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as opposed to anandi's romance with her husband which was genuinely based on true love and not a facade/not a deceit???all five years of his adult marriage he cheated on her ... what does she define as reciprocal feelings? ... his tying a payal on her ankle? his holding her under a water pump? his running after her on the terrace and the clothes all falling down on her? These are called 'actual feelings'?and the point is that all normal human beings no matter how much of a relationship they have had, it is always the immediate last interaction that breaks the relationship ... no normal human being focuses on the past without recollecting the present context.anandi is weird.
All the while i have been thinking that Anandi's gloom was due to the separation between her and the Singh's which may eventually occur after this divorce. But she seemed equally or more concerned about her relation with Jag...her happy/romantic memories with Jag were kinda disgusting to me.
But then, do we really have control over our feelings?? Can we really control the flow of thoughts that occur in our mind? How i wish i could control that!!! The more we control, the more that thought repeats in our head, so it would be better if we let them flow so that we can gradually get rid of them ...So here, i take this re-collection of thoughts as a good riddance for a better future. And that was a good Q she asked DS, hope i got it right..."how do we manage with the good memories?" ...It shows that she probably wants to be out of those...
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
