Originally posted by: Yashpa54
What more can you expect of Priya?
1) Forgave him for all his kaands on his birthday.
2) Forgave him very easily during Vedika fiasco
3) Risked her own life to save him.
Yet he needs a confirmation every day that she loves him. Which women will risk her own life or do all the above things if she didn’t love him? Did he once ask Priya if anything else happened to her during the kidnapping after knowing the truth? No, he just threw her away to stay at the Soods. How hard it is for him to understand, why she hid it? He himself has overheard Priya so many times, what she thinks of him? Why a daily reminder then like an Alarm, which he can put on snooze repeatedly? Such kind of men are frustrating. Before flaunting Vedika as his “ex-lover” cheaply, what the hell was he thinking? He is ridiculous and disgusting and toxic
She did, but didn't he also. He stood up for her every time his family insults her. He also did forgive her when he found out about MS attempt to kill him, she hid that, it was wrong, yet he tried understanding her because of which it didn't become a big scene. When Priya put her life at risk, lied to him, got Akki-Shivi married, it hurt him, broke his trust, yet he decided to give another chance. Basically my point is, both equally lag somewhere. he didn't throw her away, he just needs time.
He was angry, and when people are angry they tend make wrong decision, they speak stuff they don't mean, they push people away. And about Priya, when the confession happened, I read some comments on how Priya couldn't say it back and she hesitates. I get that because, it is difficult for her to express, but she does through her actions and Ram knows that. All I am saying is that he is just scared of losing her, so he gets angry and upset on all small small things. I am not saying he needs her I love you all the time, but when she does things for him, it makes him happy, and that man needs happiness in his life, so does Priya.
I am not defending Ram, but just trying to empathise with the poor soul. I will accept using the term "ex-lover" is unnecessary there and he shouldn't have. But He has done no sin, mistakes, yes, a lot of them but none of them is a sin.