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If Shiv cannot heal her past wounds he need not marry Anandi . Anandi carries the emotional baggage of rejection , pain and betrayal and this is the complete Anandi.
But that is precisely my point. Shiv has never been shown to think that anandi would easily accept his rishta... infact, he was not thinking about anandi yet, he wanted to ask his own parents first. After that, he would deal with the issue of anandi as dadisa said that her talaq had to be finalized first, and that he should take the consent of his household people too.He has not said yes to anandi, he has said yes to dadisa's proposal and the two are very different things...We can only say that shiv was living in a dreamworld if they showed him thinking thoughts like "sure anandi is going to say yes to me .. what other options does she have? and who wouldnt want a london returned hunky collector like me?"or if he himself had walked up to dadisa and said"yo yo yo dokri? wassup? i want to be anandi's beendh and I know she is going to say yes"His yes was only about his own view of the matter ... not dependent on anandi's view.He said yes, because he is inclined towards anandi (only his part of the equation) ... nowhere is he saying that he assumes anandi is also inclined towards him.Infact, he has said "anandi ka mere saath jud jaana, mere liye samman ki baat hai"... which means he puts anandi on a pedestal ... it is only when someone whom we think higher than us wants to be with us that we think it is samman ... when someone whom we think lower than us wants to associate with us, then we never think of it as samman.It was most inappropriate of anandi to yell at him. Dirst of all, I dont think anandi should have talked to him at all -- she should have told dadisa to convey to him she was not interested.But even if she talked to shiv, there was no need to insult him/speak crassly to him. All she had to do was to say "dadisa put the marriage proposal forward but I am not interested. Please dont pursue it"...All her hurts and insecurities need not be put on display ... and it would have been bhairon's place to convey the insecurities to shiv ... or else anandi should only convey her insecurities if shiv directly comes to her and asks her "i really want to marry you. what are your reservations. can we talk about this?" ...But just to go and yell at him?And how is shiv responsible for healing her past wounds?His responsibility is to be a good husband to her in the future, not to function as her therapist. đ
If he can love the complete Anandi and want to make her his wife still then only he shud marry her , otherwise go away collector saab.
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