My take on jug head-anandi-shiv montage

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You are spot on there! Shiv-Anandi wedding (if and when it happens) is perfectly legal. It will happen with mutual consent and out of mutual respect and trust. It will happen with the blessings from the families on both sides. And, last but not the least, it is not a step taken due to selfishness from either of them. It is the common interest in development of Jaitsar, that the admiration started between them.

yup..I think I am ok with Jagya coming and Anandi kicking his behind and going to shiv :)

Suchi - logically Jagat is going to return for divorce. It needs to be finalized na? Like you I feel his return is needed for Anandi to internalize that she is over Jagat and move forward with Shiv. Subconsciously per her dream, she continues to seek validation from Jagat...but, she doesn't need it anymore. Not really. But, to realize this she needs to encounter Jogia once more and let it go. Sometimes we don't realize we don't need something anymore till we get it! Also, a side benefit would be Jagat seeing what exactly it is that he has lost and she has achieved. Their interaction may also make Shiv more protective of Anandi or help him realize/see yet another admirable facet of Anandi...her capacity for forgiveness, her strength, etc. Shiv knows Jagat left - he doesn't know the why - Gauri. When a man leaves you for another woman, it obliterates ones self esteem particularly the woman's "femininity"...this realization/information may help Shiv heal that final hurt.

Knowing Anandi, perhaps, she may even try and get jagat and Gauri together! 😊

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

yup..I think I am ok with Jagya coming and Anandi kicking his behind and going to shiv :)

I love this!!!
I am in love with this idea of yours!!😊

Exactly Suchi!I agree with what u said.Till now she is still somewhere linked to him.For a girl though her most beautiful emotions come from her family but the emotions which make her feel like a woman mostly comes from her man...whether it be pain or happiness.A girl's family makes her feel secure,sheltered and pampered.But its the way her man treats her which makes her womanhood complete.Its not that a woman is incomplete without a man but this is a natural phenomenon which every human experiences.There is always that one person of the opposite gender who completes you as an individual.Till now for anandi that had been Jagiya.What all she had to feel as a woman, were his sour memories,his betrayal and his bitter thoughts which made her feel undesirable and doomed.What all she had to feel about herself a a woman came from only jagiya and thats why she cant move on from him.And its only when Jagiya will come back,will she realize that she no longer wants to be a victim of his stupid male go.Then she will realize the meaning of a true man-woman relationship.When she will see Jagiya and Shiv standing in the same frame she will realize that what she needs in her life...and what NOT.When Jagiya will be all cruel and stubborn over getting her back while Shiv inspite of the rejection will continue to be her well-wisher and friend...only then she will realize the true meaning of what kind of relationship she or for that matter any girl expects in her life - a relationship that is full of jealousy,insult and ego or a relationship that blooms on the bonds of love, friendship and respect.And I think there can be no better realization for Anandi.It will be like a new dawn for her.Bcoz this way she will herself remove the clouds of the past to let the new light in😳

Actually I am glad that J is coming back to Jetsar.Because I feel confrontation between A and J is a much needed event not just needed to move the story forward but also because both J and A need to communicate with each other. When they filed for divorce they are just angry with each other.In some way they were still hanging on to each other.

thank you suchi for warming and calm down us. hope anandi sees the difference b/n shiv-jaggu dada and accept the praposal.