goaded someone to the point of driving them mad with anger ? G has been quite nasty and vicious to people who have not even hurt her. eg Anandi. So, why does J's blame make you so upset ?

NO. she is not an angel she is a grey character. right may be i shoudl nto be so upset except i want everyoen to blame jagiya and not forgive him easily. gauri and her doing as bad as it may be, started onyl after jagiya lost his character, to me he will always be the one responsible. he had a perfect wife he had no bussiness going on chasing hsi desires which had potentials of wreching so many lives , and it was not as he did not know the consequences of his actions. HE DID.

You can close this by saying "we agree to disagree" - but you are not being fair to J or to G. You want J to take full responsibility and yet, you don't want to blame G for anything that she ALONE is responsible for !!😲

GAURI being responsible is a separate issue. i dont want J to hide behind gauri and pose like he is all white and was taken for a ride. no he wasnt. he was fully aware of everything and he took advantage of both women unabashdely. he did nto bother about the welfare of either anandi or gauri in a society which places so much value on a woman's chastity. to me that is horrendous, gauri's badtameezies pale in contrast to what jagiya had done.i cannot elaboaret any more than this on the said subject and if tehre r still something which u find not quite right with my views i would liek to excuse myself.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#132

Hi everyone ! Am back home after a long vacation in India. watched last 3 wks episodes in one day and as I was going thru this forum, I found this post v. interesting.

I agree 100% with anjana.d and aparnauma and some others. Since I just watched all the epis in one go, I can relate why J is blaming G. When bade papa was narrating the whole story to J, he was clearly blaming G for ruining anandi's happiness. He put the blame on her knowing (or maybe he didn't know) that J had kept his first marriage hidden from her. He was talking to J as if J was an honest and faithful husband but G broke his marriage.

J's character is such that he doesnt have his own brains or reasoning power. He is someone who easily gets provoked See how G provoked him after her miscarriage and he abused and held anandi responsible for the miscarriage? Sameway. now he is blaming G. every word he uses is the word used by badepapa. In between he blames himself just as badepapa did.

He doesnt have any guilt that he lied to her over 5 yrs, lived with her before marriage and is now living on her money. she works hard for a living, pays rent and all bills, pays for his MS exams, and even gives him pocket money which he wastes on drinks. Just because he is brainwashed by badepapa, he slaps her in public and leaves her?

Deep in his mind, he always knew that if he leaves G, his family would accept him. He should not be forgiven but treated for this psychological disorder. Dadisa is already thinking of forgiving him. From the last episode it looked as if this thought of re-uniting J and A did cross her mind but somehow she brushed away that thought and went to the temple. Bhairo also said that 'now its too late', that means if anandi was nt engaged they would have accepted him and said let G go to hell, when in reality their son is responsible for ruining lives of two women.

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#133

Originally posted by: Shinya
Hi everyone ! Am back home after a long vacation in India. watched last 3 wks episodes in one day and as I was going thru this forum, I found this post v. interesting.

I agree 100% with anjana.d and aparnauma and some others. Since I just watched all the epis in one go, I can relate why J is blaming G. When bade papa was narrating the whole story to J, he was clearly blaming G for ruining anandi's happiness. He put the blame on her knowing (or maybe he didn't know) that J had kept his first marriage hidden from her. He was talking to J as if J was an honest and faithful husband but G broke his marriage.

J's character is such that he doesnt have his own brains or reasoning power. He is someone who easily gets provoked See how G provoked him after her miscarriage and he abused and held anandi responsible for the miscarriage? Sameway. now he is blaming G. every word he uses is the word used by badepapa. In between he blames himself just as badepapa did.

He doesnt have any guilt that he lied to her over 5 yrs, lived with her before marriage and is now living on her money. she works hard for a living, pays rent and all bills, pays for his MS exams, and even gives him pocket money which he wastes on drinks. Just because he is brainwashed by badepapa, he slaps her in public and leaves her?

Deep in his mind, he always knew that if he leaves G, his family would accept him. He should not be forgiven but treated for this psychological disorder. Dadisa is already thinking of forgiving him. From the last episode it looked as if this thought of re-uniting J and A did cross her mind but somehow she brushed away that thought and went to the temple. Bhairo also said that 'now its too late', that means if anandi was nt engaged they would have accepted him and said let G go to hell, when in reality their son is responsible for ruining lives of two women.

totally agree. liking anandi and disliking gauri for their respecive virtues as women is different case. if comparison is on between two women, anandi is the winner hands down. but im nto blindly in hate with gauri. so as to make her the culprit of the entire situation.

first of all, i hate bade papa. he had all the reasons to be angry withgauri, btu his reaction is wayy too oevr the top. especially his attitude of makign gauri 100% responsible. do u think the man u r talking to is innocent? it was him who duped gauri , broke her up with a potential fiance, started living in with her as a married couple, openly known in their friend circle and society. that he actually has S relations is nto clear but as long as they were living in , the peopel around would have definitely assumed it. whetehr they actually existed between them dsnt matter. he led gauri into such a situation, she felt pressured to marry him.

how can ANYONE overlook jagiya's horrendous deciet!?

yes he knew teh moment he left gauri , he wud be back in family. so for quite some time he was toying with the idea of leaving gauri. badepapa provided himw ith the bahana. this man thinks nothing of women more than clothes. even today he is talking to anandi as she is the onyl one holding the key to returning his family. how selfish.

when he left anandi , he knew anandi had taken a bullet to her head and yet he chose to leave her for his hot gauri.

when he left gauri he knew gauri had supported and endured a looser liek him for years and still chose to overlook it.

this man has no idea about respecting any relationship or giving anything to anyone. he thinks of himself and for himself. he is low on morals, low on humanity and low on worth.

@ blue : that exactly what i fear. he is putting entire blame on gauri so that his comeback becomes very easy. he wants everyone to think he was a poor little innocent lad whow as brainwahsed by gauri into doing all those evil things that he did. that quite frankly is a load of bull. he left anandi , faught with his dad, turned back hsi mom much before gauri even knew he had a wife already! the major sins of hsi were done before gauri had the power to intervene becuase at the time she was completely unaware of his marriage. the aftermath occurred AFTER jagiya brought on thsi situation. yet he is trying to potray himself as a victim so that everyone thinks his sins are of lesser magnitude and he even has hopes of gainign back a wife. that is what i would hate to see.

Edited by anjana.d - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#134

Those who are supporting Gauri here and declaring her innocent.. first should go and grab collars of Balika Vadhu creatives..protest in front of them because for Jagaya Gauri break up they too held Gauri responsible because if anyone has seen that episode the voice over came on her when she was crying remembering her challenge to Sumitra that she lost... the moral was all marriage relations , love relations based on lies with a spark of truth burn down to ashes 'she was the one who was building her castle with lies one after the other when truth came out it broke down to pieces 'thus proving to every woman if you will do whatever this woman did behave like her you will get nothing but be a Loser .and whats wrong in that message of cvs? ..whatever she did after that which man in the world will tolerate such a woman and moreover she is showing off attitude after doing wrong instead of giving trouble to her tongue to utter a five letter word Sorry '.is she Anandi? Was she avenging from Jagaya what he did with Anandi and Singh family.?.who the hell was she to do that with him ?yes Jagaya is not saint but is Gauri a saint ? how many mistakes she did? is she any way less than him but in some cases twice than him because I don't think he was ever this inhumane to any person an elderly lady fainted in front of her and she was saying lets go 'she is not so bad wife ..really do we call her a best wife ? which qualities of a good wife she has ?'leave being a good wife she is not a good human being ..she is selfish beyond words for her selfishness she can put her own child at stake ..shameless ..and those who are saying Jagaya should give her a chance ..because if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he should also forgive her ..well I guess if we see if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he is lessening his ego , troubling his hands to fold them , touch their feet , troubling his tongue to ask forgiveness from them ..sincere or not but he is not lying to them for their forgiveness ..earning their forgiveness and trust is a later thing but right now he is asking forgiveness but what Gauri is doing she cannot even trouble her tongue to utter 5 letter one word sorry but is using her tongue to throw venoms at him that even shook Dadisaa and lal singh what is she doing ?why he should give free credit to her , a free chance when she cannot even accept she did wrong in lying to him cannot even say sorry for that but she is showing off attitude yes I did ..i don't care for you for her he lives or dies not her concern but he should give her a chance because she was 2 year old kid playing childhood games he misunderstood such a great wife and i believe when he lied to her she caught it she left him later he asked forgiveness from her earned that forgiveness from her but what she is doing ..does that gave her birth right to do all wrong with him ..why he should be guilty for that now and forgive her no problem sweet heart because once upon a time i lied to you later i earned forgiveness from you but you have every right to do whatever with me and i cannot even blame you because you are so noble you did bad with me many times whether you asked forgiveness or not still i was glued with you but this time you crossed all limits because i came to know reality of your true love what was that for to separate me from my family but no problem you accept your mistake or not i am your bought slave i will be glued to you 🤢

And I believe I have heard all dialogues of Jagaya quite well ..where he is putting wrong blames on Gauri is he saying she made me do my all sins ..no now when people ask him what happened why you are here ..go back to her ..what he should say ?.and I don't think he is hiding behind her sins he is only telling them what happened ..for where he is wrong he is blaming himself unlike miss great wife who is sitting in victim mode putting entire blame on his head and even ready for abortion for that

Edited by kikyo - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#135

Originally posted by: kikyo
Those who are supporting Gauri here and declaring her innocent.. first should go and grab collars of Balika Vadhu creatives..protest in front of them because for Jagaya Gauri break up they too held Gauri responsible because if anyone has seen that episode the voice over came on her when she was crying remembering her challenge to Sumitra that she lost the moral was all marriage relations , love relations based on lies with a spark of truth burn down to ashes 'she was the one who was building her castle with lies one after the other when truth came out it broke down to pieces 'thus proving to every woman if you will do whatever this woman did behave like her you will get nothing but be a Loser .and whats wrong in that message of cvs? ..whatever she did after that which man in the world will tolerate such a woman and moreover she is showing off attitude after doing wrong instead of giving trouble to her tongue to utter a five letter word Sorry '.is she Anandi? Was she avenging from Jagaya what he did with Anandi and Singh family..who the hell was she to do that with him ?yes Jagaya is not saint but is Gauri a saint ? how many mistakes she did? is she any way less than him but in some cases twice than him because I don't think he was ever this inhumane to any person an elderly lady fainted in front of her and she was saying lets go 'she is not so bad wife ..really do we call her a best wife ? which qualities of a good wife she has ?'leave being a good wife she is not a good human being ..she is selfish beyond words for her selfishness she can put her own child at stake ..shameless ..and those who are saying Jagaya should give her a chance ..because if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he should also forgive her ..well I guess if we see if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he is lessening his ego , troubling his hands to fold them , touch their feet , troubling his tongue to ask forgiveness from them ..sincere or not but he is not lying to them for their forgiveness ..earning their forgiveness and trust is a later thing but right now he is asking forgiveness but what Gauri is doing she cannot even trouble her tongue to utter 5 letter one word sorry but is using her tongue to throw venoms at him that even shook Dadisaa and lal singh what is she doing ?why he should give free credit to her , a free chance when she cannot even accept she did wrong in lying to him cannot even say sorry for that but she is showing off attitude yes I did ..i don't care for you for her he lives or dies not her concern but he should give her a chance because she was 2 year old kid playing childhood games he misunderstood such a great wife and i believe when he lied to her she caught it she left him later he asked forgiveness from her earned that forgiveness from her but what she is doing ..does that gave her birth right to do all wrong with him ..why he should be gulity for that now and forgive her no problem sweet heart because once upon a time i lied to you later i earned forgiveness from you but you have every right to do whatever with me and i cannot even blame you because you are so noble you did bad with me many times whether you asked forgiveness or not still i was glued with you but this time you crossed all limits because i came to know reality of your true love what was that for to separate me from my family but no problem you accept your mistake or not i am your bought slave i will be glued to you 🤢

And I believe I have heard all dialogues of Jagaya quite well ..where he is putting wrong blames on Gauri is he saying she made me do my all sins ..no now when people ask him what happened why you are here ..go back to her ..what he should say ?.and I don't think he is hiding behind her sins he is only telling them what happened ..for where he is wrong he is blaming himself unlike miss great wife who is sitting in victim mode putting entire blame on his head and even ready for abortion for that

Arey yaar don't you know Gauri is a really a kid😆 Jagaya made her do all wrong holding her finger .so see he is more wrong she is just a victim of his wrong doings because if he misbehaved with his family he yelled at her many times shut up not to insult my family and she knew it very well but still she went ahead so you should understand naa she is not old enough to understand why he yelled at her for not insulting his family previously 😆'she could only understand he insulted his family for her 😆'so she thought why not I insult his family on my own ..😆he broke his ties with his family actually they broke with him but still he did later he was dying to go back to them and Gauri knew all but still she thought why not I widen the gap more not help him go back to them😆 ..because she is a kid couldn't understand well 😆..so what she lied ,cheated , broke his trust and even cannot accept her mistake and don't you know she cannot use her tongue to say sorry 😆..sorry word is too big for her tongue but I don't care is very easy for her to speak 😆so its all jagaya's fault in leaving her after making her do all wrong 😆..he should be more understanding towards his great wife many rare people are blessed with such a wife 😆'how he made such a big mistake in believing in her and following her he should have understood behind her all plans there was her childish brain working 😆 and now selfish man is telling everyone her doing which they already knew but he dare to defame her .😆go back to her apologize to her how dare he slap her .didn't he know beating children is very bad he might be jailed for child abuse 😆..go back to her follow relations his duties as her pet not husband because see baby Gauri needs a pet to play around not a husband 😆..she can grab his collar leave him yell at him whenever she feels he is wrong with her and he should ask forgiveness but for her he should keep his mouth shut and stay with her keep loving her😆

Edited by sidra08 - 13 years ago

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#136

Originally posted by: kikyo
Those who are supporting Gauri here and declaring her innocent.. first should go and grab collars of Balika Vadhu creatives..protest in front of them because for Jagaya Gauri break up they too held Gauri responsible because if anyone has seen that episode the voice over came on her when she was crying remembering her challenge to Sumitra that she lost the moral was all marriage relations , love relations based on lies with a spark of truth burn down to ashes 'she was the one who was building her castle with lies one after the other when truth came out it broke down to pieces 'thus proving to every woman if you will do whatever this woman did behave like her you will get nothing but be a Loser .and whats wrong in that message of cvs? ..whatever she did after that which man in the world will tolerate such a woman and moreover she is showing off attitude after doing wrong instead of giving trouble to her tongue to utter a five letter word Sorry '.is she Anandi? Was she avenging from Jagaya what he did with Anandi and Singh family..who the hell was she to do that with him ?yes Jagaya is not saint but is Gauri a saint ? how many mistakes she did? is she any way less than him but in some cases twice than him because I don't think he was ever this inhumane to any person an elderly lady fainted in front of her and she was saying lets go 'she is not so bad wife ..really do we call her a best wife ? which qualities of a good wife she has ?'leave being a good wife she is not a good human being ..she is selfish beyond words for her selfishness she can put her own child at stake ..shameless ..and those who are saying Jagaya should give her a chance ..because if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he should also forgive her ..well I guess if we see if he is expecting forgiveness from his family he is lessening his ego , troubling his hands to fold them , touch their feet , troubling his tongue to ask forgiveness from them ..sincere or not but he is not lying to them for their forgiveness ..earning their forgiveness and trust is a later thing but right now he is asking forgiveness but what Gauri is doing she cannot even trouble her tongue to utter 5 letter one word sorry but is using her tongue to throw venoms at him that even shook Dadisaa and lal singh what is she doing ?why he should give free credit to her , a free chance when she cannot even accept she did wrong in lying to him cannot even say sorry for that but she is showing off attitude yes I did ..i don't care for you for her he lives or dies not her concern but he should give her a chance because she was 2 year old kid playing childhood games he misunderstood such a great wife and i believe when he lied to her she caught it she left him later he asked forgiveness from her earned that forgiveness from her but what she is doing ..does that gave her birth right to do all wrong with him ..why he should be gulity for that now and forgive her no problem sweet heart because once upon a time i lied to you later i earned forgiveness from you but you have every right to do whatever with me and i cannot even blame you because you are so noble you did bad with me many times whether you asked forgiveness or not still i was glued with you but this time you crossed all limits because i came to know reality of your true love what was that for to separate me from my family but no problem you accept your mistake or not i am your bought slave i will be glued to you 🤢

And I believe I have heard all dialogues of Jagaya quite well ..where he is putting wrong blames on Gauri is he saying she made me do my all sins ..no now when people ask him what happened why you are here ..go back to her ..what he should say ?.and I don't think he is hiding behind her sins he is only telling them what happened ..for where he is wrong he is blaming himself unlike miss great wife who is sitting in victim mode putting entire blame on his head and even ready for abortion for that

the very first scentene of your post was enough to make me not read the rest of it. and i am replying only to the part i have highlighted in red.

i dont know what exactly is wrong with this forum , and which part of " i dont support gauri" you have trouble understanding.

my impression of all the interctions here is either you are with gauri or you are with anandi. itis impossible for people ehre to even comprehend , if someone is able to put in a word for gauri , she is not automatically a gauri sympathiser.

it is impossibel for people to understand a person can find both anandi and gauri wronged by the same man.

apparently fandom is like a religion ... u either belond to it or u dont. if oen is an anandi supporter , he/she has to declare her loyalty by automatically becoming gauri hater.

i expected more maturity here.

the entire point of my post was second woman should not be blamed sqaurely by society and other women. it gives a clean chit to man , resotres him his family while leaves the woman fighting for her existence. this is as unfair and this approach needs to change.

anyways i know where i stand and i know how much i want anandi to be with shiv. rest i dont care for any prejudices people seem to be having against me.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#137

Originally posted by: madhubala.fan

the very first scentene of your post was enough to make me not read the rest of it. and i am replying only to the part i have highlighted in red.
i dont know what exactly is wrong with this forum , and which part of " i dont support gauri" you have trouble understanding.
my impression of all the interctions here is either you are with gauri or you are with anandi. itis impossible for people ehre to even comprehend , if someone is able to put in a word for gauri , she is not automatically a gauri sympathiser.
it is impossibel for people to understand a person can find both anandi and gauri wronged by the same man.
apparently fandom is like a religion ... u either belond to it or u dont. if oen is an anandi supporter , he/she has to declare her loyalty by automatically becoming gauri hater.
i expected more maturity here.
the entire point of my post was second woman should not be blamed sqaurely by society and other women. it gives a clean chit to man , resotres him his family while leaves the woman fighting for her existence. this is as unfair and this approach needs to change.
anyways i know where i stand and i know how much i want anandi to be with shiv. rest i dont care for any prejudices people seem to be having against me.

@the three color statements in bold -

Please understand that people are NOT throwing the WHOLE blame on the second woman. Also please remember that Gauri is not just a second woman...she had been an arrogant, selfish , manipulative, ungrateful second woman who is a liar and who is not aware of something called manners. The society would never applaud such a human let alone a woman. Here it is NOT a point of men and women..it is a point of being human and inhuman.It looks like this point of men and women is brought only to defend Gauri.

And who is giving a clean chit to that man(J)? Even his own Grandma, Dad, mom are not accepting him despite their unconditional love to their Son!! No one has yet forgiven him despite his extreme pleadings.

And i don't understand this point u mentioned about restoring him with his family. Why can't his family accept him when Gauri is living happily with her parents?He lost something(his family) which he should not have lost and he is begging them day in and day out to for forgiveness..so i wouldn't be surprised if they accept him back ofcourse after settling Anandi with Shiv.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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i don't know why 2nd woman whos like G shudn't b blamed??😕😕and no1 is squarely & entirely blaming G. every1 including 1-2 prsns(males) who r J supporters also r not entirely balming G.

and here mahi & sidra & jia all r blaming equally both J &G.

and just bcoz G is woman her faults shud b 4given & J didn't leave a wife whos incapable of fending herself & her child on her own as shes neither uneducated or living in poverty rather J is in more poor state than G is.😆😆and neither J left bcoz he wanted updated version of G which he did wid A.here if J has left G then its only her fault.

and i've sympathy 4 those women who in sum majboori(like thinking that they luv the prsn & want 2 marry him tho still they r wrong in marrying a married man or in need of money 2 support their family) bcum 2nd women until they don't go on insulting the prsn's family 4 their insecurities every they've the brain wave of insecurity like G did.and those women i won't call mistress & feel an insulting word 2 but 4 G like women who not just married a married man but also insulted his family 4 not accepting her & even humilated A just bcoz of her insecurity i don't've any sympathy if they r neither accepting their sins & nor asking 4giveness. if she'd questioned only J bcoz of her insecurity & which she'd also done so many times then its still bit understandable but here shes equally 2 b blamed.

wen J left A then it was crime bcoz if A was thrown out of haveli then she cudn't've enough educn 2 live a nice lefe but here thanx 2 god that A has got gud in-laws who supported her.👏👏and here G is not wronged by J but its reverse. the only thing which J did wid both women is leaving both of them. and only this reason is not enough 4 blaming J & wanting him 2 go back 2 G.

and i think maturity means seeing the intentions behind the actions & analysing the situtns on which prsn did sumthing gud or bad bcoz i believe that sumtimes due 2 situtns ppl do sum mistakes & even sins & crimes but if later on they realize,repent & redeem themselves then its not a crime 2 4give them but seeing the gravity & intensity & time length they can or can't b rewarded oderwise we can 4give them but not reward them like here in this case J shudn't get A back.

and here till its not shown that J is again using A 2 b 4given by his family like he used 2 do in childhood BUT if in future they showed sumthing like this or show sum FB of J & his monlogues of it then we can say that he can't change & he used A or anyoder prsn 4 his selfishness.here J wants 2 ask A on behalf of him bcoz he knew that he did wrong wid A & his family & his family doesn't want 2 4give him bcoz of wat he did wid A & they r not visulaizing him more than A's EX-husband.bcoz if they r also thinking him of their son or eevn human being they wud'd 4given him & even accepted back atleast in their house if not whole -heartedly!!😊

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dolly

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Perseus i agree wid ur each word!!👏👏u've written my lengthy post's all pts. which i want 2 convey in such a short & apt way!!👏👏

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madhubala.fan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Perseus-

@the three color statements in bold -

Please understand that people are NOT throwing the WHOLE blame on the second woman. Also please remember that Gauri is not just a second woman...she had been an arrogant, selfish , manipulative, ungrateful second woman who is a liar and who is not aware of something called manners. The society would never applaud such a human let alone a woman. Here it is NOT a point of men and women..it is a point of being human and inhuman.It looks like this point of men and women is brought only to defend Gauri.

most definitely not. if that is what my posts are showing then i woudl nto post any more. it was not my intention to defend gauri. i think in one of my posts i have made clear my stand on a scale of 100.
And who is giving a clean chit to that man(J)? Even his own Grandma, Dad, mom are not accepting him despite their unconditional love to their Son!! No one has yet forgiven him despite his extreme pleadings.
i can see onyl bhairon standing up to jagiya. DS is very much taken in by jagiya right from her first sight in hospital. even thought of reuniting anandi crossed her mind.
And i don't understand this point u mentioned about restoring him with his family. Why can't his family accept him when Gauri is living happily with her parents?He lost something(his family) which he should not have lost and he is begging them day in and day out to for forgiveness..so i wouldn't be surprised if they accept him back ofcourse after settling Anandi with Shiv.
i have no problems if his family accepts him back. gauri has never humiliated her parents. she was wise enough to not demolish her support systems which jagiya has done. my onyl concern is restoration of hsi conjugal rights with anandi as if nothing happenned. in our society it very much happens and peopel even congratulate the first wife that she won and her husband has come bac!

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