Misunderstanding your own father - Page 4

Originally posted by: Mangs1303

Oh Ram has screwed up bigtime on many occasions. Unfortunately, he's rarely called out on it, because itv audiences generally give MLs a long rope. To date, I've not watched the actual episode of Ram dancing with Vedika on his birthday. But, if you see, that's never been an issue from the cvs' pov, because even Priya has never had a fb of that instance, far as I know. Instead a million fbs of the Ram-Meera dance, like he deserves the Nobility Prize for that.

Coming to his doubting his dad on the basis of a stranger's words, I see him doing a Yashpa here (no offence, Yashpa). What does our forum member do at the least provocation? He builds a worst-case scenario, partly because expecting the worst allows him to express angst and because partly, and maybe subconsciously, preparing for the worst makes it easier. I think we'd all agree that annoying as it is, it helps him cope.

Otoh, dads aren't sacrosanct. Could Ram's dad have been guilty of being less than the rather too perfect person Ram remembers? Did the resort manager provide any evidence? Did Ram defend him or have trouble accepting the truth? If yes, I wouldn't blame him too much. Though, honestly, it doesn't fit Ram's character at all, given his blindness towards his family.

Coming to the precap, the 'ex-lover' is a low blow, but his whole attitude screams provocation. I'd love Priya to tell him to go to his ex and stay away from her, but I have little hope for Priya showing some fire now.

And Yashpa, you need to tone down the venting. Some words are downright offensive.

I think whatever goes on between raya its because of both of their faults. May be one's fault is bigger than the other but still its from both sides.

Agree, ram mentioning vedika as ex lover was a low blow but for once we should try to understand his pov where he is coming from.

Raya may be physically close now but still Priya holds back in confessing her feelings. Ram is more expressive. I know he keeps saying Priya dont have to say it in words, it reflects in her acts and caring nature but still words are important. Nahi hote toh tbose magical three words har koi kyu sunna chahta.

Now ram has even said those three words but still priya being priya still feeling overtly shy and awkward around him. They have not given any consummation scene but after the pregnancy rumor wala episode i guess its established now that they have done it. So by this logic, morning after doing it with her husband, she jumps/hesitate/not meet eyes with slightest of accidental touches with him. Mean who does that. But this is priya, she is like that only. Trust, faith, the feeling of belongingness in a relationship is always earned from both sides but priya due to her reserve nature takes lots of time in this.

As ram keeps saying that one moment she is close and other moment she makes him feel that he doesn't even know her....so priya keeps giving him these vibes and ram is like a kid emotional, vulnerable, seeking attention. He needs to be told multiple times, assured of her love.

Now in this situation he finds out priya has again hidden something from him and that too about her safety. She could have got killed. Whatever her intentions were this is something unacceptable that your partner will hide something as big news as this and moreover she shared it with her college crush. In this situation, character like ram ia bound to feel jealous, heartbroken and he dis exactly that.

Yes ex lover remark was in bad taste but people tend to go overboard specially people like ram when they are angry. So he is wrong here but he can't be termed as cheap and disgusting and called several names for it.

Likewise priya behaved totally according to jer character. There was no need to hide this big news of kidnapping from her own husband. Yes he panics, yes he worries a lot but because he loves her. But still she hid it because she thought it is for the greater good of his father's case.

So both of them are in their character, they didn't do anything for which they deserve any strong reaction. Their biggest problem is raya still lacks faith amd understanding of a married couple.

Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Ram taking vedika's name in his and priya's fight was cheap af but the most horrible thing was misunderstanding his own father on the basis of a stranger I mean seriously dude seriously??? And with this doubt he will find his father's murderers wow hats off to the cvs for such a brilliant script👏. So I think it's a first step towards garbage land ekta maiya will never change🤬

Dekhna ek din uska dead father bhi shaayad vapas aayega😅😅😅😅