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Posted: 14 years ago
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hello people!! back here after long time 😊

i saw so many posts around here complaining tht gauri is selfish and nasty and needs to be removed as soon as possible. i am surprised. what is wrong with her? 😲 c'mon guys, i think she is nice. there is nothing wrong with her values. yes she stayed with jagya in the city bt thts coz they didnt have any option. many ppl do tht nowadays. apart frm tht, she had left jagya when she realised his truth. bt he became desperate. he sat in the rain and got hospitalised and then begged her to accept his love!! well, she loves him so she cant let him harm himself and she married him. then they cud have stayed happily in the city bt she comes back to take blessings of his parents. she wanted his family to accept her.

now after facing gross insults everyday and seeing everybody mooning after anandi, she loses her patience. thts only natural. she is suffering every single day. her husband does not have guts to stand up for her. she has to defend herself everytime. she has to answer everyone on her own. and all the time she keeps hearing tht anandi is si perfect. it is enough to frustate anyone.

gauri has a valid point tht she and jagya married as adults and lawfully she is jagya's wife. now this is all jagya's fault tht he went and fell in love and married another girl despite knowing tht he had a wife already. gauri is not at fault here. yes, she shud have insisted tht jagya shud first divorce anandi. in jagya-anandi relationship, love was one-sided. here jagya and gauri both love each other. what i want is tht anandi shud divorce jagya and carry on studying and become a doctor and find a new guy and leave jagya and gauri in peace.

the thing is tht anandi and jagya were married without their own will bt jagya and gauri have married with their own wish. that marriage shud actually last. 😊

personally i like jagya and gauri together. looks-wise, personality-wise they suit each other. i hope the creatives let them be toegther. and anjum (gauri) is a fantastic actress!! i love her in every scene. she has all the right expressions. she's doing a great job.👏

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Posted: 14 years ago
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My question is why does Gauri hate Anandi??
That will probably answer ur doubts.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why does Gauri shout and scream so much ?
Why is she always throwing a tantrum ?
Why is she so ill mannered ?
Why is she so admant on getting ashirvad and acceptance and haq ?
Why does she justify her child marriage and condems Jagya and Anandi's marriage ?
She is not Jagya's legal wife(watch pervious episode u'll know even lawfully she's not his legal wife) Still she keeps on harping abt her legal status without full knowledge.Why ?
Why does she hate Anandi ?
Why is she insecure and Jealous of Anandi ?
Why did she marry a married man without knowing the whole truth(Jagya was in love with Anandi before Gauri came.There was no compulsion he accepted her as his wife after beoming an adult)
Why dosent she use her brain ??
If u can ans these questions u'll know why ppl hate Gauri...Its not abt Anjum or who looks good with whom.Its abt whats right and wrong.
If Anandi wld have been behaving like the way she is doing nowdays I wld have hated her too.
Edited by niharika_n - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Whats the defn of beauty acc to u? Is it external or inner?
If G is so perfect why is she trying to compete with A?
Why is she so insecure?
There is more than one reason why people dont like her. No chemistry or geography will help that.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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G is insecure because she knows that she has destroyed another girl's married life! she does not have any legal right, so it's absolute that she will shout for her rights! an empty pot makes much sound,u know! infact she does not have faith on her husband's love. she knows that what had happened with Anandi, can happen with her also!
Edited by shreela - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes shreela. she knows that shes nowhere in that house. and she has realised J's first priorities r his blood relations (does she have no common sense) moreover now she knows that J has never overcome A fully then where is her place in his life? thats why shes so insecure.

right now shes jumping on the basis of legal marriage with him. wait till she hears the truth abt legal marriage with A. she will faint. 😆

i dont hate her but i feel pity for her instead. knowing J's background she agreed to marry him. she herself agreed to fall into the pit. now getting out is very difficult. no one is there to help her even
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't hate her. But I have stopped liking her because----------

1. She instantly forgave Jagya who had been lying to her for 5 years and jumped to marry him the next morning. Any educated girl with an iota of sense will not have done this.

2. She forced Jagya to come over to the haveli when it was very evident that the family had disowned him. It's idiotic to think they can land up there and get everybody's acceptance.

3. She refused to come in terms with reality and kept pushing herself on the family. And yet when very predictably rejected, went on to complain and mourn. Again that shows sheer idiocy and being adamant to get your way without considering other people's feelings.

4. She did not have an iota of feeling for the sentiments of the family members. All she could think of is I, ME and MYSELF. Selfishness of this degree might be present in real world but it's suffocating.

5. My respect for her was totally gone when she started arguing for her child marriage and tried to validate her adult marriage on that basis. If she thought she was right to marry Jagya just because he was her child groom, that's a shocking piece of logic from an educated doctor.

6. The Gauri I liked was a modern girl with progressive thinking. That girl was vocal about the pains of a child bride made to stay back at her sasural and also rightfully chided Jagya for being friends with a man who has left a child bride at home and is romancing with another girl. However, this Gauri is a different personality--------she not only supports child marriage but is equally insensitive to Anandi's plight as a child bride and now marks her as the main enemy.

7. Whatever Gauri's sufferings are today are her own doing, yet she goes around and blames everyone else, just like her great husband Jagya. I don't like people who cannot see the problem in themselves and goes on blaming the whole world for their suffering.

8. The more she intentionally hurts Anandi, the more my dislike with increase for her. She has already started that process by shutting off the door on Anandi's face on her SR and confronting Anandi about how her claims on Jagya are more. Now the precap and other promos show that she will be screaming her lungs out on Anandi. That is abominable. Anandi has not done anything to Gauri, nor has she even insulted or been rude to her. Anandi is a victim of the whole fiasco and if someone attacks the victim, she is a moron.

I hope you won't mind my post since I just meant to participate in the discussion, I am not deriding your personal preferences. I absolutely respect your love for the actor or your admiration for Anjum. My assessment of a character is hardly based on these criterias---------I think both the girls are beautiful and very talented. However, when I critique Gauri it's absolutely based on her actions in the narrative, nothing else. So no offense please.😃




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why will i hate a fictional character. I simply dislike her for various reasons:

1. Why was she in such a hurry to marry J who was a married man plus who lied to her for 5 long years? How could she just forget all those things in one night?

2. If she didn't bothered about J and his family's reaction then, why is she crying foul now? It's not like she thought of taking their blessings before taking this step.

3. Why blame Anandi who is the worst sufferer of all this? It's she whose life has been ruined and not G's. G got a chance to become something in life but she screwed everything up.

And there are so many various reasons but i am in no mood of writing essays on G and her selfishness right now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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your right ,why hate gauri ?she just did what normal human would do when it is love marriage.she hasnt done wrong to anyone ,frustation towards a person when u r demoted all the time ,kept low in comparison ,frustation happens towards that person.its natural.i also dont find any fault ,ds knows to play mind games .but gauri hasnt done wrong to anyone n i also like their pair .it will sad to see her if jagya leaves her but i will be happy she is out of that zoo.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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your right ,why hate gauri ?she just did what normal human would do when it is love marriage.she hasnt done wrong to anyone ,frustation towards a person when u r demoted all the time ,kept low in comparison ,frustation happens towards that person.its natural.i also dont find any fault ,ds knows to play mind games .but gauri hasnt done wrong to anyone n i also like their pair .it will sad to see her if jagya leaves her but i will be happy she is out of that zoo.

Gauri iz at more fault dan jagat..betrayal is embedded in every living cells of jagats body so he cant blame him he was born dis way...i.e selfish and uncaring son of a *un..but no person in right mind would hav married him after wat he did...hell its nt about anandi..but wat he did to gauri lying to he inevery chance he gets...wat guarntee is der dat he wont cheat on her too...bt c gave in so easily like c wouldnt exist if c left jagya...anandi has been brought up in a rural background but even then c has sense but gauri being so educated c acted so foolishly..and nw c is blaming anandi for everything...and one more thing if c dosent trust her husband and throws tantrums around y da hell did c marry him...

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