Lecturebaaz Anandi !!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: vishwa19

She should have taken this step long back..y did she allow her self to be blamed by cruel people like J &G?

Why does she always have to wait for the final blow to take her stand?

and as you would have noticed in my first post I have mentioned that I like Anandi and m not against her ..its just that she has to think about herself ..she cant be subject to the blames of random shameless people !!!

Ditto! 👏Agree! In 1st place she doesnt need to put herself in such situaions where in beginning itself if she had stopped j& g to treat her bad!

tolerance level for each person is different .

Sometimes yelling and screaming does not get ur point across. If Anandi had defended herself to Jagat and told him the truth, he would still have blamed her cuz he was not in a right mental state at that time. It is better to ignore people who are rude. Tht's the best way to deal with them. There is no point yelling back or standing for yourself in front of people who won't ever understand you. If Anandi truly was a doormat, then she would have just left the haveli as soon as Jagat accused her. But at that time she answered him back saying that she is now the daughter of the haveli and has full right to stay there.

In the first place ..why does she need to tolerate...has she done anything wrong? or has any one compelled her to tolerate or to be the victim ? or

Also taking a stand for yourself does not always means screaming and screeching your throats out !!

see situation first it is anandi tolerance level and secondly situation force her to do so.but i do not think she did not stand up for herself

scene 1 .jagat said to anandi i will take this goggles in the name of true friendship but anandi refuses to give it to jagat


scene 2.when anandi kidnapped by shravan and when jagat came to rescue her she hestitated to sit on motor cycle

scene 3.when gauri says hello anandi i cant here u and after she start abusing anandi .after this she did not attend jagya calls she only gave msg to jagat .when jagat shout at anandi for not attending his call she immediately cut the phone

scene 4 .when she saw jagat in resturant she hide hersef but due to old woman accident she had to hospital and jagat and gauri forced her to come their house .anandi went their house to just bow her head infront of ganesh.she did not even took it and left the house

scene 5 when badi maasi came she used to sleep in another room

scene 6 u very well know


anandi whenever call to jagat just inform that i have tranfer money in ur account and i am sure after few days bank will seal his account due to nil balance and he has to depend on gauri money and gauri will have full control over her money .she will tell jagat where to spend money or not jagat will get angry and fighting will start.without money all true love will escape through window

Originally posted by: vishwa19

In the first place ..why does she need to tolerate...has she done anything wrong? or has any one compelled her to tolerate or to be the victim ? or

Just because she loved Jagya and he cheated on her she has to tolerate ?

And if her concern is family's izzat and shaan..I dont really think it will be affected if she says J and G to keep away from her or simply not entertain them by picking up their calls !!!

This is not called tolerance its called self bashing !!

Though I would love to watch the coming episodes where the CV's show her as independent & successful woman standing for herself and not letting in creeps like J &G !! :) :)

Well.. Runes to an extent I agree with you ..m not saying Anandi is bad ..do you think its the right message for the situation of a child marriage or even a normal marriage where husband does whatever he wants he speaks nicely to her according to his moods, uses her for his benefits and then when hes trapped he comes across as blaming her and she takes it all lying down...

Actually if we want to find out what is right or what is wrong message the following points may also be considered.

Originally posted by: vishwa19

Well.. Runes to an extent I agree with you ..m not saying Anandi is bad ..do you think its the right message for the situation of a child marriage or even a normal marriage where husband does whatever he wants he speaks nicely to her according to his moods, uses her for his benefits and then when hes trapped he comes across as blaming her and she takes it all lying down...

Understand the fact that shes a social worker..in that case she has to set an example for other victims of infidelity..to stand up strongly against all odds...to speak up against atrocities ..and she does that but not for herself !!

and rahi baat friendship ki...you cannot be a friend with a man who has cheated you time and again !

I simply want anandi to not let J and G bash her ..i want her to be a successful person who does not rely on anyone emotionally or financially !!! :) :)