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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sas_s

May be you are too soft natured like anandi to feel pity for such a person.


Truly said yaar. My husband is also an MCP. This is why I developed too much bond with my sons. Maybe this caused me to feel pain that a son being thrown out by his father. I myself was surprised why I was teary eyed while watching this scene.

Our opinions depend on how we identify ourselves in those characters.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even i agree,i mean at least give him money and clothes,sending him like that,its too harsh,its unbelievable for me,can a parent become so harsh,that dnt feel any pity for their child in this condition.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anjali, If you see the episodes of last year, you will know, that Bhairon had tried to reason with Jagya at every point...They let him stay even when he came with Gauri...But Jagya had so dissapointed him to the point that he feels no mercy for him...He tried to insult Anandi every step of the way, same girl who saved his life...He insulted her for not being educated, even though he knew in what circumstances she grew up...He lied for 5 years and changed his name, same name which was so fondly choosen by his parents...And he changed it without a thought...Next he even sold the one locket, which he knew had fond memories of his dadaji, which his dadisa gave him with so much love...He bought other girl after marrying, not once thinking about what they would go through, or how they would face Anandi after that...He never thought of Anandi, how she would feel...Never defended her when Gauri insulted her so much...He did not even think, when he asked about the property rights, and put a condition that if he did not get his share, he would not give Anandi divorce...How low a person can get? Bhairon knows what Anandi has gone through every step of the way, how can he just forgive him...? I am a mother of two as well...And I know one should forgive our childrens mistake...But this is no small mistake...Adultery and such behaviour never should be accepted and I am glad that there are people who support their D-I-L at the cost of their son...I feel for Sumitra and dadisa...But the tears Jagya gave are more heavier than what he is going through now...But I am sure, the day Jagya really really realizes his faul...I am saying this, because still after all this, his ego is intact and he takes few people like dadisa and Anandi as his property thinking that they will do anything for him no matter what...But dadisa has put him in his position now...I am not sure what Anandi would do now...
But coming back to the point, for some mistakes, the path to redemption is very hard...To think that everything will be forgiven so easily, is more egoistic issue...He has taken so long time to realize his mistakes...But did he think how many tears he has given in these years to his family and Anandi? Still he feels that they should forgive him as soon as he asks for one...Do you think, this is the person who is very very sorry talking?
If Jagya is really sorry, he should take up his responsibility and fulfil his parents wish and do what needs to be, instead of roaming here and there like a begger...!
And Anandi, I don't have much to say for her, till I see tomorrow's episode...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Even i agree,i mean at least give him money and clothes,sending him like that,its too harsh,its unbelievable for me,can a parent become so harsh,that dnt feel any pity for their child in this condition.


This is what exactly I thought.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@tanvi --
I doint think bhairon realized that jagya has fallen on bad times. He is under the impression that jagya has completed his m.s. and is working as a doctor. He doesnt know that the dean debarred him and that he has not got a job etc.
My sense is that he thinks jagya has been in yet one more drunken brawl. And so he is disgusted at jagya's inability to manage his drunken brawls. Last time too he
was arrested and in jail for drunken misbehaviour.
So the question of pampering him with clothes and money does not arise.
Also, I think Jagya handled it wrong. He should not have mentioned wanting to meet with anandi or talking to anandi.
He should have limited his repentance speech to dadisa and bhairon... and left any reference to anandi out of the picture.
and then he says "mein anandi ko khushiyaan dene aaya hoo" ... so obviously bhairon will flair up.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16
The thing is..Jagya did not come back to the family on his own accord.
He came back cause he has no one to go to.

If he would have come back apologized and hten left them alone, then perhaps ,...just perhaps after years of repenting..things would get better.

He needs to realize that , there is no easy way out.

That Jagu prince makes mistakes and everyone forgives him.

ANd he needs to learn to take responsibility for his actions.

He has a child on the way, which I am sure will be made known to him. If he is an escapist then how will he raise his child to be responsible?

He needs HARSh lessons to WAKE UP!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

I felt very sad for Jagya.. may be because I am soft hearted.. but isn't it ok if on realizes mistakes and does paschyatap? We all make mistakes. Yes, we do pay the price too..and its not an easy way out..but galtiyan toh insaan se hi hoti hai na.. I would have forgiven Jagya ..😕 May be I am just moved by Shashank's acting .. I dont know..


But he is still lying. I'm not sure if he has any real intention to reform himself.


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Posted: 13 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: AnjaliAnjum


Though I hated him all through the way, I felt so sorry for Jagya today. I couldn't watch him being thrown out by his father. Being a mother of two sons, this scene pained me. Did anyone feel the same?

Thinking of Sumithra, I felt so sad.😕

By the way, it seems no one can replace Jagya in Anandi's mind. The very air of him making her sense his presence. Don't understand how it is going to end.


I am not sory for him !!! How would a parent feel if your child cheats on his her her partner - makes fun of their parents upbringing and call them illiterate !! He came back because gauri turned out to be bad and he has no money he was dependent on gauri's money !! he would never have came back if he had lot of money and better job !!! he is an opportunist ------ any parents who stand by their children's bad deeds are always wrong. What u expected him to behave welcome him----- he might have felt the pain in his heart but jagiya is a worthless son and husband ------- he maried gauri now running away from her too --- when he will learn to take the responsibility ???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

The thing is..Jagya did not come back to the family on his own accord.
He came back cause he has no one to go to.


If he would have come back apologized and hten left them alone, then perhaps ,...just perhaps after years of repenting..things would get better.

He needs to realize that , there is no easy way out.

That Jagu prince makes mistakes and everyone forgives him.

ANd he needs to learn to take responsibility for his actions.

He has a child on the way, which I am sure will be made known to him. If he is an escapist then how will he raise his child to be responsible?

He needs HARSh lessons to WAKE UP!

You are so right Suchi...He is taking everyone for granted still and needs this wake up call...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20
agar jagya ne time pe mistake realize ki hoti to use immediate forgive kiya jaa sakta tha pur usne bahut der lagayi mistake realize karne mein tub tuk ds family kitne pain se gujar chuke hain aur mumbai mein gauri ke saath khush tha not even realizing the pain of anandi and singh family .so i think whatever bhairon to do him absolutely right .

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