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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz


I see...since you couldn't answer any of Kaushik's valid points, you resort to making fun of them. Not cool, Sakshi Fan.😆



Mam, with due regards, I hv already put forward my opinion in above posts . I am no lawyer n I don't hv the habit n time to argue endlessly. That's ur opinion n this is mine. And we all are entitled to say that in open forum. Repeating things n twisting facts and making assumptions is not gonna change the story. So kindly support your fav character n let me support mine n enjoy the show.
Edited by -SakshisFan- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
you what i feel i feel like a kid whoes parents are getting divorced and is forced to listen to the good and bad of parents by allrelatives! 😭😭
it is the show for raya , of two ppl woh love each toher even though if they arnt perfect they are human they make mistakes they love each other with imprefections!!
my take:
  1. ram is not a sanint, it is being potrayed that in anger you make rash decsions he is just being human
  2. priya for me is more at fault: I have made peace with whole donig it for ram leap all coz it had to happen coz of leap however her : act of leaving ram behosh and asknig rajat to call his fmaily, to leave form airport without meeting, to think of ayesha khush before pihu and her and ram, yes that makes me angry at her- y so selfless??
  3. findin the logic in the leap and trying to make one seem as bad is futile coz it was the most loosely directed track in the sohw, it ddnt do justice and loosley scripted!! however we need ot accept it as now, the leap has happened priya took the decison now it is thr curent onyl !! the consequneces of the decison , if we keep getting into how the decsion was good bad it will just be circles and nothing else!!
  4. however now that when ram is aware she is here alive, i can understand where is anger is coming form but it dnst make his action right as well
  5. same is with priya i can understand - partly her stance but her actions arnts right either!1
  6. more than raya it is the lack of family supprot that is prolongating it!!

ram anger :

  • he just cant believe that jab woh pagalu ki tarah ik mare huay bande ka case reopen karane mei then prove karne mei lkaga hua tha guiilt mei k cldnt give her a kid cldnt fulfil her iwsh there is light!1 turns out she is laive and away y? coz she WANTED HIM TO MOVE ON, she thought that it would be best but that is not the anger the anger is that -she actualyl thought that she can be ofrghotten that ram can be happy wiothout her, is that the trust she has on his love? she was ready ot give up marraige ot prove herp oint second time she is keepnig her marriage below the point0 even in nikki sachai ram ddn like k marriage k upar she wanted to being out sach, what matters is that marraige is above!
  • it was solely by chance!! he could have lived his whole life pining while she knwlingly kept him away kept hersef away and he may even die without ever knwing he had a daughter!! - we have to accept priya ddnt ocme to reunite pihu she just is here coz of by chance!!
  • so how to vent it out? - u kept me away i will give u pain , u wanted me to move on , i will pretend ot mve on in fornt o u so that u frelasie that altohugh u say iu want me to move on u cant tolerate anyone else with me even if it is ur sis!

Priya :

  • she is here, wanted to run away finally stayed back, her stance- han glati hugai sorry really irked me!! i lay the blame on the dialoge writers they could have made it more convincing the whoel k theek hugya na now what is too irritiating for me, i dnt see enough guilt
  • she repeatedlty puts ayesha above ram pihu and herself!!
  • she wants to go away so that ram ayesha khush can live
  • she said how can i allow him , it is both ka right she cant soley allow nor can he!!

where they both are wrong!

they both are putting, anger, family, guilt above thier daughter!! they are nto getting that ik parent k saath reh k pihu will nbever b happy, priya also assumes that only mum is imp , but she shd accept that ram is also imp, same ram shd get that sep a kid from mum is bad!! so for me no one is a siat and noone is culprit both are just vunerable humans !! ps: ram can ealsily file a custody case coz he can say wife took away kid o escape law and want her but he wont do that same way priya wont use bigamy which speaks of thier love !! however custody can be filed even in cuples sep so both can file a cusotdy case but noone is saint i blame mainly vik neha sudhir for not being able ot tlak to both ram n priya!! sudhir shd also have told her that the pain of ram while alobnre in five yrs when was tellng of his own, same way rajat neha shd share so that priya ka disllusoin ktam hujaye k ram is ok wthout her and at the same time someone shd tell ram plainly thatu knw how it is to nto be with mum dnt give the pain to ur kid he will get it, all shd speak of pihu not of ram priya!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
Well summed up zehra di! W8in for d day wen ram v/s priya wud end...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-



Mam, with due regards, I hv already put forward my opinion in above posts . I am no lawyer n I don't hv the habit n time to argue endlessly. That's ur opinion n this is mine. And we all are entitled to say that in open forum. Repeating things n twisting facts and making assumptions is not gonna change the story. So kindly support your fav character n let me support mine n enjoy the show.

Uhh no "Mam",😛 this is a topic that invites debates, and if you're gonna put up an argument, expect people to counter it. And reply back to them using logic. Making a point and then backing out when somebody nullifies your arguments is NOT the way to go about in a Debate.


PS: No, NOT a Ram Kapoor fan or anything, I hardly watch this show regularly.😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

Personal digs and tribulations aside, has anybody even tried to figure out how Ram lived all these years, all alone, in the midst of friends but alone and deserted at heart, in the midst of Banquets and Parties, but really stranded on an island of Nothingness? His pain, every moment of needling pain that has consumed him, every second of having to bear Ayesha and grope for Priya in the midst of listless nights-------all of that is going un-acknowledged here.

One question:

WHAT, exactly WHAT did you want Ram to do? Accept back Priya and rush to her with open arms and flowing tears? NOT feel betrayed? NOT give vent to the emotions that rush within him like a tsunami after learning he has been a Goddamn FATHER for FIVE LONG years and not had a hint?


All Priya lovers, pray explain to me...what should he have done? 😒

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mahesh78

Kal tho had he kar de year, family photo : Ram, Peehu and Conda?Priya ko hurt karne ke chakkar me Kush ok Bhai dono ne bhula diya year, 😆


yup it was definitely a family photo yaar.. Ram took photo with his ELDER N YOUNGER DAUGHTER🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
HATTS off to u moi princess really a great post with valid point i mean we know that ki both have made some wrong decision in their life just the difference is that ki priya has taken wrong decision 5 YEARS and ram is taking wrong decision now...
wow both are wrong but this problem could be sought out easily but MR.kapoor (the character )is making this problem complicated and huge i know its not easy for him to digest that his wife (whom he use to say he loves her allot 😕)is alive and that to he is having his own child his own flesh that is really hard for him to swallow the truth but it doesn't mean that giving pain and mental stress to priya is right thing will this kind of behavior is done by enemy only well we know he is angry but this is not the solution i mean making priya jealous by CHIPKUYING with ayesha that really a bad move and moreover he is crossing limits i mean taking family picture with woh bhi ayeshaconda kay sath saying family picture but if u called this is ur family than where the hell was kush that time after all according to him ayesha uski patni hai toh kush uska beta hai 😕 tab usko yaad nahi ayi kush ki wow that ridiculous and the reason we know just to make priya jealous its really a kiddish move

and sab priya kay wrong move ko point off kar well we know that was really a wrong decision but have any buddy thought ki in which circumstances priya did take that decision i mean how much she was suffering first she got jailed without any reason and got separated and than she met with an accident phir uskay baad laut kay aayi toh dekha sab uskay maut ka matam bana rahay hai phir going to dubai she got biggest shock that she is pregnant and uskay baad she called to ram which due to bad luck she couldn't contact him and she listen him talking to another girl and every buddy is POINTING that part ki priya ko ram pay trust nahi tha tabhi usnay phone rakh diya wohh that really not an excuse i mean agar if i were i her place toh shayad mein bhi itna sab PHYSICAL, MENTAL pressure sahan nahi karti i mean look at the state of her when she took this decision well i am not supporting but if its true ki itna jhalnay kay baad koi bhi sahi decision nahi lay pata
well abhi toh sab gadbadh chal raha hope ki ram kuch aisa na kar baithay ki he don't have time to regret
Edited by parulkhare13 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Personal digs and tribulations aside, has anybody even tried to figure out how Ram lived all these years, all alone, in the midst of friends but alone and deserted at heart, in the midst of Banquets and Parties, but really stranded on an island of Nothingness? His pain, every moment of needling pain that has consumed him, every second of having to bear Ayesha and grope for Priya in the midst of listless nights-------all of that is going un-acknowledged here.

One question:

WHAT, exactly WHAT did you want Ram to do? Accept back Priya and rush to her with open arms and flowing tears? NOT feel betrayed? NOT give vent to the emotions that rush within him like a tsunami after learning he has been a Goddamn FATHER for FIVE LONG years and not had a hint?


All Priya lovers, pray explain to me...what should he have done? 😒


no one is telling him to accept her back instantly... no one is saying that his anger is not justified... but wht he is doing to punish her is also not right.. he should hv talked to her.. shouted at her.. asked her for explanations.. i knw they r not enough but taking away her child from her n flaunting da conda just to make her jealous is childish🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago

Its BANG ON...⭐️

I really want someone to TELL PRIYA...

"Think about YOURSELF FOR ONCE"

Am not sure how old this daily is but i know Priya has always been shown to think about others first.

A Senior Character in BALH should have this convo with her,can make a very good episode...

ALL this so called PRIYA KI GALTIYA is because she never thought selfish😭


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rainna


Its BANG ON...⭐️

I really want someone to TELL PRIYA...

"Think about YOURSELF FOR ONCE"

Am not sure how old this daily is but i know Priya has always been shown to think about others first.

A Senior Character in BALH should have this convo with her,can make a very good episode...

ALL this so called PRIYA KI GALTIYA is because she never thought selfish😭



yes Rainna i agree with u on that.. for once priya should think about herself

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