Jugat's Hypocrisy and Shallow Introspection

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avivakirk

@avivakirk

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Great post Anjana!👏👏👏Lots of hard hitting home truths and truth is often a bitter truth to swallow...Isn't it an irony that the the moon Jags chased turned out to be dust after all ..He cheated Anandi and in return got cheated fair and square..H e had his rug pulled right under him ..Let's wait and watch whether this incident teaches him to differentiate btwn true and fickle people.Also is he going to realise his folly and selfishness of his actions?

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andv

@andv

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Anita - I adore your always thoughtful and insightful posts. I agree today was G's day and she got dose 1 of all that she deserves.

My rant is for Jugat cuz as a viewer I was more invested in him just like the Singhs and Anandi. Apno ka dhoka zyaada dard dehta hai...And I didn't see J taking sufficient ownership of his own mistakes.

The fact that he is abandoning another woman even if she is the "other" woman bothers me as well. This guy treats rishtas like their r tissues. He ruined A's life and is re-ruining G's. G may well deserve it, but that's another issue.

Anjana, I too enjoy reading your posts and it gives me a totally new perspective of the situation, many of which might have not occurred to me either.

The rest of your post made me very nostalgic of my old times on the forum. The members who were present during the J romancing G times might just be able to relate to this. We used to write posts after posts ranting about J and his mannerisms, him cheating A and having sympathy for the good old innocent G. And ultimately when G agreed to get married to him it was more like a slap on our faces who used to support her and feel bad for her. There were members who supported J and G marriage and we had brought up these same questions as to what if a cheat like J leaves her and goes to another girl? If G gets nightmares of her childhood incident how is she going to live this very nightmare every single day of her life by associating with J and the Singhs? Ultimately J is now leaving her and going back to A and G's nightmares took the shape of her insecurities. Unfortunately G's character has only gone down hill from there so much so that it felt that the old smart, sensitive and loving girl was just an eye wash while the real G is this present one.

We have spent so much time badmouthing J that we got just fed up saying the same things again and again. J on the other hand never changed. He's more like a person who you have just given up on. Hence any remotely sensible action of his comes as a surprise to us and we wonder if he really is a lost case or not? His unpredictable nature is what is most intriguing and hence I only base my judgement about him on that day's episode very well prepared for a 360 degree turn in the next. I will never have sympathy for these two characters coz they reaped exactly what they sowed. No point blaming one another, but alas given their ego and immaturity that's all that can be expected from them.

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#33

i agree with u completely!!!!!!!!!!! i dont blame Gauri at all, in the sense that she broke J n A's marriage... coz i dont think she did that! that was completely J's fault... Gauri is just a selfish n insecure person... just like Jagya...! both of them should work on their marriage

J is really a hypocrite... (if G broke his trust, he broke A's trust in a worse way)

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mbaparamita

@mbaparamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Shaista33
@ Anjana: You are very right. Gauri has not really seen the light yet and nor have her true colors been revealed to her friends. That needs to happen. The way she used to rant at Anandi and claim that no one saw her challak side, I want that side of Gauri's to be depicted cause she's the manipulative one. Otherwise, she'll always play the victim card and blame Jag (then in turn get sympathies from all).

And yes, COLD INDIFFERENCE is what needs to be shown by Anandi. On some level, he does hold her views in high regard and that's why I felt he degraded her... cause he felt inadquate in front of her goodness and love. He never compared. And even now Anandi gives him those gaga looks... I want that to stop and him to realize that there is love there in them for SHIV. I want him to see the love showered upon Shiv from everyone for helping the village and standing with the Singhs... as you said, something Jagya didn't do.

I also want that gauri's frnds n all da mumbai vasis should know what she has done with Anandi...n how she was in a livein with Jagiya for so many yrs...I want every one to know her true face...when dat day will come??? Gauri will be humiliated by everyone 4 her deeds...I want no one to stand beside her...

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anshul

@milindrose

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#35

gauri's crime are equal to jagya so he should repent to all this but time is gone now ripe for anandi to pursue sachha pyar not jagya

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dlip

@dlip

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
It's G's special day, but I have a JUGIA rant😡😡 BP says he was lost in G's love and is just as much as fault. J accepted that, but WAT FISH. JUG IS WAY MORE CULPABLE than G. Yes. He is partner in crime with G. But, he has is own set of Crimes that he has not given an iota of thought to as yet...lets rewind shall we? Btw lets not forget he was an ADULT not a Dhoodpeeta Baachha when he left Jaitsar for MBBS.

- He is the one that cheated and verbally berated A during his whole MBBS;
- I for one still remember how he erased Anandi's identity -altering it to durr ki rishtedaar Nandini
- He likewise lied about his parents to his "new" friends
- He ditched the hospital in Jaitsar, his family, and Jaitsar itself for MS;
- He LIED TO THE COURT (this one I take personally 🤣)
- He bribed court staff with his daddu's nishani gifted to him by DS;
- He let G be rude and humiliate his family during their 1st stay in Jaitsar;
- He had slept with G in front of Anandi;
- He beat an innocent veggie vendor;
- He got into a verbal fight with dean;
- He got into an altercation with senior Dr.

So, even if we eliminate the G made him do it excuse...J has done plenty to date all on his own.

TO ME HIS REALIZATION IS AS EMPTY AS THE EARTHENPOT HE CALLED ANANDI UNTIL HE REMEMBERS AND REPENTS THESE MOMENTS

Lastly, G treated his family no worse than he himself...So, why b shocked? Guess it hurts to be the cheated one and not the dhokebaaz.😆😆 G was a better wife to him than he was a husband to A. At least G didn't kill her his dad or mock his aatma😛

fully agree. Now the worry is he will go back to jetsar, Anandi will acknowledge him.
Patience and goodness of Shiva will be tested.

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Michelle Dantis

@michelle281194

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#37

i really hope anandi doesnt treat him well when he comes! that would be so non-feminist!

but these days, Anandi ka kuch keh nahi sakte... she keeps on thinking of their good times (so annoying!)

Anandi needs to read "the fountain of fair fortune" (tales of beedle the bard) by JKR...

an excerpt-

Taking her wand, Amata drew from her mind all the memories of happy times she had spent with her vanished lover, and dropped them into the rushing waters.

The stream had washed away all regret for her lover, and she saw now that he had been cruel and faithless, and that it was happiness enough to be rid of him.

Makes sense, Anandi?

and guess what? Amata then got married to a freaking KNIGHT!!! u have collector sahab!

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poiu123

@poiu123

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: srijay
We will soon see if his repentance is true or not. If he accepts Ansh, be a good person/son/doctor, he will get his redemption.. if he tries to claim An and separate Ansh, he will get a whooper kick from Shiv and thrown out of the haveli... 🤢

For Shiv the most important thing is what Anandi wants. So everything depends on Anandi's reactions. He will only intervene if he has Anandi's support , otherwise he will do nothing of this kind.

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tinoo

@tinoo

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Lastly, G treated his family no worse than he himself...So, why b shocked? Guess it hurts to be the cheated one and not the dhokebaaz.😆😆 G was a better wife to him than he was a husband to A. At least G didn't kill her his dad or mock his aatma😛

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Actually within a macro-framework, you are correct anjana, that J is a bigger dhokebaaz than G with all outer people.

But within a microcosm of the relationship between himself and gauri, (just their interpersonal relationship, I would rate G as being higher than J on the dhokebaaz scale).

J once said to G that his lies were different from her lies. He said "mere jhoot pyaar ke jhoot the. Maine tumhe paane ke liye jhoot bola, tumhe dhoka dene ke liye nahi bola"

Though it is really splitting hairs 😆 I sort of agree that J's lies were motivated by love 🤪 whereas G's lies have been motivated by hate.

🤣🤣🤣 He then went on to say there was a difference between "hiding a truth and telling a lie"... 🤪 ... and that he had never technically told her any lies... he had just hidden the truth from her. She was so lovestruck that she took this explanation from him with moony eyes.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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753037

Suspended

Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Anita - I adore your always thoughtful and insightful posts. I agree today was G's day and she got dose 1 of all that she deserves.

My rant is for Jugat cuz as a viewer I was more invested in him just like the Singhs and Anandi. Apno ka dhoka zyaada dard dehta hai...And I didn't see J taking sufficient ownership of his own mistakes.

The fact that he is abandoning another woman even if she is the "other" woman bothers me as well. This guy treats rishtas like their r tissues. He ruined A's life and is re-ruining G's. G may well deserve it, but that's another issue.

@ bold - When he abandoned A, he was encouraged, accepted and in turn supported by G and her parents.They made him appear like as innocent victim of Child marriage and they abused the actual victim Anandi ruthlessly. But in this case he will not be accepted by A and his own family . Therein lies the difference between the two women he abandoned.

Not just this guy..even gauri treated marriage like tissues.No decent, educated man would slap a woman. But again J had never been that decent good guy..so this is an exceptional case where he can slap this woman who deceived him and plotted to separate him from his family with a web of lies!

J never lied to separate G from her parents. She willingly entered into this relationship after knowing what a liar he was. So J's lies to G before marriage can't be compared to G's deception to J post marriage(illegal marriage)..

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