Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
No to be honest I cannot put myself into Anandi's shoes because she is too different to me. Her mahaanta is something I definitely cannot relate to and as for gauri to me her reactions were perfectly natural to that of a scarred woman's in her place. And we will agree to difffer on the whole love thing😆 Don't you think your wishes for her death are a little disproportionate😆
Actually her death is not MY wish but my experience. People like her, ambitious and obsessed are actually sick and this is called as obsessive love disorder. Love, they say, is a wonderful emotion. The coming together of two hearts to beat as one. The mutual liking between two people and a promise, to keep each other happy. At least for most people. For others, it's an obsession. Similarly, in Gauri's case, a simple feeling of mutual liking have become a manic desire to possess ! In the begining she was in love but slowly and slowly her insecurity increased her obsession for him so much that she decided to go to any extent for him ! This was simply madness nothing else ! She was like a kid who first spots a beautifull toy and cries until he gets that. After getting that toy he is bored in some time only and then stuff it with other toys, but when some other child even comes near that his obsession and insecurities rises and he snatches it !! This is surely not ''fonding'' or ''liking'' or ''loving'' but obsession ! Having Jagat with her was not her need or an outcome of love or longing, it was coz of a mere challenge. Having Jagat was her dare nothing else and you are talking about love ?? Do you think what Gauri was doing were acts of love ?? I think whatever Jugs did showed that he was madly in love with her. Leaving her childhood wife, parents, village everything...simply shows that he loved her truly ! But Gauri's insecurities pushed him far away. Moreover the suicide which i mentioned is a natural act which most obsessed lovers commit when their actual face is shown. They cant bear loosing the challenge. They break down completely when, the thing for which they plotted, conspired, took so many troubles, leave them. They cant tolerate their defeat and hence ends up ending their lives. Look at Gauri in the last scene when Jagat left him, she remebered the challenge ! Not her good/ bad moments with Jagat ! This shows that she just cared for the dare nothing else ! She cried not coz Jagat left him but coz she lost the challenge, she was defeated ! If she ends up commiting suicide or in an asylum that will be the most natural thing ! Because these type of people have rare chances that they can change. Either they win or die or destroy other people. ''mera nai hua to kisi ka bhi nahi hoga'' They can never accept defeat !
P.S. knows that much coz had psychology as one of my subjects 😆
P.S.2. Im not saying that Gauri is responsible for everything but she should have rejected Jagat's proposal when she came to know that he was married. Then it'd have been an act of morality. Moreover only Jagiya is responsible for her such condition. He exploited 2 women and thats unpardonable ! But both jagat-gauri are responsible for their downfall.
Edited by piya_anshian - 13 years ago