What is wrong with gauri's POV?

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andv

@andv

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Posted: 13 years ago

#141

@Sonali: Sorry I did not respond earlier but Sonali your story makes me believe that only good things happen to good people and that's why this 🤬 is out of you life and you are with a person who you truly deserve. Always remain this cheerful and wonderful person that you are 🤗

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

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Posted: 13 years ago

#142

Originally posted by: andv
@Sonali: Sorry I did not respond earlier but Sonali your story makes me believe that only good things happen to good people and that's why this 🤬 is out of you life and you are with a person who you truly deserve. Always remain this cheerful and wonderful person that you are 🤗

Aww thankyou sweety 😛 Thanks a ton!! 🤗

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

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Posted: 13 years ago

#143

And I read all the posts here.. everybody wrote really well. 👏

Ultimately I think its how you are configured, you know. It boils down to the person how they react to certain situations.

This is Gauri- as we know her. When she needs to be kind to Jagat, maska-marofy him, she knows very well how to do it. In all other times, where it doesn't necessarily benefit her, she speaks her mind out. She's very frank and cut throat in giving her opinions and has this attitude-

"This is me, take me as I am , want me? Live life my way! "

And Jagat- I can't give him my sympathy votes, sorry. If it really hurts a man, he should drive a taxi, work as a waiter, do what it takes to keep his pride. Do that and then throw your weight!

But if he did find a job in Bangalore and wants to go there , I dont see why that should give any pain to Gauri. She messed his life up. Now when he's trying to sort it out his way.. then why is it bothering her? 🤢

Edited by sonali_dg - 13 years ago

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#144

Sonali, how cd u even tolerate such things. I m convinced tht love is blind 😆 😆

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#145

Originally posted by: ankit111
Sonali, how cd u even tolerate such things. I m convinced tht love is blind 😆 😆

😆😆 In my case it was also deaf and dumb 😆 When he used to abuse I learned to become deaf and when he argued and argued non stop with logic much dangerous than some bhashanbaazes we know 😆 I had to turn Dumb also 😆

But with marriage every thing changes you see 😉 Once bitten, twice shy!😆

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Manasi

@Manasi_16

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 13 years ago

#146

Originally posted by: tanvismile
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i think its the way we look about the situation ,i think gauri never tried to be bad to jagya infact she was the one to tell him sit aram at home and study ,she is completelty suporting him ,is there with him .But his situation is not just about an unemployed citizen,He is kind of guy who still believes that man should be the bread earner of family ,it is about jealousy ,that he has developed for her .somehow his old thinking (thanks to his ds for instilling it in him) is not allowing him to handle gauri s success.and tell me one thing you blamed your mother for your failures and your mother kept quite listening to your nonsense ?

i understood jagya turned MCP because anandi,sumi took all this nonsense which gauri is not going to take .jagat has to face his shortcomings that he is MCP and then change it.

i know when you are in depression this taunts can hurt you so deep but with jagya its all about equality that he wants to achieve.

Jagya has not been blaming Gauri for his failures...tell me one dialogue where he has blamed Gauri? His complint is that Gauri is now ignoring him. Frankly, Gauri is partially responsible for Jagya's failure...if she had not spoken to the Dean like she did, maybe he would not have been expelled...maybe Dean would have given Jagya a chance to explain why he was absent this time??? Maybe...maybe not.

Why is it so difficult to be sensitive to the feelings of a mentally not-so-fit person? Jagya right now is not in best of mental health...a little understanding & less condescension will do wonders to get him back to normal. Is it so impossible to do? Esp when you claim that he is the love of your life?

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Manasi

@Manasi_16

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#147

Ewww...what has the world come to...I am defending Jagya😆😆😆😆😆😆 Balika Vadhu bhi kya kya din dikhata hai😆 But seriously...having gone thru this Jagya-type phase myself, I can really feel for him...on the other hand, first time in history of BV, I am agreeing that at least's Gauri thoughts & POV is right...that itself is a first for me😆😆

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#148

@ Manasi

I agree with u...I am supporting gauri...never thought aisa bhi koi din aayega 😕

But this time I am supporting Gauri for her stand on not leaving her job and moving to Bangalore.Althought her way of communicating was wrong.

I am feeling syampathic for jagya also...BV bhi kya kya din dikhata hai 😆😆😆

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#149

Niharika and Mansi, the best way to escape from BV side effect, just enjoy their fight without thinking rit and wrong. Just think his is Wht they deserve. I yesterday enjoyed whn jogia was irritating Gouri, not becoz I thought he was rit, but only becoz Gouri deserve it. At same time I also enjoy whn Gouri show jogia his place, becoz he also deserve it. I like seeing their life turning hell and they r not enjoying it, after making others life hell. Why to waste our time in proving who is rit? If both will be rit and their life wd run smoothly, it will give wrong message. So let thm fight for everything and just chill and enjoy 😆 😆 😆