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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: piya_anshian

@srk lover...wow ! You can imagine yourself at that gawari's place but can never put yourself in Anandi's shoes ??! 😕
Actually gawari is insecure, selfish and a complete vamp ! The way she treated Anandi when Anandi went to Mumbai with Lal Singh showed how low she can go !! Actually both jugs and gawari had a competetion ''who reaches the lowest'' ! I wonder if they will keep on digging and digging some day they will reach pataal lok !! Anandi even took her side ! Always ! She never said a word to her but still she was so insecure and insulted her ! That was limit of lowness !! She never loved Jugat ! She WANTED jugat ! Ankit is actually right she is a psycho case and i will be more than happy if she commits suicide or end up in an asylum and that pighead ..penniless, familyless, suport less, sacha pyaar less and even brainless ends up as a waiter in mumbai restaurent and go through some hard times !! Both were creeps ! Scar to the society !

P.S. I was actually trying to think as your POV thinking you might find some of our views right but you are alaaping same raag again and again...not ready to open your mind for another possibilities.



No to be honest I cannot put myself into Anandi's shoes because she is too different to me. Her mahaanta is something I definitely cannot relate to and as for gauri to me her reactions were perfectly natural to that of a scarred woman's in her place. And we will agree to difffer on the whole love thing😆 Don't you think your wishes for her death are a little disproportionate😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

No to be honest I cannot put myself into Anandi's shoes because she is too different to me. Her mahaanta is something I definitely cannot relate to and as for gauri to me her reactions were perfectly natural to that of a scarred woman's in her place. And we will agree to difffer on the whole love thing😆 Don't you think your wishes for her death are a little disproportionate😆

I personally don't hate Gauri as a character. IMO her insecurities about the relationship once she'd entered it (which she really shouldn't have done once she knew Jags was married... but OK, putting that to the side) were natural: Anandi had the support of Jag's family, and Jags himself still kept in touch with her. She obviously felt like an outsider. I get that that upset her and all. But that doesn't give her the right to a) shout at everybody and b) badmouth Jags' family and Anandi. I just wish she had had a bit more patience, understood that acceptance was not going to come overnight (if at all), showed some understanding of Anandi's predicament instead of treating her like dirt, and conveyed her insecurities to Jags clearly rather than trying to manipulate situations and all. Open communication is what brings couples closer together, not manipulation and secrets. If you can't communicate openly, the development of true love is kind of impossible. There's never been that innate understanding between GaGa... there's more of it between AnSh, and they've barely known each other!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: kanak.

I see people blame Gauri more than Jagat at times. That she being a woman must have thought about another woman, that is responsible of breaking the house, etc. The second woman is always blamed more that the man who is the root of the problem, they are even ready to forgive him if he says sorry but the second woman does not deserve to be forgiven. Why?

Is the woman who agreed to be the second woman more at fault than the man who made her his second woman. Times have changed but mindset has not. Even CV has in the most cliched manner turned Gauri into a negative character. All those who broke ties with them blamed her for ruining a girl's life but apart from his family how many blamed Jagiya. CVs say they are progressive, sorry but portrayal of the second woman has been the same over ages. She is always the main Villian. I feel men have it too easy in such cases.

I think Kunda Tai was disgusted with both of them. Shivani may have expressed disappointment in Gauri more because she was closer to Gauri than because she blamed Jagya any less. I don't think anyone on here is absolving Jagat of responsibility either.
At present, Jagat is the one considering asking forgiveness. Gauri has her own path of redemption to tread. She has a lot of people to apologise to too, but so far she has yet to realise her wrongs. Jagya is realising his and wishes to repent. If Gauri does this, she too will be forgiven. I think BV has actually shown the second woman thing very well - Gauri can be quite likeable, and I have often supported her against Jags. She's no vamp. She has grey shades, and I have faith in the CVs that they will show her redemption/character exit in keeping with this rather than take the super-evil-vamp route. E.g. on Friday I thought there was a danger of them pinning everything on Gauri and making it look like Jagya had simply been fooled by her... but yesterday Jagya remembered all the things he'd done wrong all on his own, and never once blamed Gauri in his monologues. So I don't think Gauri will be shown as a vamp or as fully to blame for the situation.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: kanak.

I see people blame Gauri more than Jagat at times. That she being a woman must have thought about another woman, that is responsible of breaking the house, etc. The second woman is always blamed more that the man who is the root of the problem, they are even ready to forgive him if he says sorry but the second woman does not deserve to be forgiven. Why?

Is the woman who agreed to be the second woman more at fault than the man who made her his second woman. Times have changed but mindset has not. Even CV has in the most cliched manner turned Gauri into a negative character. All those who broke ties with them blamed her for ruining a girl's life but apart from his family how many blamed Jagiya. CVs say they are progressive, sorry but portrayal of the second woman has been the same over ages. She is always the main Villian. I feel men have it too easy in such cases.

Agree Completely. No wonder its a man's world. Woman is always blamed for everything .
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



No to be honest I cannot put myself into Anandi's shoes because she is too different to me. Her mahaanta is something I definitely cannot relate to and as for gauri to me her reactions were perfectly natural to that of a scarred woman's in her place. And we will agree to difffer on the whole love thing😆 Don't you think your wishes for her death are a little disproportionate😆




Actually her death is not MY wish but my experience. People like her, ambitious and obsessed are actually sick and this is called as obsessive love disorder. Love, they say, is a wonderful emotion. The coming together of two hearts to beat as one. The mutual liking between two people and a promise, to keep each other happy. At least for most people. For others, it's an obsession. Similarly, in Gauri's case, a simple feeling of mutual liking have become a manic desire to possess ! In the begining she was in love but slowly and slowly her insecurity increased her obsession for him so much that she decided to go to any extent for him ! This was simply madness nothing else ! She was like a kid who first spots a beautifull toy and cries until he gets that. After getting that toy he is bored in some time only and then stuff it with other toys, but when some other child even comes near that his obsession and insecurities rises and he snatches it !! This is surely not ''fonding'' or ''liking'' or ''loving'' but obsession ! Having Jagat with her was not her need or an outcome of love or longing, it was coz of a mere challenge. Having Jagat was her dare nothing else and you are talking about love ?? Do you think what Gauri was doing were acts of love ?? I think whatever Jugs did showed that he was madly in love with her. Leaving her childhood wife, parents, village everything...simply shows that he loved her truly ! But Gauri's insecurities pushed him far away. Moreover the suicide which i mentioned is a natural act which most obsessed lovers commit when their actual face is shown. They cant bear loosing the challenge. They break down completely when, the thing for which they plotted, conspired, took so many troubles, leave them. They cant tolerate their defeat and hence ends up ending their lives. Look at Gauri in the last scene when Jagat left him, she remebered the challenge ! Not her good/ bad moments with Jagat ! This shows that she just cared for the dare nothing else ! She cried not coz Jagat left him but coz she lost the challenge, she was defeated ! If she ends up commiting suicide or in an asylum that will be the most natural thing ! Because these type of people have rare chances that they can change. Either they win or die or destroy other people. ''mera nai hua to kisi ka bhi nahi hoga'' They can never accept defeat !

P.S. knows that much coz had psychology as one of my subjects 😆

P.S.2. Im not saying that Gauri is responsible for everything but she should have rejected Jagat's proposal when she came to know that he was married. Then it'd have been an act of morality. Moreover only Jagiya is responsible for her such condition. He exploited 2 women and thats unpardonable ! But both jagat-gauri are responsible for their downfall.
Edited by piya_anshian - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Maine apni life mein kabhi bhi bigamy ko support nahi kiya. But In GAGA 's case I cant think of Gauri as other woman. I m sorry but I don't blame her at all. I blame Jagia for breaking their marriage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
message of the serial is child mrg is wrng, whether u consider jag anandi mrg or jag gauri mrg dn by dadisa. chahe maano ya na maano ye sb chld mrg k victims h. jagya ne galti ki anandi ko chhodkar aur use dukh dekar, gauri ne galti ki jagya se mrg krke and uski family ko humiliate krke. sb apni galti realise krenge and sudhrenge. msg ye h ki badon ka lia har decision sahi nai hota nd chld mrg can spoil sm innocent lives to this extent.

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