Applauding phooli - Page 4

Attachment of intimacy is same for every body. People can not even forget one night stand in their life.

phooli ko pehle sachet kiya tha pur phooli nahi maani phir jub sachhai pata chali aur uske husband in laws ne jo behave kiya phooli ko naa jaane to kitni baar thappad maara tub jaake phooli ko ehsaas hua ki mujhe kitna sachet kiya tha shaadi se pehle pur phir bhi main nahi maani aur shaadi karli agar yeh yaad ho ki jub phooli ko jub inlaws ke ghar se bahar nikala gaya tha to ek woman ne kya kaha tha .to phooli ko unko chodna hi behtar tha kyonki woh jaan gayi thi abki baar main uske saath rahi to phir mera koi saath na dega.phooli ke sasural walon ke khilaaf aawaaj kisne uthaayi ? anandi ne.aur anandi yahaan yeh bhi nahi kaha ki tum apne husband ke saath raho.

Originally posted by: akvats01

I like Phooli, as She has also done one good thing to herself, She has not hide the condition form her well wishers, and thats why she is out of it.

Its A's habbit to hide the situation from the well wishers, and try to give herself a reason , that her well wishers will become unhappy after knowing all this.. Are her well wisher' shappy now, after all this broken family?

When she returned from mumbai after Jagya ditched her infront of his friends,and seeing he was dancing with Gauri, The way two were dancing , that was sufficient to give a hint to an adult wife.

Not only She decided to hide this form the family members, but she royally decided to ignore that incedent. Will any normal woman not feel jealous, or bad about such things, Will a woman not like to do some thing about it. ? She assumed that If she would change herself , he would accept her.

She could have gone to sumitra, and could have spoken her heart out. Hope fully some thing could have been done that time. They would have sent her to stay with him. They could have planed to shift with Jagya, for few months and could have prevented this initial stage of his extra marital affair to convert into a strong relation..

Later She recalled her stupidity, when she came to know that it is the same woman with whom he was dancing that night..

We must speak out , How can we ignore our own feelings, like jealous, All negative feelings have a purpose and thats why they exsists. At time we should be honest with out negative feelings also..

Originally posted by: akvats01

Its A's habbit to hide the situation from the well wishers, and try to give herself a reason , that her well wishers will become unhappy after knowing all this.. Are her well wisher' shappy now, after all this broken family?

Originally posted by: akvats01

More over phooli was a child widow, for her that one year of married life was the most precious thing of the world.

Pahle to Aanadi ko ab hiding ki aadat se chhutkara pana chahiye, aur ye sochna band kar dena chahiye ki vo sirf dusro ki help karne ke liye hi hai, Apne issues vo khud handle karsakti hai , she dont need any one.

Such beautiful explanations that I really dont need to say more.I can just say that its good if she cries now.She is just letting all that accumulated stuff come out.Yes she keeps on remembering the good memories only.It has a reason.And the reason is that this is the "Final" adieu.For the period in between she just remembered the humiliation,the insult and the rejection that made her headstrong and independent enough to live her life alone with dignity and hope.She started seeing new dreams...dreams of societal change...dreams of a new dawn for the hundreds of girls like her.

Its just now that she is revisiting the "good" memories bcoz that part she had hidden inside herself.That never came out.Its necessary for her to pour the good memories as well along with the bad ones.Only then she can completely move on.Its like when a person dies.When a person passes away,even if he/she had not been a kind soul ppl still try to remember his good deeds.After death,all jealousies,anger,frustration on anybody washes away.U rememeber the deceased person's good deeds and just pray to god for his soul to rip.In the same way its the death of this relationship.The anger,the frustration,the humiliation has already siphoned off.At the final end of this relationship she naturally recollects the good moments so that she can bid the final adieu.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 from my side to Phooli😊

but one thing i do not liked about anandi that why she kept divorce paper in that box in which puppet bangles were kept. she could have kept those divorce paper in another place.and anandi please do not keep those document again in that box otherwise u will again starting crying by seeing puppet and that time i will not support u .

Originally posted by: tinoo

If I am just feeling unwell and feverish, I may try to self medicate with popping a couple of aspirin or vicks action 500... but if it persists, and i go for a medical test and find that i have cancer ... then atleast at that time when i am sure, should i not say anything to my family?

or should i keep quiet thinking my family will be unhappy with cancer and let it progress even more without any treatment?