Show that child marriages fail

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi is shown weak and helpless when it comes to protect herself. and again she is made to cry and wallop in self pity. She is having the example of her teacher who is so strong. And Anandi is also a teacher. And she knows that Jagya has become hostile towards her. Knowing everything, why does she suddenly collapse and cry? Trying to get maximum sympathy? Compared to her, Phooli is in a better position and getting some sort of happiness. Even if Jagya is forced to come back to her, it is of little joy for Anandi's fans. Because Jagya truly loves Gauri. Anandi should try to live like her teacher strong and giving hope to others. There is nothing more humiliating than getting I pity you looks from everyone. Her parents must take her away with them and make her strong and also get her married to someone who can really love her just like Sugna married after the death of her first husband. In this way, the story line can be extended in a meaningful way and we can have a new hero who is not ashmed of her. The new hero can be an IAS or IPS officer or even a software engineer. Let Jagya meet a happy Anandi who has a really loving husband. Let us see his reaction then.People will realise that child marriages fail and they must stop this evil practice.

But the creatives will not do this. Gauri will know the truth and make Jagya to go back to Anandi. Then Anandi will be happy to hug her Jagya and forgive him shedding more tears. By this they will prove that child marriages do not fail. Is this the message they want to give?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I concur...completely agree with you ! Anandi seriously needs to get a life and stop being a drama queen, after seeing Jagya's hostile attitude for 6 years and after witnessing what happend in Mumbai she should have known better and this news definitely shouldn't have come as a surprise (considering how intelligent she is)... plain and simple case of ignorance and overacting "dekho main kitni bechari hoon, ab mera kya hoga" and people go awww poor thing...someone in this forum once aptly named her "Cry Vadhu" ...Come on Anandi get up and show the world you can be a strong woman...for christ's sake...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes i agree with u i dont understand anandi behaviour ysterday, now she was behaving as if she except some good behaviour frm jagya, jagya has told her on phone his feeling so y she needs to act like a drama queen as if its a shock for her, dosent she excpect tht frrm him.
yes bhairav behaviour was justified since its shock for him, he dint expect tht. and he dint even know tht jagya is changed man, but anadi know this so y such a drama.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes it is totally agreeable,
Post the leap I had almost stopped watching the show since they showed Anandi as an ideal bahu who has suffered from a complete brainwash which made her forget all her childhood ambitions and have a sole motive in life, i.e., to please DS and Jagdish. Just like a Terminator is created for a single purpose only.

But the track going on now is more realistic and I don't want any of Jagdish-Anandi reunion anymore which will only make the people in support of child marriage think that it is justified since all's well that ends well and will continue sacrificing their children in this malicious practice.
Apart from Jagdish's dishonesty and being so spontaneous and insensitive in his decisions, I don't find any fault with whatever has happened to him.
It was completely natural for him to be infatuated or even fall in love with Gauri since he had never interacted with any girl like that in Jaitsar. But the mistake he did was that he should have handled this issue more sensibly, talked over the matter with Anandi during the 5 years instead of suddenly distancing himself from her and behaving rudely with her just to cover himself up.
And even his decision to stay in Mumbai forever was a wrong one and I think after the MS studies are over even Gauri would be of the opinion to return back and work for her own village (I don't remember the name) for its upliftment.

I really wish Bhairon and Sumitra think over Anandi's remarriage or maybe further studies instead of being desperate to reunify her with Jagdish and we are shown a track as well where Nand-Kishore's child marriage is prevented from happening.
That will make the true theme of Balika Vadhu come up and help the audiences learn from it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree that they should show child marriages to e a big failure and I thin Thats what they are really doing at present. when Jagya told his father that it was his family's fault and not his, I think he was very right.
Regarding Anandi's reaction- I think they are showing a very real picture here. you know anandi is a village girl who is brought up in a conservative society where women see their Husbands as everything. We being educated and living in city may think that it is unrealistic but I think anandi is a picture of 80% women in India who give their heart and soul to their husbands. I really really liked the reactions of Anandi. Even though Jagya had told her that he does not love her anymore but she had that little hope in her heart that everything will be ok once they will be together but the news that Jagya is living with another girl shattered her hopes.
kudos to balika Vadhu team for keeping up with the theme for so many years. Most serials lose track of their themes after an year or two but BV hasn't lost its basic theme since the beginning. I hope they will keep showing it an will not turn it into some typical bollywood style drama.
Just my views.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi's reaction was very much justified. And i want her to cry out all for once and move on. Her crying out right now is pretty much needed so that she can just throw out all her hurt, depression and everything that's associated with Jagya and accept it completely that it's impossible for them to reunite and she has to do something in her life. Though Jagya told her that everything was over but he didnt tell her that he loves someone else now, so yes that came as a shock to her. But now that the whole truth is out I am glad that Anandi will no longer live in any kind of False hope. That little hope that she had somewhere deep down in her heart of Jagya's return died with this revelation and I am so happy. Just hope that she doesn't backs off to make DS happy. I want her to study and study for herself and show Jagya that she is not a gawar. Had she been given the same opportunities as Jagya she would have outrun him and would have been much ahead and much successful in life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

Anandi's reaction was very much justified. And i want her to cry out all for once and move on. Her crying out right now is pretty much needed so that she can just throw out all her hurt, depression and everything that's associated with Jagya and accept it completely that it's impossible for them to reunite and she has to do something in her life. Though Jagya told her that everything was over but he didnt tell her that he loves someone else now, so yes that came as a shock to her. But now that the whole truth is out I am glad that Anandi will no longer live in any kind of False hope. That little hope that she had somewhere deep down in her heart of Jagya's return died with this revelation and I am so happy. Just hope that she doesn't backs off to make DS happy. I want her to study and study for herself and show Jagya that she is not a gawar. Had she been given the same opportunities as Jagya she would have outrun him and would have been much ahead and much successful in life.



Yes, it is true...

In yesterday's episode Anandi found out that not only Jayga not love her, but loves somebody and living with his new found love under the same roof. Now she gets the picture and she has to face the reality that he ain't coming back to her. I am glad she will study further.

Are there any hindi serials that show the plight of working women who struggle to balance family, house work and office work? I would like to see some storyline regarding this because this is also reality for most working women where I live. It doesn't matter if you are highly qualified; the kids are still our responsibility 😊 When it comes to going up the career ladder it is usually the mom's who give up for the sake of kids.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

Anandi's reaction was very much justified. And i want her to cry out all for once and move on. Her crying out right now is pretty much needed so that she can just throw out all her hurt, depression and everything that's associated with Jagya and accept it completely that it's impossible for them to reunite and she has to do something in her life. Though Jagya told her that everything was over but he didnt tell her that he loves someone else now, so yes that came as a shock to her. But now that the whole truth is out I am glad that Anandi will no longer live in any kind of False hope. That little hope that she had somewhere deep down in her heart of Jagya's return died with this revelation and I am so happy. Just hope that she doesn't backs off to make DS happy. I want her to study and study for herself and show Jagya that she is not a gawar. Had she been given the same opportunities as Jagya she would have outrun him and would have been much ahead and much successful in life.

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same here...ditto!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Actuallly this is one time anandi should cry -Cry her heart out over the end of this relationship with jagya around which her whole life revolved -Now that chapter is over she needs to mourn that loss and then reevaluate her life,her priorities and what SHE wants to do in life..🤔 She needs to realise she can be much more than jagyaa's wife or a dutiful beendnii...

Maybe teacherji will turn up and guide her in a positive way or maybe the CVs can bring back Avika for a 😍conversation between chhoti anandi and badi anandi and Anandi does a bit of soul searching and finds her path in life...😍...
But jagya coming back to anandi-Please NOoo..😵...Seriously,iss JaAn ki jodi mein bilkul bhi jaan baaki nahi hai...🤔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Most of u telliung Anandi's reaction is not correct. For me there is no over reaction of her. Right from the statring Jaggayas mentatlity is completely childish and selfish. Anandi know him more than he know himself. Anandi is in a thought that he will come back once he know himself ..but she is not at all ready to accept his selfish behavior..If any body loves purely they dont accept the bad things of that person up to some extent. But now she understand completely and she cries for her deeds only i.e to trust a selfish person like jaggaya. Once the heart is clear she will move ahead.

Lot of threds I read this forums tells that jaggaya loves gauri truely..for me If Love is nothing but trust..but now also jaggaya is hiding all the truth from gauri. He is completely selfish.He is not at alla trying to tell the truth to her. Up to now he needs his family support for studying Medicine.Thats why he is good with them atleast.
People like Jaggaya will get a lesson for sure. At the end he will become alone..no body will stay with him.That time only he can undestand him selfthat how low he is and how he cheated every body that is also who loves him very much

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