Applauding phooli - Page 5

Originally posted by: katts

Well there are people who do that. My grandfather too had cancer but never disclosed it. None knew about it until he got completely bed-ridden and his last days were near. I too have kept many things to myself and not shared it with my family. Its my way of living. You have yours. Are all the people same?

Or do you mean to say that you expect others to do what you would do in certain situations?

I really don't think the two situations (or any two women's situations) are comparable in that way. Everyone is different and takes their own time to get over things. What I might get over very slowly, someone else might be able to bounce back from very fast. Also, we don't know that Phooli didn't spend a lot of time being miserable after her ordeal, as we as viewers never saw her after the court case where she won her child back. Having the responsibility of another human being is also a big deal and takes a hell of a lot of time and energy, leaving less time and energy to be miserable. Anandi had no children in whose upbringing and care and future she could busy herself (and I believe Bhago highlighted this at some point when asking Khajan, "What is our daughter going to do now? She doesn't even have a child in whose care she can spend her days..."). So I feel the two situations (Phooli's and Anandi's) are very different. It's impossible to tell how each would have behaved had their roles been reversed.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

but one thing i do not liked about anandi that why she kept divorce paper in that box in which puppet bangles were kept. she could have kept those divorce paper in another place.and anandi please do not keep those document again in that box otherwise u will again starting crying by seeing puppet and that time i will not support u .

dadisa aapne yeh kya kiya .

@surabhi -- dadisa ka yeh sochna thaa ki ek baar completely sab kuch dafnaaya jaaye, ek saath ... memories and divorce papers. stupid to make anandi to do it ... dadisa herself should have put the papers in the box if that was the case.

kya divorce paper jalaye jaayenge .yeh to proof hoga divorce ka

Originally posted by: tinoo

after having seen anandi crying buckets and buckets (even to date)... I have to say that I have nothing but disgust for her. I wish she would just get over it and move on.

For that matter I want to applaud phooli. 👏

She did not even stay in that relationship for one minute after she realized she was betrayed, either physically or mentally ... she had absolutely no financial independence, her inlaws had already betrayed her, and her parents werent the overly supportive kinds of people to begin with, and she had that child also... bharat's parents had told her that she could stay as a naukrani if she wanted to...

now phooli too could have cried buckets like this ----> 😭

because until she had the child bharat had treated her very nicely and behaved as if he was in love with her, and she had so many romantic memories with him... it was only after she had the child that he did a 100 degree volte face.

But still, she took a risk, kidnapped her baby from under those monsters noses and started running without really knowing what she was going to do where she was going to go...

she also could have decided to cling to memories of her sasuma giving hot milk to her, and bharat putting payal around her feet, but she didnt.

She had enough self-respect to understand the situation NOW ... and quickly get out of the situation to the best of her ability...👏

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think it is perfectly okay to keep things to yourself if it doesnt involve other people picking up the pieces.

If it involves other people picking up the pieces, and having to get involved, then definitely i have an ethical responsibility to let those people know.

It is okay to say "this is my way" provided i am the one managing the consequences of "my way"

Here anandi's secret keeping has had a direct impact on bapusa, dadisa, sumitra etc.

Is she managing the consequences on her own?

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think it is perfectly okay to keep things to yourself if it doesnt involve other people picking up the pieces.

If it involves other people picking up the pieces, and having to get involved, then definitely i have an ethical responsibility to let those people know.

It is okay to say "this is my way" provided i am the one managing the consequences of "my way"

Here anandi's secret keeping has had a direct impact on bapusa, dadisa, sumitra etc.

Is she managing the consequences on her own?

sabki madad anandi ne ki aur buraai anandi ki ho rahi hai aur yeh kaha jaa raha hai ki yeh anandi se strong hai woh anandi se strong hai .i am seriously fed up of this