Originally posted by: tanvismile
Ashai-amanke-sory i spelled ur username wrongly,you seem have completely attacked on me,although i cant sit with every arope of urs but stil i l try,see one doesnt have to be smal child to listen to a mother,no matter how big u grow but mother wil always be mother,a mother influence wud always remain on daugher,regarding her agreeing to marry ,ya she was convinced that he only loved her,it was foolish or watever but at that moment she believe it,it was nothing like revenge ,just becoz u dnt understand her behaviour but u simply cant make ur own meaning,looking at him she was convinced that he genuinly loves her,he could never be a man who cud live his wife for another women,whatever u think but that is the truth,now she must have realised as now he has confessed that he left hasta kilta parivar for her.
Tanvi, this is the first time I am addressing you. All through my past posts, I never mentioned you nor your attributes. I stick to the characters in BV we talk about. You said what you felt and I said mine. where did attacking come from ?? let alone complete or partial. I fail to understand.
Coming to my side. I work in for woman and child rights. So every now and then I hear these stories, which are real and gore. I know human tendencies and their psychotic behaviors very well , as i deal with them, try to help them. I have a friend , whose husband left for other woman and almost same as Anandi's case but it's a huge black hole for her ,as in real world there are very less Shiv's. It is very necessary to educate people to abstain from entering into illegal relationships. It is a pain for people who live in them and the aftereffects are even more worse for their children.
I disagree than a mother can influence her children to take wrong path for wrong objectives. Even if my mother asks me to do drugs now, i will disobey her and try to reason with her. just because she is my mother doesn't mean i will do whatever she says. I am educated and i know the after affects so i will try to educate my mother about them rather than be a puppet.
No matter what you feel, I feel utterly disgusted that an educated gawari was convinced on jumping into a married man's bandwagon. If you feel it's ok then it's your opinion. I told you mine but i didn't urge or force you to accept my opinion and change yours.