Dadisa's mistake .. And Jagya's mistakes..

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Piya - watever the wajah for J's misdeeds, his "wives" should do as your the ones in your aricle...after woh ladkiyon ki kabil hi nahi rahega...all will whisper behind his back...he once was a man with 2 now he can't even manage zero🤣🤣 Ladki soni hai, modern hai, old fashioned hai... none will have to give him time of day...

Reminds me of a movie with Denise Quaid and Julia Roberts...where she poisoned her cheating husband🤣🤣🤣 Bechara ka aversion therapy hogiya😉

I am 200% sure that if DS wants ..she will definitely find another beendnee for his laadesar...this time she will teach him how to trap girls..she will find a wife like Anandi again for his laadesar...after all she says I am not a "Pathardil"..

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

hahahahaa - ds can do watever she wants... G won't leave J capable of nada🤣🤣 I can imagine her putting her surgical skills to full use to FIX J for life😈

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Piya Sharma

@Piyuu_SRK

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Piya - watever the wajah for J's misdeeds, his "wives" should do as your the ones in your aricle...after woh ladkiyon ki kabil hi nahi rahega...all will whisper behind his back...he once was a man with 2 now he can't even manage zero🤣🤣 Ladki soni hai, modern hai, old fashioned hai... none will have to give him time of day...

Reminds me of a movie with Denise Quaid and Julia Roberts...where she poisoned her cheating husband🤣🤣🤣 Bechara ka aversion therapy hogiya😉

Please tell me name of that movie 😉
Anjy THAT suffering will be the best punishment for HIM...i mean for any HIM 🤣 🤣 🤣

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: parri814

Interesting POV Nach_baliye. I like it...but I'm a tad bit confused. You say Jagya sacrificed hs family for Gauri and then you say his family abandoned him. So which is it? Or is it both? If it is both, then which came first, sacrifice or abandonment? And does either one or both justify Jagya's self absorbed and entitlement mentality?

Jagya knew his family would not react well to asking for the property, but he still did it because Gauri insisted. While his family abandoned him, he did take a risk himself by going with Gauri's suggestion despite not being on the same page with her. Not saying that it is Gauri's fault, it is entirely Jagya's fault for being so gullible and not standing up for the right thing. Keep in mind my post is written from Jagya's perspective. From his perspective, he made sacrifices for Gauri by listening to her despite his initial gut feeling being against her words. He also didn't want to go with the bhabhoot but because of Gauri and her mother he relented, and clearly he was insulted so badly.

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: piya_anshian

@nach baliye... Yeah both cases are different but he should not be bothered by Gauri's lies so much. He too lied a lot. Remember ? He lied she forgave him, she lied he dumped her. Whos the escapist and loosee ? Moreover he is not worthy of any girl coz he dont have a back bone, canr take stand, spineless and these type of boys are total loosers !

His lying does not justify her lying - two wrongs do not make a right. Gauri should not have forgiven him for that lie, and should have not married him. But she did, and was crazy insecure as a result. I think her lie is quite big, they were both married and equal partners, she had a hand in cutting him away from his family - again entirely his fault for not using his brain. A lot of people have committed relationships before marriage, but marriage is supposed to tie that bond and somehow cheating or lying after marriage has bigger consequences outside of just a heartbreak. Gauri should have walked away from him when she found out her was married and was lying to both of them for 5 years. She chose to marry him despite his not divorcing Anandi, hence her fate today.

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Teeya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

muje bilkul achcha nahi laga DS hospital gayi aur jagya se mili budhdhi ,khussat😡😡 agar jaana hi tha to woh jab ghar aaya tha tab baat kyun nahi ki?

Edited by Teeya - 13 years ago

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Piya Sharma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye

His lying does not justify her lying - two wrongs do not make a right. Gauri should not have forgiven him for that lie, and should have not married him. But she did, and was crazy insecure as a result. I think her lie is quite big, they were both married and equal partners, she had a hand in cutting him away from his family - again entirely his fault for not using his brain. A lot of people have committed relationships before marriage, but marriage is supposed to tie that bond and somehow cheating or lying after marriage has bigger consequences outside of just a heartbreak. Gauri should have walked away from him when she found out her was married and was lying to both of them for 5 years. She chose to marry him despite his not divorcing Anandi, hence her fate today.

how true !! She should never have accepted him after knowing all his lies ! But she was too selfish to realise that.

I just want to see Jugs alone and rejected like Anandi was some time ago. Thats it !! 😆

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Purvim

@purvim

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

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Originally posted by: Teeya
muje bilkul achcha nahi laga DS hospital gayi aur jagya se mili budhdhi ,khussat😡😡 agar jaana hi tha to woh jab ghar aaya tha tab baat kyun nahi ki?

Di aap bahot hi funny ho aapne DS ko Budhdhi kaha? 🤣🤣

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

I totally disagree with the post. What DS did was like the act of cruel dictator as opposed what J did which will be equated to a petty thief in comparison.

DS came from rural feudalistic village . Agreed. But to the extent that was shown ,she did not have a cruel MIL. Her husband loved her and was crazy about her. The bad guy was her BIL. But she got to do what she wanted with out any control from any one.

But to refuse medical help for a woman in labour who is at the verge of death. That is too much.even in that generation there were women who were normal and kind within that frame work.

DS did all this cruelty not out of ignorance but for control. She did all this as a grown up mature woman.

Let us come to J. He was spoiled rotten by the great lady. He committed his mistakes out of ignorance, teen age confusion and sudden exposure to the city culture. At that age I see lot of boys who are rebellious, irrational and confused. He was infatuated with G. Committed that blunder.

He is slowly learning what went wrong. To gowri he was very sincere. He went to the extent of displeasing his family thinking that he is pleasing G. That was his main mistake. He was not man enough to think on his own.basically he was a brat.

He has not been deliberately cruel to any one. If you say all the cruelties DS committed was not intentional, so is what J did. What j did was the result of his age and adolescence. You may say he passed that chronologically. Mentally he was still an adolescent.

By the wY I am not a male. But a sixty two year old female.

Looks like most of you are very young and have no experience with troublesome but well meaning kids.forgive me if I am wrong.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

@Jan50

We are not trying to find excuses for the acts that she has committed.We are just trying to figure out the way her mind functions.

She could just about read and write.She had to survive on her own in a feudalistic society after her husband passed away.A lone woman with two kids to care for forms a very easy target for predatory males.The only way to deal them is by adapting harsh exterior.While facing the hardships of life she herself has become hardened. That hardness she developed must have prevented her from falling apart.She sees any form softness as a sign of weakness.In fact the major difference between Anandi and DS is that DS allowed circumstances to harden her and Anandi did not let that happen to her.

By the time her daughters in law came into picture she is already in control of her life and she was powerful woman in her own right.She didn't need to be cruel to exert her control over her daughters in law.She just treated them exactly the way she treated herself.She was never soft on herself she was just as harsh on herself as well.In fact Suguna also was treated the same way after she was widowed and she loved Suguna doted on her.

Keeping the welfare of her family in mind she committed not just mistakes but blunders.We are not denying that.But she always owned up her mistakes when they were pointed out to her.The characteristic of owning up ones mistakes is not age related.It depends upon the strength and character of an individual.Jagya does not have it in him to own up his mistakes nor the courage to rectify his mistakes.

By the way I agree most of the members are very young but I am not that young I am around 20 years younger than you.😆

Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago