The Magic there was ... - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

38

Views

3.8k

Users

16

Likes

116

Frequent Posters

lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: leo4ever

what is rams mistake? asking for some moments with daughter ?

priya made it clear tat there is no raya, she till now hant told hm shown him any love any afection and this week is the first time she has actually odne so by giving him her lfei9pihu) before that there was no indiaction tat they hve future as a couple none so for both it was a single parent for kid so his gong to court wasnto amistake it was the nager hurt caused by priya insnesnitve and casual sorry!!

this is what i love from that moment of hosp how both characters have evolved, dffphases diff feelnigs diff reactions
  1. ram expecting love, vunerable shwing conflict betwwen ager nad lve love conquring
  2. priya remorse hurt guilt shame (v late but there) then love but in btwn with sis duties
  3. ram giving up life ot save priya
  4. priy givng up her lfie to give ram his life - pihu
th fault both in ther own forgot pihu needs both parents not turn by turn parentnig !!

there is no eog if ther was he wldnt have talekd to her on phone called her up , aked help, talked o her at door, there is hestation that uff i wanna hold her in my arms not let her og anywhere tell her that pihu is in the rooom i am out coz i cant bear the pai of u not being there in tat room , but i cnt coz i dnt knw if u wnt me too
priya at this moment is mainly just a mum and a mum who trusts her kids dad alot but i wan a lil more of the wife back in her so that she set straignts her lil sis


Very true - No ego here. Neither have it. I don't think Ram's being too egotistical. Yes, there's the regular healthy dose there (yes, I said healthy ego, lol.), but mostly, he's still smarting from teh biggest shock of his life, and doesn't know how to deal with it. And he wants his daughter.

Thanks!
lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#12

Thank you :)
leo4ever thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: mahumita_mitra

Dearest.lilmzsunshine,not today episode,but your writing makes me

cry, i am a mother so I feel so so bad to watch today,s episode.
Ram and Sakshi both are superb,no comment about their acting👏
But today i never forgive Ram, you say "his anger' , I dont agree with you. What anger dear?? The anger which spoil his child dreams,the anger which destroy his lovely wife?? His selfish attitude bring sorrow two woman,s life . His men-ego,his foolishness ,his anger always harmful for his family.

If Priya did a wrong with him,if not his wife Mrs.Ayashya Ram kapoor did BIggg wrong in court ?? why he forgive her guilty?? uff same old story😉: priya asked him to forgive her in jail scee she gae him her qsam k ab aap ayesha ku iss baray mei ik lafz nhn boleine mei nay forgive kia!! his wife died! the sis she loved forgave, said k for me her happiness is everythng was on raods left by family reg with his khndan kid so he gave her the name!! he was a widower if u forget😆
how can he give his name to her, who destroy their life???

how can he allow that woman to sleep with his daughter??? yes yaha i agree he shouldnt have left ! but now precap shws he is aware of the depth of ayesha n will keep her at distance
Pl ,ram,s fan dont always praise Ram ,some time hate him. y? he left pihu with ayesha is that such a ig crime to use word hate? i love raya i love rayap, i can dislike but cant hate any 3!!

fosla thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 13 years ago
#14
Shreya
What a beautiful post!! And its true to the core!! Sakshi was fantabulous in the scene when she breaks down before Ram! Every mom could relate to the bed scene where she looks out for her!
And Ram .. I just dont' know how its possible to love him anymore but he makes me. With all that baggage he is carrying and the selfish tag hurled at him by his family but the one who is at bay is just silently pouring out to him. He is so broken! Today's scene was the RaYa I fell in love iwht too!
Today was the 1st Jab we cried moment for me! Their helplessness was just sooo beautifully portrayed! I couldn agree more with the hug! The timing is so wrong but his efforts were just soo there for the ones to see!
fanraya thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine


Thank you! I'm glad you liked it.

You know, you hit the nail when you talk about the sudden change in the fight. I feel, he almost WANTS Priya to fight, so he can get his anger out. He WANTS to get the anger out and away so he can mov e on. Isn't that lovely? Or maybe I'm crazy :). ( NO you are not crazy I also feel the same way..😃 ) But I think he wanted her to fight, to put UP a fight, so he can WIN, and sort of feel justified. He still hasn't come to terms with the fact that she did this, disappeared on him. A child in hiding is even more of an offense, but it sure is a A LOT to come to terms with, and forget. And he's right in all of it. It's his prerogative. ( exactly my POV too )He would have given the world up for her, and she took that world and disappeared. Only to tell him it was there all along, just hidden from him, coz she chose so. And he doesn't understand why (honestly, neither do I. That was one weak story line by Ekta, no fault of the actors of course). So anger is justified.
( I fail to understand the reason, just to drag the story, but hey, I understand Priya thought about pihu and went to Dubai, she did not want to have child in Jial, okie, but what about calling your dear hubby and telling him about it.. in all these 5 years she could not do that? really? I really think this was really a weak story line on writer part, come on he is "THE Ram Kapoor" He could have a separate life in Dubai.. he could do anything to save Priya so the whole staying away form him does not make any sense to me, it just does not fit in the story)

But Priya is so understanding of it all. And she's being patient. I just LOVED how she said she's waiting for her to come back. So she hopes. And I beyond love every time she thinks things will EVENTUALLY be okay b/w her and Ram. She hasn't moved on, hasn't lost hope.
( Yes thats the reason we all love her.❤️.)

And that, I think, gets Ram royally upset :). You know, sort of how when you're mad at your hubby, or your mom, or your kid, or sibling, and thye're just standing there being patient and smiling, while you rant - doesn't it just aggravate you even more that they're waiting there patiently, smiling, while you rant away in frustration. That's what Ram is feeling right now. And that's what Priya is doing right now. Albeit with tears in her eyes, not a smile on her face.
( You said it all, so true...he can not understand why she is not fighting with him he really wanted to fight with her in court, but somehow sari hawa nikal gayi, He is just angry,stunned with her behavior, he is not seeing things clearly right now, he loves her so much that he took a bullet for her but he also wants to hurt her badly, that is the reason he wanted to take pihu away from her, but at the same time he is not at all happy..Poor Ram I actually feel for him more than Priya..
I loved the scene where all three of them could not sleep, all them were missing each other.. It was really beautiful..You want to hurt the person you love the most.. It is so true.. 🤗

After a long time there was a Raya magic on screen, just so beautiful..
Ah, I'll stop. I think the more I write about this episode, the more I want to write. So I'll just stop.

Thanks for your post. Lovely.

-S


Thanks again for this awesome post.. I am sure soon our dear Ram will melt and get Priya back to KM, Did you notice today? He did not change their Green room,😳 I was so happy to see pihu sleeping on that couch.. that was a beautiful touch..
Edited by fanraya - 13 years ago
lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: mahumita_mitra

Dearest.lilmzsunshine,not today episode,but your writing makes me

cry, i am a mother so I feel so so bad to watch today,s episode.
Ram and Sakshi both are superb,no comment about their acting
But today i never forgive Ram, you say "his anger' , I dont agree with you. What anger dear?? The anger which spoil his child dreams,the anger which destroy his lovely wife?? His selfish attitude bring sorrow two woman,s life . His men-ego,his foolishness ,his anger always harmful for his family.

If Priya did a wrong with him,if not his wife Mrs.Ayashya Ram kapoor did BIggg wrong in court ?? why he forgive her guilty??
how can he give his name to her, who destroy their life???

how can he allow that woman to sleep with his daughter???
Pl ,ram,s fan dont always praise Ram ,some time hate him.


Awww, thanks so much!

Well, a few things -

You're right, he is *hurting* those he loves. But isn't that our birthright? And that's because it's THOSE very people we trust to stand by ourside no matter how much we rant and rave at them in moments of frustration? So, isn't he showing his 'apnaaiyat' to Prya? His right, his duty, his compassion, his loneliness of the last 5 years, all pent up? Can you imagine the gut wrenching, heart stopping pain when he found out she was dead? When he gave it all up, and locked himself in the room? When the ONLY thing that got him to eat was the ghost of Priya? When he smiles through life, JUST FOR PRIYA? So, see, he loved her, loves her, and will ALWAYS love her. But yes, he's mad. Very very very mad. Coz SHE caused that pain. I'm not saying she was right, wrong, or anything in between. And it doesnt' matter whether she was right or wrong. What matters is that he doesn't UNDERSTAND it. He doesnt' understand why the world was taken away from him. Why, when no one had ever done anything for him, Priya came and made a statue of Lala ji for him? Why, when no one had cared that he was hooked on pills, Priya came and got him independent of them. Why, when Priya loved him, recognized that he was playing games, still told him she loved him. And when he did understand it all, when he reciprocated it all, she left ... poof! Up, up and away ... gone. When he had dreams in his eyes of a family with her. So, he can't understand that THAT same Priya would leave him. No justification amounts to any sense next to the world of pain inflicted on him. Not when he trusted her even when SHE told him she wanted a divorce. He KNEW it was an act, he KNEW she loved him, and in the end, to MAKE HER HAPPY, he went with it. So THAT's how much he loved her. And, from his POV, she deserted him, knowing what it would mean to him.

yes, she has a side to her story. Yes, she did what she thought was right, and she did it for HIM. But he doesn't understand.

And now, he's not doing all this to punish her - well, a small part of him probably wants his pound of flesh, yes - but he just wants his daughter. That's all. And he's not wrong in that. It's just that it comes with a price, a price he is UNAWARE that Priya is paying. He saw a glimpse of what it's cost her, today. He'll see more, and the Golu that he is, he'll mellow down.

Priya - yes, she's the epidome of strength and class. How she didn't get down on her knees and beg him to give her back, I dunno. I would've broken down a million times over.

And that's our RaYa - they give more than they get. They love w/o any qualms, they show it w/o any thought of consequences, pride, or ego. They just love.

Hope I was able to explain why he's 'mad'. He has a right to, yaar. He was short changed out of the 5 years of his daughter's life that he dreamed of having with Priya. I know Priya didn't do it out of malice. But it still happened, and that too, done by Priya. To ghussa to bunta hai na?

But he'll forgive, and forget. And all will be good in RaYa's world, soon.

:)

-S
lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: mahumita_mitra

Dearest.lilmzsunshine,not today episode,but your writing makes me

cry, i am a mother so I feel so so bad to watch today,s episode.
Ram and Sakshi both are superb,no comment about their acting
But today i never forgive Ram, you say "his anger' , I dont agree with you. What anger dear?? The anger which spoil his child dreams,the anger which destroy his lovely wife?? His selfish attitude bring sorrow two woman,s life . His men-ego,his foolishness ,his anger always harmful for his family.

If Priya did a wrong with him,if not his wife Mrs.Ayashya Ram kapoor did BIggg wrong in court ?? why he forgive her guilty??
how can he give his name to her, who destroy their life???

how can he allow that woman to sleep with his daughter???
Pl ,ram,s fan dont always praise Ram ,some time hate him.


Oh, and Ayesha - she's not worth a mention.

He hasn't forgiven her. He TOLERATES her for Priya's sake. If that isn't a testament of his love and respect for Priya, then I dunno what is. This woman changed it all for RaYa, singlehandedly in my opinion, and Ram knows this. He just tolerates her for Priya, coz Priya loves her like a sister.

See ... he is mahaan too :)

-S
lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: fosla

Shreya

What a beautiful post!! And its true to the core!! Sakshi was fantabulous in the scene when she breaks down before Ram! Every mom could relate to the bed scene where she looks out for her!
And Ram .. I just dont' know how its possible to love him anymore but he makes me. With all that baggage he is carrying and the selfish tag hurled at him by his family but the one who is at bay is just silently pouring out to him. He is so broken! Today's scene was the RaYa I fell in love iwht too!
Today was the 1st Jab we cried moment for me! Their helplessness was just sooo beautifully portrayed! I couldn agree more with the hug! The timing is so wrong but his efforts were just soo there for the ones to see!


Thanks fosla!

I read your analysis and I love them, so this is very high praise coming from you.

Yep, the desire to comfort was poignant, so OBVIOUSLY there, but just not strong enough for a hug just yet. I think the hug would have been ill placed, just yet.

I'm sure it's not far, and I'll absolutely lovvveee the journey leading up to it.

Oh, and I loved him too!!!!! While I felt like giving her a comforting hug, I dunno why I felt he was more in need of one today. I could almost hear his world shaking up and going topsy-turvy, all broken. Remember when she cried on their wedding day in the car? And he totally freaked out and didn't know how to react? Well imagine him now?

Through the entire scene, I was like - She is soo much in pain, and YET one strong woman. AND He is sooo confused and baffled right now, and starting the journey to pain, to eventual realization, and then forgiveness.

This is one SWEET show, when Ekta isn't messing it up.

-S
Madhumita_Mitra thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#19
I dont agree with you,it is not only matter between RAYA,it is a matter of sweet,innocent,loving child angel Pihoo,she is also effected.
lilmzsunshine thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: fosla

Shreya

What a beautiful post!! And its true to the core!! Sakshi was fantabulous in the scene when she breaks down before Ram! Every mom could relate to the bed scene where she looks out for her!
And Ram .. I just dont' know how its possible to love him anymore but he makes me. With all that baggage he is carrying and the selfish tag hurled at him by his family but the one who is at bay is just silently pouring out to him. He is so broken! Today's scene was the RaYa I fell in love iwht too!
Today was the 1st Jab we cried moment for me! Their helplessness was just sooo beautifully portrayed! I couldn agree more with the hug! The timing is so wrong but his efforts were just soo there for the ones to see!


Oh, I'm Haya btw, not Shreya :)

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".