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Posted: 14 years ago
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@sonia77 & Anmol

I second you guys...watching Anandi is not only tedious but irritating to say the least !! 😡 I just cant stand her on screen crying/moaning avatar and dumb doormat attitude...always in slow motion with those dead pan expressions ...uggghhh, sympathy tho door ki baat hai, as Anmol said I feel like giving her two tight slaps, shaking her and waking her up from the slumber !...Watching Jagya, however bad he might be is any day better than this boring Jaitser and their slowmotion tear jerking life !!🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divmath

@sonia77 & Anmol


I second you guys...watching Anandi is not only tedious but irritating to say the least !! 😡 I just cant stand her on screen crying/moaning avatar and dumb doormat attitude...always in slow motion with those dead pan expressions ...uggghhh, sympathy tho door ki baat hai, as Anmol said I feel like giving her two tight slaps, shaking her and waking her up from the slumber !...Watching Jagya, however bad he might be is any day better than this boring Jaitser and their slowmotion tear jerking life !!🤢

even my mum is horribly irritated with her,
u know i managed 2 convince my mom and she agreed to my pov that anandi should study and jag gauri should be together😃
if they show anadi crying again today or giving her tortoise style dialogues, i am gonna pukeAngry
just hate everyone in jaitsar except bhairon and shyam. i dont understand why casnt all thes ppl shift to mumbai, ab jaitsar mein kyaa baaki hain
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well I must say I kind of Agree and Kind of Disagree about Anandi's portrayal after the leap.

If you watched the young anandi she was chirpy but she also cried a lot and this older anandi , well she lost that chipy-ness because she is 'the victim'

I am looking at it this way,
The CVs are showing that, when Anandi was young she did not know what situtation she has gotten into. Her young mind, carelessness of the world, and positive attitude towards life, made her extremely attractive.

But now,
The realities are hitting : when Anandi came back , there was some of the chipyness there, but an adult shade was on her. Many more emotions than just innocence had to come over her.

And recently, the harsh reality has hit her so Now she is emotion-less and dead like character and I have to say , I was almost crying at every episode after jagya and Gauri moved in and when Jagya talked to Anandi , demeaning her etc. etc.


So I think pratyusha is doing very well and we all feel like smacking her because the situation is like that.
Its not a happy go-lucky situation , rather a very sticky and ugly one.

We are supposed to be completely thrown off by her, due to what she is going through and feel the hatred towards Jagya and that we are,. I mean if we found Anandi all full of life like gauri , would be hate jagya as much as we do now ( i mean I wouldn't) its looking at Anandi and her state, that is making me hate him more.

So , as of that, I think the CVs have done a good job in maintaining the character of Anandi, and the transition of young Anandi to the adult.

Now, Their idea of turning Gauri into a negative is what I am UNABLE to digest and totally annoyed by it!!!!

That is SOOO not necessary. I want Gauri to teach Jagya a lesson but at the same time question her parents too who were equally responsible.

Bhairon , sumitra, anandi are innocent they should not suffer for the doings of DS and Jagya (adult)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Anmol

You know what...actually I was hoping for the same...ki at least Anandi mumbai shift ho jaaye...may be she will study and become modern...yahan tho story hi palat di...ulta Jag-Gauri Jaitser aayenge...hey bhagwaan...🤢 abhi kitne floods aur tsunami aane baaki hai Jaitser mein...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac

Well I must say I kind of Agree and Kind of Disagree about Anandi's portrayal after the leap.


If you watched the young anandi she was chirpy but she also cried a lot and this older anandi , well she lost that chipy-ness because she is 'the victim'

I am looking at it this way,
The CVs are showing that, when Anandi was young she did not know what situtation she has gotten into. Her young mind, carelessness of the world, and positive attitude towards life, made her extremely attractive.

But now,
The realities are hitting : when Anandi came back , there was some of the chipyness there, but an adult shade was on her. Many more emotions than just innocence had to come over her.

And recently, the harsh reality has hit her so Now she is emotion-less and dead like character and I have to say , I was almost crying at every episode after jagya and Gauri moved in and when Jagya talked to Anandi , demeaning her etc. etc.


So I think pratyusha is doing very well and we all feel like smacking her because the situation is like that.
Its not a happy go-lucky situation , rather a very sticky and ugly one.

We are supposed to be completely thrown off by her, due to what she is going through and feel the hatred towards Jagya and that we are,. I mean if we found Anandi all full of life like gauri , would be hate jagya as much as we do now ( i mean I wouldn't) its looking at Anandi and her state, that is making me hate him more.

So , as of that, I think the CVs have done a good job in maintaining the character of Anandi, and the transition of young Anandi to the adult.

Now, Their idea of turning Gauri into a negative is what I am UNABLE to digest and totally annoyed by it!!!!

That is SOOO not necessary. I want Gauri to teach Jagya a lesson but at the same time question her parents too who were equally responsible.

Bhairon , sumitra, anandi are innocent they should not suffer for the doings of DS and Jagya (adult)

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I have a slightly different perspective about Anandi although what you say about the change in the young and the grown up Anandi is acceptable. So this is also a kind of agree and disagree situation😉

Basic characteristics in a person do not change...if you are born chirpy, bright, intelligent and intuitive...that just improves with age and for me that was the young Anandi. Yes maybe once she was older she had to become more responsible and fall into line with Dadisa's commands...But that was done of her choice.

Anandi herself exposed Jagya's lies...at least some of them...she herself announced that she would continue her studies for herself and nobody could stop her...what happened????????? Nothing...5 years and nothing...this message is one of defeatism.
No one expects her to be happy and smiling after what has happened but she is way past the stage of denial...and needs to get angry to be able to withstand what is to come...and that is what we want.

Oh , I think most of us would hate much of the ugly streak in Jagya regardless of how Anandi behaved...at least I know I would...

I have not heard anything about Gauri turning negative so cannot comment on that but like you I feel it should be Gauri who needs to handle Jagya and his lies. How that should be done...I will leave to the CV's...

Parents always suffer when their child has been wrong...that is reality and cannot be avoided so I am ok with the story showing that.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

even my mum is horribly irritated with her,

u know i managed 2 convince my mom and she agreed to my pov that anandi should study and jag gauri should be together😃
if they show anadi crying again today or giving her tortoise style dialogues, i am gonna puke😡
just hate everyone in jaitsar except bhairon and shyam. i dont understand why casnt all thes ppl shift to mumbai, ab jaitsar mein kyaa baaki hain

Oh anmol, you managed to convice your mom that anandi should study 😊 GREAT👍🏼 But who will convince this anandi that she should focus on education not on jagya....
If only you could convince anandi too 😉

I too hope bhairav atleast takes anandi out of this haveli and shifts base to jaipur or bombay. Away from DS and her laadesar anandi may stop crying all the time and make some positive changes in her life...🤔
And let gauri fight it out with DS for sometime...😈
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

Oh anmol, you managed to convice your mom that anandi should study 😊 GREAT👍🏼 But who will convince this anandi that she should focus on education not on jagya....

If only you could convince anandi too 😉

I too hope bhairav atleast takes anandi out of this haveli and shifts base to jaipur or bombay. Away from DS and her laadesar anandi may stop crying all the time and make some positive changes in her life...🤔
And let gauri fight it out with DS for sometime...😈

yaa she agreed finally and said anandi should never accept jagya now agar usme koi self respect hain toh
and she told me another interesting thing, before jag turned grey , he used to continue tell anandi to study wth him but she always listened to dadisa,,Angry that made me more angry on anandi
yaar anandi ko samjhaane ki shakti mere paas nahin hain 😆😆😆,
i am fearing this time too they might dash our hopes, pls cvsAngry iss baar nahin
they will turn it into anandi vs gauri for the mega prize jaggu dada😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

Totally agree with your mom,'thodi toh self respect honi chahiye harr insaaan mein"

And yeah, chotu jagya did tell anandi to study but look what happened when she actually studied and came first ,he changed his "padhai karr anandi" to "ghar baith anandi"😡 so it was just lipservice and hypocrisy on jagya's part..
I too feel CVs iss baar bhi iski padhaii poori nahi hone dengey😳,gauri aayegi haveli and dono aapas mein ladthey rahengey bevakoof jagya ke liye.
.KAUN BANEGA jagya PATnii 😉..
winners prize dodo jagya Ufff...jo bhi jeetey ussey chullu bhar paani mein doob marna chahiye...🤪

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I mean yeah Anandi has been depressed and crying in every episode, but it's realistic. ur talking about a girl who got married at 8, not even like a normal marriage...this is literally her life, which just dropped beneath her. any girl would have this reaction and being that it's a soap it is gonna drag out. i just hope Anandi does get stronger and continue her studies. unfortunately, even myself as modern as I am, ims till a woman, and am super in touch with my feelings. it's just how women roll. i think her reaction is very realistic. it's not that easy to just dust urself off and get up and be happy...that would make no sense. as far as anandi should be happy to make jagya like her...clearly jagya doesn't like seeing her happy cuz every time she's happy he's mean to her and ruins it for her. it's jagya's fault.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What happened when Anandi decided to study and they showed 5 year leap. Looks like she did not study during that period. Now again they are encouraging her to study.

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