Misunderstanding your own father - Page 2

Originally posted by: Anonymmus

I am confused now, just few days ago you were bashing Priya, now u r back to Ram... Anyways, coming to the topic. Husbands from indian villages🤣 it sounded funny.... I agree what Ram said about Vedika being his ex lover was not needed here... The man tends to overreact and gets very much emotional over things. I am pretty sure he said just to instigate Priya about hiding about telling Krish instead of him, He wouldn't have done anything with Vedika and all. But he understood her when she hid abt the MS thing, if she had told this to Krish, it would have become a big scene, but Yeah Krish wasn't introduced yet then.

And about trusting the manager, remember he trusted anjali(the girl who trapped akki) instead of Priya... his brain sometimes works, no, it doesn't work, god knows how is he a good business man, but that's not it. Despite his flaws, Priya loves him, it's natural. His positivity overshadows his negative traits. And I wouldn't call him toxic, but yeah, his mistakes are to be mended properly.

And coming to your sautela line, come on, yes, he made mistakes, and he does again and again, but he is human too, no one is perfect. Ram is not the perfect son, perfect brother nor a perfect husband, no one is, not even Priya. He doesn't think before he does something. He himself says, that he was the one that spoiled Shubhu and Shivi.

So.. let's calm down and see what happens. You know half the times the promos are misleading... I am still waiting to see the "will" one where he shocks nandini by making everything in Priya's name

Originally posted by: Yashpa54

I have said it time and again that Ram is cheap and disgusting. This MCP snaps at Priya the minute he gets a chance. He is one of those husbands from Indian villages who can’t bear their wives talking to other men but can themselves sleep with anyone. Why was this disgusting and cheap person living with her so called ex-lover under one roof without informing his wife? She just trusted him despite his antics. He was lying to her while she risked her own life for him. Ask him what kind of physical pleasures this cheap and disgusting piece of a man was having with his ex-lover. And now this ganvaar and zaahil guy is doubting Priya and boasting about Vedika. Priya should spit on his face and go away. Cheap guy. And what else can you expect from a man who trusted the manager for his own father? He does not deserve a wife like Priya. He deserves to rot in hell and die alone. He deserves to be called “sautela” by his step siblings till times immemorial because such kind of disgusting people cannot respect a person who loves them unconditionally. They always run behind the people who don’t care for them. It’s better to let them suffer and rot in hell. It’s not worth it loving such a cheap and disgusting man😡😡😡

And see ram is not at all an mcp he never did anything with vedika for which he should be ashamed of yes he did a wrong thing by hiding this truth. Anyways I think ram priya fight will be solved at the end

Originally posted by: Yashpa54

That’s the problem. He takes Priya for granted and commits sins (not mistakes) with his wife. I find him cheap and disgusting. And regarding bashing - I bash Ram or Priya on the basis of whoever is creating a problem for RAYA. Right now Ram is a problem creator for RAYA.

Originally posted by: Mangs1303

Oh Ram has screwed up bigtime on many occasions. Unfortunately, he's rarely called out on it, because itv audiences generally give MLs a long rope. To date, I've not watched the actual episode of Ram dancing with Vedika on his birthday. But, if you see, that's never been an issue from the cvs' pov, because even Priya has never had a fb of that instance, far as I know. Instead a million fbs of the Ram-Meera dance, like he deserves the Nobility Prize for that.

Coming to his doubting his dad on the basis of a stranger's words, I see him doing a Yashpa here (no offence, Yashpa). What does our forum member do at the least provocation? He builds a worst-case scenario, partly because expecting the worst allows him to express angst and because partly, and maybe subconsciously, preparing for the worst makes it easier. I think we'd all agree that annoying as it is, it helps him cope.

Otoh, dads aren't sacrosanct. Could Ram's dad have been guilty of being less than the rather too perfect person Ram remembers? Did the resort manager provide any evidence? Did Ram defend him or have trouble accepting the truth? If yes, I wouldn't blame him too much. Though, honestly, it doesn't fit Ram's character at all, given his blindness towards his family.

Coming to the precap, the 'ex-lover' is a low blow, but his whole attitude screams provocation. I'd love Priya to tell him to go to his ex and stay away from her, but I have little hope for Priya showing some fire now.

And Yashpa, you need to tone down the venting. Some words are downright offensive.

Originally posted by: SEA05

Emotions deprive him of proper understanding, it’s sad, but it’s cured... With a frying pan between the eyes))

Originally posted by: Yashpa54

Perfect interpretation of what I do. It helps me cope up with the frustration. I don’t know how many of you did this but while watching cricket matches when India played badly in between - you start saying “gyi Haar gyi” whereas within your heart you pray “Jeet jaye”. Nevertheless that was a reality, this is a fiction.

Coming to Ram’s remark of ex-lover, it was downright cheap and disgusting. He snaps at Priya at every chance he gets. He demeans her every time. Examples being ;

1) on his birthday, the obscenity with which he was roaming with Vedika and dancing with her was just too insane. No sane husband would do that

2) In Akshay’s incident too, he didn’t trust Priya at all.

3) He only trusts Priya as per his own convenience and that’s why I hate him.

4) He is cheap no doubt about that. He only trusted Priya during his accident reveal because she saved his life and risked her own.

5) How hard it is for him to not see why Priya hid the truth of kidnapping from him? I mean why is he snapping so hard at her.

He is not even concerned about her. I am dead sure we are not going to get any good RAYA conversation for a month now because they aren’t shooting together. Also Priya will stay in Sood house for a while. And Nakul is busy. So he doesn’t shoot much for BALH anyways.

Also, coming on to - you can remain friends with your ex, it is fine you can but it is rare. And it’s complicated. Plus you have to inform your spouse about it which this man didn’t do. He had Vedika in his home for 5 months - From Diwali to Holi. How is that justified? It is cheating. Priya forgave him too easily. What I want now is this man to beg on his knees to Priya to forgive him for what he is doing. I want him to plead to Priya by rubbing his nose on her feet and ankles. I want him in a mess realising his mistake.😡😡

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I agree with Mangs. Ram is like a kid. Unlike Priya he is not a sorted person. Despite the hardships he faced and the success he achieved, there is a stubborn child inside of him. Not justifying what he said in the precap. It was a below the belt remark and Priya should give him a cold shoulder for as long as possible. But @Yashpa it was a little too extreme to curse Ram like this. He did not bring Vedika into his home to have an affair with her. Just coz two people break up doesn’t mean they can’t remain friends. Yes Ram continued to love her till the day ge got married to Priya. Infact even before that after his wedding got fixed, mentally and emotionally he distanced himself from Vedika subconsciously. The moment he took those vows, the feelings he had for Vedika changed. She was no longer his lost love but a friend with whom he had shared beautiful memories in the past. It’s another thing Vedika spoilt it by trying to separate Ram and Priya. Ram knows this and is upset but he cannot stop caring for her. He will continue to care for her like a friend should but that doesn’t mean he is cheating on Priya. He and Vedika both lost their fathers in that accident. Like it or not that will always keep them connected till the culprit is punished. I guess now that the investigation is underway and they know Shashi is a strong suspect, Ram feels duty bound to inform her about it becoz the murderer is not just his but Vedika’s culprit too. Right now Ram is being an idiot. He wants to spite Priya for sharing something with Krish and not him. What he did was despicable and hopefully Priya gives him a tough time. He will realise Priya kept him in the dark for his own sake but right now he is man who cannot think straight. Everyone os blaming him for not trusting his father. But what should he believe? All he knows is his father tried to fulfil all his wishes despite not being financially sound at that time. He was sad and till the time Krish showed up he believed he lost his father to fate and not to someone’s ploy. In his heart he knows his father was an honest man whose core was his integrity and on the other hand he cannot dismiss the scenarios around him. And had it been Priya in his place, she would have stood by her belief coz she is more strong and practical. She never lets her emotions get the better of her but Ram has always been vulnerable as a person. That’s y that horrible family of his gets their way by emotionally blackmailing him and that’s how Vedika got away despite breaking his heart in the worst possible manner. Ram is emotionally very weak and that’s y Priya compliments him perfectly.

And the main thing is I don't trust ekta maiya

Originally posted by: Real_Me

I am one of the people who think VK isn’t a mahaan as Ram projected him to be. So, I think there is a validity in Ram’s suspicion, mainly because the adult Ram himself doesn’t seem to have a clue how his father acquired the Audi and land. And Nandu too doesn’t explain except saying her husband was not a criminal,

Originally posted by: Anonymmus

I am confused now, just few days ago you were bashing Priya, now u r back to Ram... Anyways, coming to the topic. Husbands from indian villages🤣 it sounded funny.... I agree what Ram said about Vedika being his ex lover was not needed here... The man tends to overreact and gets very much emotional over things. I am pretty sure he said just to instigate Priya about hiding about telling Krish instead of him, He wouldn't have done anything with Vedika and all. But he understood her when she hid abt the MS thing, if she had told this to Krish, it would have become a big scene, but Yeah Krish wasn't introduced yet then.

And about trusting the manager, remember he trusted anjali(the girl who trapped akki) instead of Priya... his brain sometimes works, no, it doesn't work, god knows how is he a good business man, but that's not it. Despite his flaws, Priya loves him, it's natural. His positivity overshadows his negative traits. And I wouldn't call him toxic, but yeah, his mistakes are to be mended properly.

And coming to your sautela line, come on, yes, he made mistakes, and he does again and again, but he is human too, no one is perfect. Ram is not the perfect son, perfect brother nor a perfect husband, no one is, not even Priya. He doesn't think before he does something. He himself says, that he was the one that spoiled Shubhu and Shivi.

So.. let's calm down and see what happens. You know half the times the promos are misleading... I am still waiting to see the "will" one where he shocks nandini by making everything in Priya's name

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Bold: But when he is fighting for his father he needs to be strong enough to not fall for any manipulations instead of giving up

True, I absolutely agree to that. He gets manipulated so easily, he needs to learn to keep his mind strong, I don't know when he will learn that. I think he needs a therapist, he really needs to clear his mind.