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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: elasingh

On thhe contrary I want Anandi to be very successful and very happy with Shiv (very goodlooking). But I dont want Jagia and Gauri to suffer either. I want to see them happy too and why not. There is really no valid reason to make them suffer lifelong.


hello,
I just went through the entire thread and thought I would just add my thoughts on this topic.
I started watching this serial about 2 years ago, and I was under the impression that the main stay is to show the evils of child marriage and also show the other common social problems. But of recent I find that it is just concentrating on showing bad side of jagdish and gauri. I think all the 3 characters have been wronged equally because of the child marriage, also none of the parents are taking any responsibility.The mother and father apart from slapping and tightening his finances have not tried to understand his situation.

Anandi is no doubt a very mature human being, but just to show how successful she is, its not necessary to defame and paint the other two in bad colours.

I thought the main idea of showing jagia's bigamy points to the evil of child marriage, when the immature person does not understand the gravity of the relationship. But if his second marriage fails does it not show that the parents were right in choosing his wife at that tender age and getting them married??.So it does not convey the message for which they started the serial.

Also Jagia could not complete his studies mainly because of him going home, but suddenly he is shown so arrogant, which is beyond doubt. This man did do his undergraduate studies without any personality issues, so again just to please the audience, is it right to show him so rude without belief?

I would like to add that I am not being biased towards any specific character.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagia when he married Anandi and Gauri he was quite young .
how many ppl understand life at that age let alone marriage . He fell in love with Gauri and married her.As for Sumi and Gauri challenging each other, when did they respect each other or tried to understand each other? Goodnight.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#23
But Precap she said nobody can take Jagya's place in her life...Tats very disappointing..Does she still love Jagya?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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uske jo jiya woh ek darr hai, dard hai . abhi tak usne jo dard saha hai usmein woh itni mix ho chuki hai ki bina dard ki zindagi kya hoti hai woh bhool chuki hai. aur abhi tak gharwaale ke karan usne woh dard ko khola nahi hai. yeh aisa munn ka mahol hai jismein bas dard bhar raha hai jis din us dard ko bahav mil jaayega us din anandi ki life ka bahav bhi nadi ki tarah badal jaayega lekin munn mein chhupe us dard ko baahar nikalne wala , us dard ko samjhnewala koi hona chahiye ...haan woh shiv hai lekin shiv ko bhi abhi us dard ko samjhna hai anandi ke undar chhupe hue darr aur dard ko baahar nikaalna hai. shaayad waqt ke saath yeh bhi ho jaaye aisi hum cvs ke pass asha rakh shaktein hai. tab tak i hope ki shiv himmat haar naa jaaye aur cvs use haarne bhi naa de .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In todays episode Anandi behaved as if Syam's father regarding Asha's marriage. There is no need to behave like that. Whta is she suggesting? If thinking about her marriage is a sin then why did she supported Asha, Phooli and is she blaming family and Suguna for her remarriage. Why the rules are different for her than others. Everybody have right to correct their bad fate and let their family think of doing so. She may have said right now i m not ready please dont force. But she behaved like maniac especially with Shiv...the conversation between Anandi and Shiv is completely unnecessary..whats wrong with Shiv from his side.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi knows ki Shiv rista lekar nahi gaya tha. DS gayi thi. Shiv ne explaination dene ki koshish bhi ki pur wo apne aage kisi ki sunti nahi hai. She was rather rude.[/QUOTEshe's not rude bas sirf woh darr rahi hai ki woh shiv ko itna pyaar nahi kar paayegi. kyunki woh abhi dard ki chhaya se baahar nikli hi nahi hai. aaj tak usne apne dard ko aur aansoo o ko gharwalo se chhipa kar rakha hai . jis din shiv us dard ko mitane mein kaamyaab ho jaayega us din use hasti khelti hui anandi bhi mil jaayegi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nothing is wrong with what Anandi is doing right now. In fact I would feel something is wrong with her if she jumps into marriage with Shiv. She has had a lot lately and she is still trying to overcome a nightmare. Her divorce will take a toll at her. not because she has feelings for that scum jagat but serving a 17 year old relationship is no joke.
Even before this nightmare finishes off, she has to go through this second marriage prep??? Not fair questioning that poor girl.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bdoll

In todays episode Anandi behaved as if Syam's father regarding Asha's marriage. There is no need to behave like that. Whta is she suggesting? If thinking about her marriage is a sin then why did she supported Asha, Phooli and is she blaming family and Suguna for her remarriage. Why the rules are different for her than others. Everybody have right to correct their bad fate and let their family think of doing so. She may have said right now i m not ready please dont force. But she behaved like maniac especially with Shiv...the conversation between Anandi and Shiv is completely unnecessary..whats wrong with Shiv from his side.

You cant compare Anandi's case with the rest of the characters' you mentioned..
Why?? Because, Asha fell in love with that Abhishekh and she "WANTED TO MARRY HIM"
Here Anadi is scared of marrying anyone again. And no one has the right to "FORCE HER". Period.
Its not so that she still loves that loser🤬..she is just going numb to anything related to love..her actions are justified.
It is a common situation where someone with a modern thinking can't/ takes time to come out of depression caused by a break-up with their boyfriend/girlfriend... For God's sake this is a 17yr old marriage!! She WILL take time and she has the right to take her time!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29
all things fine.. i understand her outburst infront of DS and she does need an outlet. but shiv?? y burst out on him? how close s he to her that she gives him left right. and that too for no wrong of his. he just said yes. she dint even allow him to speak. on top.. "paas mat ana" wt ws that.. does she think he's some letcher trying to get physical with her.. wt i mean s atleast she shud nt ve tol him all that crap.. she shud ve maintained all dignity and tol him she ws nt interested in gettin married to him and close the issue wid some peace and self respect unlike some hot headed " my wish rules" sort of a way...
i completely side shiv.. i dont think he deserves even a bit of this treatment.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi is not born or brought up in west so she should not have been surpised . DS was trying to do her good and would she have felt honoured if Shiv had refused and laughed it off. Bechara Shiv.

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