Jagiya to call off his marriage-Article - Page 3

plse cv,s i dosent want anandi to try to win back jagya, she dosent deserve a husband like this loser y shd a women stay with such a loser man, she needs to leave him immediately and move on in her life as soon as possible

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

Sorry to say guys, but I don't agree. Its not a child marriage issue anymore. It may have been if as adults Jagya had not accepted his marriage. Hypothetically, lets say Jagya got married to Anandi the day she turned 18 and everything else in the story happened the way it did, then wouldn't Jagya be guilty of infidelity?
The true victim of child marriage are Phooli and Gauri. Even though Anandi and Jagya were married as children, even as adults, they whole heartedly accepted the relationship. Now that Jagya is allergic to everything rural, he doesn't want village bumpkin Anandi anymore. No matter how cute they look, I hate Jagya-Gauri relationship. The most vital value of any relationship is honesty, which is lacking here, so I hope Gauri never accepts him. Tomorrow if Jagya goes to US, will he find some American girl and diss Gauri for being an Indian, and would that be acceptable? Its the same case with Anandi right now.
I hope Singh family give up on Jagya and bring up Anandi as their daughter and probably train her in business like Maasa.

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

Sorry to say guys, but I don't agree. Its not a child marriage issue anymore. It may have been if as adults Jagya had not accepted his marriage. Hypothetically, lets say Jagya got married to Anandi the day she turned 18 and everything else in the story happened the way it did, then wouldn't Jagya be guilty of infidelity?
The true victim of child marriage are Phooli and Gauri. Even though Anandi and Jagya were married as children, even as adults, they whole heartedly accepted the relationship. Now that Jagya is allergic to everything rural, he doesn't want village bumpkin Anandi anymore. No matter how cute they look, I hate Jagya-Gauri relationship. The most vital value of any relationship is honesty, which is lacking here, so I hope Gauri never accepts him. Tomorrow if Jagya goes to US, will he find some American girl and diss Gauri for being an Indian, and would that be acceptable? Its the same case with Anandi right now.
I hope Singh family give up on Jagya and bring up Anandi as their daughter and probably train her in business like Maasa.

Originally posted by: kashish_s2

Hey guys. I understand what the JG relationship supporters are sayin and I understand what Jagya went through (child marriage) and all is cruel. but when they met, they were adults and they did take this relationship to the next level. whether it be due to physical attraction or love. it just doesnt matter as much cause the fact is that they did take it to the next level. Then he went and met Gauri and fell in love. Now we can argue if it is love or just a result of the sudden freedom. Again it doesnt matter cause the fact is that they do have a relationship. I think what everyone is sayin is that Jagya was an adult when he took his relationship with Anandi to the next level and it was his decisions therefore he should account for it even if it was lust. Evn if he has fallen in love with Gauri, shouldnt he have atleast taken responsibility of his decision again and told Anandi cause she does deserve the truth. My point is that Jagys doesnt realise that Gauri fell in love with this present Jagya and no matter how much people run away from it, the past is important and Gauri therefore didnt fall in love with the real Jagya as she doesnt know his past. I think one of the real victims without her knowing it is Gauri. anyways so there are two facts and two decisions of Jagya in front of us. First being advancing in JA relationship and two relationship with Gauri. She has tirelessly worked and taken care of his family and uphold her patni dharma. Didnt she deserve the truth and Gauri also. Thats my point guys? so I do think that Jagya is wrong. And if he gets married to Gauri then he's indeed definately wrong and no excuse of child marriage can excuse this.

Originally posted by: nureat01

Good points.....Jagya sounds like the most disgusting ASS on the planet right now and CHILD MARRIAGE is the LAST excuse that should be used to justify his actions.....he has CHEATED on his wife, pure and simple.....an ADULT wife....this is not child's play.....and he is no child either.....he is full aware of what he is doing so let's stop justifying this in the name of the evils of child marriage.....then toh tomorrow every second man will come up with excuses of this sort....Oh I was 18 when I got married so obviously I HAVE to cheat on my wife by the the time I hit 25😕😆.....do men EVER grow up?? They can use the "I was a child when I got married" excuse for life that way, haan?😆

He is blatantly ruining two lives....doesn't matter how annoying grown version of Anandi is.....nobody deserves this kind of treatment.....I don't buy this "pure love" argument either.....he's cheating EVERYONE and is doing everything for his own selfish motives....where's the "love" in this?

This show has become SO disgusting that words also can't suffice....I sometimes wonder if Avika and Avinash watch this now and wonder HOW such sweet characters could be ruined in such a HORRIBLE manner🤢🤢🤢

Originally posted by: nureat01

@Divmath: Yes clearly our views differ DIAMETRICALLY on this, no doubt.

I do not support infidelity, period. That's the way I look at it.....nothing justifies it....no "I fell in love" arguments justify it....He is married to Anandi.....he can't choose to forget that per his convenience just cuz now he feels he's "fallen in love".....a man who can't be honest in his relationships does not deserve any respect or sympathy in my viewpoint. Nothing excuses his behavior......if choices were taken away from him, they were also taken away from Anandi.....but she being a girl in a rural area faced ten folds more pressures.....SHE didn't go out and cheat on him, did she?? A person loses all semblance of respect when they CHEAT on their spouse, in my opinion....the lowest form of behavior and I will not condone it.

The most unbelievable aspect ofcourse is how COOLLY he is going about cheating on Anandi and aaraaaaaam se enjoying his romance with Gauri without an OUNCE of guilt or shame.....How can that be justified??? This is "love"???

Anandi deserves basic respect as a HUMAN BEING atleast.....He may now find her annoying or whatever but is there no respect for the FRIENDSHIP atleast that they shared at one point either?.....nothing?.....pathetic.....A relationship born out of INFIDELITY and cheating on your spouse is something I will never condone.

Originally posted by: divmath

Dont get me wrong...I am NOT supporting infidelity here !! neither have I supported Jagya's behavior...if you have read my posts you would know that ! so we are on the same page on that aspect....

However, in this context and show I see this situation not as infidelity but as a basic right being taken away from a person due to child marriage. period !! Hmmmm I still have to disagree.....I think it's more of a situation of a WEAK MINDED and COWARDLY person making excuses to get his way in life. A person without principles, without honor and without the COURAGE to be honest.....and since he is doing all of this in context of cheating on his wife....(no matter how it came to be), it can only be called infidelity, plain and simple.


I never said Anandi does not have a right...she does very much have a right to choose her partner.....If this same situation happened with Anandi and if the CV's had shown Anandi falling in love with someone else, I would have wholeheartedly supported her as well...LOL so even Anandi's infidelity is justified if it should so happen?? Hey bhagwaan what is Indian TV coming to *shakes head*😆.....well the point in this case is that Anandi DIDN'T do that....and she won't either....she may be a whiny crybaby but even SHE seems to have more honor and principles than this loser Jagya.....At this point the writers of this show have just made a joke out of every relationship.....especially marriage where these ppl are playing musical chairs per their convenience. .


! so yes our views are world's apart...just because we are looking at it from different angles....as I said earlier...there is no single optimal solution to this problem...because solutions vary based on the formulation of the problem....😊 Actually I think there is an optimal solution....this show should END.....it's long overdue😆.....this situation is just stupidly convoluted for the sake of it by the writers.....lame storytelling.