Whats wrong with Anandi?

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Bdoll

@Bdoll

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: katts

You cant compare Anandi's case with the rest of the characters' you mentioned..
Why?? Because, Asha fell in love with that Abhishekh and she "WANTED TO MARRY HIM"

Here Anadi is scared of marrying anyone again. And no one has the right to "FORCE HER". Period.

Its not so that she still loves that loser🤬..she is just going numb to anything related to love..her actions are justified.
It is a common situation where someone with a modern thinking can't/ takes time to come out of depression caused by a break-up with their boyfriend/girlfriend... For God's sake this is a 17yr old marriage!! She WILL take time and she has the right to take her time!

I can comapre Anadi with Asha in attemp to getting out of pain. When at first Anandi try to get Asha from the state of thinking that her life is wasted and now dedicated to prayer...Anandi tried to convience Asha to get out of that impression and to get educate her. Anandi at first did not able to do that. But Asha did not react as bad as Anandi did with their lved ones. She just plainly rejeceted.Later after baba incident she realized and took a step to lead her life leaving her past behind. 👏

So now Anandi is in the state where she is not getting out of past but somewhere she should take a step to move forward and if she not able to do on her own ( just like Asha did ) family is helping her to take a step. There is no meaning she should react that bad. Especially with Shiv. I am not saying she should force to get married but she should not react with people like that who is supporting her to take step towards her future. Is it is so...when Anandi trying to educate people in village and ask them toleave their customes behind, evevryone should react like her..I obsolutely disagree with Anandi behaviour especially with Shiv.

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

anandi reactions are over these days...just yelling over singh and what was need to yell over shiv...mahaaan aatma atleast give him chance to speak... she is always dumb in front of jagat and when it comes to other her long lecturer and crying face at one side of room ghosssh...

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bluerobin

@bluerobin

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: shalluuu
anandi reactions are over these days...just yelling over singh and what was need to yell over shiv...mahaaan aatma atleast give him chance to speak... she is always dumb in front of jagat and when it comes to other her long lecturer and crying face at one side of room ghosssh...

mera ateet hi meri aage badne ki prerna hain, mere attet aur bachpan ke woh pal hi mere har ek muskaan ki wajah hain , maine apne pyar ko puja par meri tapasya mein koi kami ho gayi, shiv ko physical attraction hain ( he has told a million times he respects her ) . main apne pehle pyar ke yaadon ke sahare apna jeevan bitaana chahti hoon. 🤪 😕😳🥱. nothing more to add.

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Physical attraction is a very important part of love and successful marriage. Shadi mein pooja nahi saath chahiye. Anadi lost Jagia to Gauri and still not realise this. She is perfectly happy to live in her past and nobody dare to pull her out of it. Even if Shiv makes her fall in love with him oneday, I m sure she will make him pay for the crime. Anandi ke saath bura hua. Agree . But she got a lot of support from family and society. Still full of self pity. Look at Jagia and Gauri. They dared to go against everybody and everything for the sake of their love . What support did they get and from whom.Their marriage might fail but atleast they dared.