Originally posted by: nimmi_rra
i guess we completely diverted the topic but i am curious! so will ask.
if we could attract only like minded people who will think like us..
then how could diametrically opposite people fall in love, marry and stay together.
two different attitude towards life people can be friends..
just curious😊
Nimmi, actually when people marry, they look for someone they have a lot of things in common with... this is the reality... opposites attract is a myth.
Anyway, what i am talking about is not different political views or different religious views or something like that... I am basically talking about emotional energy levels.
It will be very hard for me to explain in detail here -- because it takes years of study to get this.
But have you heard of scientology (its a new age religion) -- they have this concept called tonal scales. each emotion is at a scale and when you are at a certain emotional wavelength...you will begin to group with others on that emotional wavelength. There is a detailed explanation on wikipedia.
Then, there are other frameworks called emotional gradient scales.
Basically let us say someone is at despair -- they tend to attract others on the emotional range of despair and are not a match to others on joy. .
you can google this too - emotional gradient scales.
It is about your emotional state.
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