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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonali_dg

I felt very sad for Jagya.. may be because I am soft hearted.. but isn't it ok if on realizes mistakes and does paschyatap? We all make mistakes. Yes, we do pay the price too..and its not an easy way out..but galtiyan toh insaan se hi hoti hai na.. I would have forgiven Jagya ..😕 May be I am just moved by Shashank's acting .. I dont know..

Sonali, you are right, we all do make mistakes and at some point or the other we all do want forgiveness. But I define "mistake" as something done unintentionally, where we dont realize what we have done, but it has hurt someone without our intending it.
Here what jagya did was with deliberate intent and he knew fully well what he was doing. so i cant see this as a mistake.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
Tinoo,

I totally agree with every bit of your opinions. And I know how careless he was in treating his own family members. No words to explain those moments.

I too was so surprised that he started this come-back with yet another lie.

Somehow I felt sad seeing this guy walking away with torn clothes, etc.. It was just a pity, not the forgiveness from my side. No one can ever forgive such a person.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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well said Tinoo..I did not feel a shred of pity for that man.

He still LIED .. and said he lied for the family's sake ...that he didn;t come to the engagement.

The Real reason was that he did not want to be humiliated not the family.

He does not care a shred about his family or Anandi.

Its just HIM HIM HIM...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I always believe giving a chance, but this chance sd be given and not demanded. Wht Jogia is doing, he came for asking forgiveness, to confess his mistakes, repent. But wht he is doing, he is doing all this with an expectation, with expectation to be accepted and if he didnt get the desire result, in precap he was blabbering tht no one is ready to hear him😆😆and going to use his trumph card as entery pass in the haweli. Again he is showing his selfish nature. If he was really repenting, he came, asked for forgiveness, said sorry and live up to thm, wht they wd do with his sorry. He sd not demand or hv grudges tht no one is hearing him. He sd leave the haweli and continue trying. May be in distannt future, they will realise tht he is really improved person and wd hv forgiven him. Wht wd hv been the nature of this forgiveness it also must decided by thm. Wht is this, realise his mistake, but dont want to face the consequenses, just want in one day everything sd be ok. Just said sorry and everything is ok. Wht a prayashchit😆😆😆


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Posted: 13 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: tinoo

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I doint think bhairon realized that jagya has fallen on bad times. He is under the impression that jagya has completed his m.s. and is working as a doctor. He doesnt know that the dean debarred him and that he has not got a job etc.


My sense is that he thinks jagya has been in yet one more drunken brawl. And so he is disgusted at jagya's inability to manage his drunken brawls. Last time too he

was arrested and in jail for drunken misbehaviour.


So the question of pampering him with clothes and money does not arise.


Also, I think Jagya handled it wrong. He should not have mentioned wanting to meet with anandi or talking to anandi.


He should havelimited his repentance speech to dadisa and bhairon... and left any reference to anandi out of the picture.


<div>and then he says "mein anandi ko khushiyaan dene aaya hoo" ... so obviously bhairon will flair up.

Tinno i dnt think jagya looked like a prince that bhairon feels that he is good condition,i understand last time he was jailed but i stil feel if bhairon cud nothing but provide him a shirt and some money,even begar wud have arived then he wud do that right.i just he was extremely harsh and i m preety much sure its anandi who is going to make his entry at haveli,i just dnt understand y do they make mahaanta crap,i mean it wud be very much convincing if family feels pity and takes him in rather then anandi doing mahaan favour.
Edited by tanvismile - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

The thing is..Jagya did not come back to the family on his own accord.
He came back cause he has no one to go to.


If he would have come back apologized and hten left them alone, then perhaps ,...just perhaps after years of repenting..things would get better.

He needs to realize that , there is no easy way out.

That Jagu prince makes mistakes and everyone forgives him.

ANd he needs to learn to take responsibility for his actions.

He has a child on the way, which I am sure will be made known to him. If he is an escapist then how will he raise his child to be responsible?

He needs HARSh lessons to WAKE UP!


I agree with you fully. I do not know if you have read the book"Asami Hazir " by Bimal Mitra or watched the tele drama based on this novel"Muzrim Hazir" There the protagonist pays for the misdeeds of his forefathers. The way he does it,is called true repentance.

I want Jagya to follow this path of repentance. Let him go back, apologize sincerely to Gauri.whether he likes it or not, now she is his present and future unless they decide to part ways. Let him become a successful doctor. Learn humility and have a mind to serve people selflessly. Let him invest time and effort in being a good doctor and earn a good name for self.
The forgiveness will follow.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: ankit111

I always believe giving a chance, but this chance sd be given and not demanded. Wht Jogia is doing, he came for asking forgiveness, to confess his mistakes, repent. But wht he is doing, he is doing all this with an expectation, with expectation to be accepted and if he didnt get the desire result, in precap he was blabbering tht no one is ready to hear him😆😆and going to use his trumph card as entery pass in the haweli. Again he is showing his selfish nature. If he was really repenting, he came, asked for forgiveness, said sorry and live up to thm, wht they wd do with his sorry. He sd not demand or hv grudges tht no one is hearing him. He sd leave the haweli and continue trying. May be in distannt future, they will realise tht he is really improved person and wd hv forgiven him. Wht wd hv been the nature of this forgiveness it also must decided by thm. Wht is this, realise his mistake, but dont want to face the consequenses, just want in one day everything sd be ok. Just said sorry and everything is ok. Wht a prayashchit😆😆😆



For u it is selfish behaviour,but for jagya it is hard work,he is trying very hard to get forgivenes from them ,now there is one way left that it is throuh anandi.He has come so far ,and why to go without putting best efforts. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
Yes Bhairon shd not b 2 harsh... Better 3.. Or 4.. Good parenting keep it up...redemption shd not b easy for jagat...
Edited by sreevask - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes Bhairo was very much harsh but i think he was more harsh on himself ..what a big stone he must have kept on his heart to throw Jagaya out of house today ..doesn't he want to say bhaad mein jaye to all and bring his son back home ...but the thing is here son broke his father's trust big time he rejected his own father for his two day's love ..and i think its not easy for any father to throw his blood out of house like this... yes it must be very painful for Jagaya but i believe it will be twice more painful for bhairo himself ...children's love for their parents i believe is nothing as compared to how much parents love their children...didn't bhairo want to give his son a hug and bring him back home he has shown his pain many times how much his heart cries for his son ...but for that son needs to prove himself that he is changed .😆...but here son is still a long way to go😆 and i believe when Jagaya will show he is redeemed properly Bhairo will be the most happiest person on earth to bring him back home and this present incident will give bhairo more sleepless nights than Jagaya and when the truth of Jagaya Gauri break up will be revealed to him how much he will cry for not listening to his son today ...
Edited by mahi12 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#40
J got what he deserves... if i was in bhairon's place i would have done the same...

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