Kacchi umar ke pakke rishte!?

''Kacchi umar ke pakke rishte'' ,this is a sentence of the show..What is that mean? 🤔 I dont kow hindi very well but i know it's about some strong relationship!!!

Lasting relationship can be formed at matured age only... Never at the tender age of childhood when the meaning of marriage is not known...
So the caption means this only...
Kachche umar me pakke rishte nahin karna chahiye...its not advisable to force marriage in childhood ... The message is for the parents to stop child marriages...otherwise the children shd face trauma as depicted wonderfully...in balika vadhu...
So adult choice is being advocated here...favoring Anandi - Shiv's relationship after successfully coming out of child marriage by bringing out a change in conservative elders...

Originally posted by: sreevask

Lasting relationship can be formed at matured age only... Never at the tender age of childhood when the meaning of marriage is not known...
So the caption means this only...
Kachche umar me pakke rishte nahin karna chahiye...its not advisable to force marriage in childhood ... The message is for the parents to stop child marriages...otherwise the children shd face trauma as depicted wonderfully...in balika vadhu...
So adult choice is being advocated here...favoring Anandi - Shiv's relationship after successfully coming out of child marriage by bringing out a change in conservative elders...

Here we need to consider the following :

(1) " k u p r (Kachche ...)" is the tag line to "Balika Vadhu" which indicates what the story is about..
The story is of a child bride produced by the conservative .society...where in they are forcing a permanent relationship(pakke rishte) like marriage at an innocent tender age(Kachche umar)
The story is NOT about Anandi & haveli log..but about the wife & husband relationship forced by the elders which is wrong...legally,logically as well as morally ...and it could result in compatibility issues..detrimental to marital happiness of their own children...

While encouraging the adult choice,The serial also threw light on how adult choice should be (AnSh- preferred mind) & how it should not be (jago- preferred body)...socio legal issues..how the transformation mode could be(for conservative society- the solution part) ..
That's why the serial is being appreciated n being discussed by the educated unlike typical sas bahu serials...
What do you say?
I like its courageous treatment covering sensitive issues like a message oriented art movie taken up seriously n making sincere attempts to see it a commercially viable too is , really really a herculian task, which is being demonstrated here...

We can ofcourse throw stones easily...but lets try to read n digest The Bible before criticising it...okay?

We shall always keep the message in mind..& be holistic .in our approach towards the story...rather spoil our emotions in finding issues with characters/story/cvs ...its takes us no where...

Rishte also include: Ma, baap, saas, sasur, devar, bhabhi, chacha, etc. All these rishtas are formed in childhood and our Anandi has pakke relationships with all of them!

Its shown in d show that DS said that kachi umar mein pakke rishte nahi ban sakte kyunki foundation hi kachchi hoti hai

While arranging a marriage ,... We say rishta pakka hua hai...when the relationship is finalized as wife & husband...
So its about balika Vadhu n her balak var..
Now can u tell me what is the significance of the relationship of a child bride with dadisa n all..?
In that case, jagya n his adult choice need not be shown no?
here we r not after an adrak wali chai samosa n masti of haveli log as the story is NOT about it...


I would like you to understand the balika Vadhu bg song"chotisi umar"
Posted by one of our members ...for clarity of perspective...
Here is the link
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1038404&TPN=3

i don't think the post was about the song😛 any way the tag line can have different interpretations by different ppl. The reason why i felt that kache umar pakke rishte signifies the relationship between Anandi and the Singh's is because the CV's have consistently showed how the Singhs have supported Anandi over Jagya ( considering he was wrong ). Nevertheless everyone is entitled to have there own perspective😉 but i disagreed because i didn't agree with the interpretation given 😃

Originally posted by: sreevask

Lasting relationship can be formed at matured age only... Never at the tender age of childhood when the meaning of marriage is not known...
So the caption means this only...
Kachche umar me pakke rishte nahin karna chahiye...its not advisable to force marriage in childhood ... The message is for the parents to stop child marriages...otherwise the children shd face trauma as depicted wonderfully...in balika vadhu...
So adult choice is being advocated here...favoring Anandi - Shiv's relationship after successfully coming out of child marriage by bringing out a change in conservative elders...

Thank you for explaning me this 😉

Kachche umar ke Kachche rishte = sugna's first marriage...

Kachche umar ke pakke rishte= ja

Pakke umar ke Kachche rishte = jg

Pakke umar ke pakke rishte - AnSh